how to say NO/DILI to your suitors ug sa gpanguyaban nimu?

[monrose29]

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so kay deli man ka maka say og NO sa imong ka ayo maka uyab mo duha bisan deli ka ayo ka inlove niya.. asa man mas sakit ana.. imo sya prangkahan og storya or mosogot ka nga murag plastic lang imong gipakita nga feelings kay lagi di ka maka say og NO....

[rebelde]

sugta dayon buwagi.

[xiaomai]

sugta dayon buwagi.

d pud ko ingon ana wuie..

[xiaomai]

so kay deli man ka maka say og NO sa imong ka ayo maka uyab mo duha bisan deli ka ayo ka inlove niya.. asa man mas sakit ana.. imo sya prangkahan og storya or mosogot ka nga murag plastic lang imong gipakita nga feelings kay lagi di ka maka say og NO....

wa man siya buot oist.. dman kasabot ug simple ra nga storya

[Fern]

just tell them you engaged to someone naa karon states or wahtever..

[jimmy128]

inevitable na na dili ma sakitan ang lalaki oi..

labi na if serious ila pag panguyab...

trust me.. it will always hurt..

boys have to learn how to deal with it

[GOthique]

+++ just be honest.. tell them what u really feel than giving them false hopes

[wulf13]

honesty could hurt but mas sakit kung imo palaomon sa wala hehehhehe go girl you can do it.....

[ierolennail]

its very hard to say no..we knw rejection hurts a lot especially if the person's intentions are sincere. but it would be very much difficult and complicated to pretend that it will work, or it's okay. we got to face the facts that somethings just cant be yours, or we just cant give what they want. being straight and frank seems harsh, but its the only way if avoiding the person slowly wont work..in my case, iv done this a lot of times..we cnt force ourselves to like people (more than friends)..its either we suffer, or they accept the hurt..but honestly, di mnsd lalim mu say NO oie..bsan di au ko gnhn sa person,i still find it hard..maluoy man gud ko..but we cnt hang on to that kind of situation for the sake of pity..but sometimes, naa lng jud mga tao na super dili kasabot..tarungon nato ug ingon na dili pwede...mugara hinuon, mamugos,etc...so, mao na..ngita nuon next level na lagot..hehehe

[xiaomai]

ok...

Just tell him what really is the reason kung why d jud pwede nga magkadaun mo... pasabta cya... tell him everything... para di cya magduda.... if he really loves you he will understand and if possible can w8 nimo hangtod madawat na cya sa girl... kai as they says, "love can wait" hehehhee... if di jud cya kasabot di nana love... obsession nana.. ehehhehe... if that's happen palayo nlang daan.. ehhehehe

well i hope its not obsession..hehe..