Long Distance Relationships

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

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mingaw, nya tagsa ra mo work, kay maka kita og lain faet

[Nurse_Liaison]

I had one before.. i didn't last.. not advisable

[jLuspoc]

I had one before.. i didn't last.. not advisable

basin out goer isa sa inyo brad. kami man gud pod ky naa ra sa trabaho-an. bz, murag wa jud nka focus anang laag²

[histrionic0311]

i tried this, and it didn't work out for the both of us..

[treb223]

Thats ok ug wakay naganahn nga lain..stay as it is..but when sum1 arrives and u really like alot..then dont hesitate to open your legs..aw hehehe..heart diay.Bwahahahah

[kenart]

after 5 years.....We're Married!!! Of course he has to fly back to where he came from (lol) because that's where money is (hahaha), we have plans of settling here in the future, we can't be far from each other forever. I keep myself occupied with my career and my social life, yes, I still have a social life.

I'm already excited to see him again next year. take a trip together again.

It's LDR, but I'm happy, I'm happy, I'm happy

4 years and getting stronger

depende ra na sa hingtungdan, so far, in my part, it's working

we're still together,
the relationship's still strong

i don't know about others ha but ako, i don't sugarcoat, sulti lang ko sa akoang part. of course, naa man jud ang kalisod tungod sa distance, stated man ni sa mga earlier posts nako but i have no choice, i love the guy, i understand why we need to be apart. ambot lang kaha sa akong boyfriend kung naglisod ba sya sa among relationship or wala, if tinood pa ba ang iyang mga i-love-you's or dili na. if he's cheating or not.
@pnk_shadows, yeah, you're right about couples nga naa jud mga batasan nga mausab, people grow, ang problema lang if a couple grow apart tungod sa distance. nahitabo man pud na with my past relationship, after almost a year nga layo, i still love him but wala nako kasabot, sauna buotan pa kaayo, nya nikalit lang nausab, nag-love ko ug stranger, more than 3 years ko nag hold sa mga good memories namo sauna, makalibog since masabot man nako sya if layo mi, nya if duol na stranger jud.
again, take na pud ko sa risk sa LDR. i believe man gud nga distance is not the problem, naa ra man jud na sa couple unsaon pagdala. after 2 years nga layo, magkakita na jud mi sa akong bf late this month. i have fears ni-grow ni apart, fears that mag-love na pud ko ug stranger but bsan naa pa na nga mga fears, optimistic pa man ghapon ko that everything is still alright. anyway, if dili ni mag-workout, i-post lang nya nako, hikhikhik.

i'm also being honest here. so far, my LDR is ok, that is what i believe so.
okay, this one's honest, i can't speak for my boyfriend, i really can't make sure if i'm still the only one. even those people nga duol ra ilang mga partner dili man gali ka-siguro ana, ang LDR na ba, just llike what i've said before sa earlier posts nako or some thread ba to. we are not mind readers, that is why there is no way to make sure jud.
i know i love my boyfriend and i can't cheat on him no matter how lonely it gets sometimes. mao lang ni akong nahibaw-an nga sure jud ko, since i'm speaking about myself.
i feel my bf loves me, he's always telling me so. again, i am not a mind reader, for all i know he may be lying. what makes me believe him? it's trust. it's all about trust jud.
my past relationship was also long-distance. know what our problem was? it's not the distance. kung layo mi, mas constant among communication, mas na-feel nako that he loves me. kung duol, dha na ang daghang problema, makalimot sa mga important nga dates (laliman ka hasta birthday nako makalimtan kung duol ra mi! while kung layo kompleto kaayo ang greetings, naa pay advance, ang day jud, naa pa jud belated), dili nako makontak ang celfone, if motawag pud ko sa ilang house pirming wala dra. pirming kuyog barkada, daghan fling2x. tsk tsk tsk
pareha lang tanan nga relationship, ma- LDR or dili trust & fidelity lang jud gkinahanglan

of course, there is no way to confirm the partner's fidelity. dili man gali ma-confirm ug duol, layo na ba, words are cheap, and we are not mind readers. but no matter how cheap it is, we still believe it. mao gali nang naay TRUST nga gitawag.

hehehe, nice ni dah kay even though a lot of people here don't believe that long-distance relationship will work, there are a few of us nga salig jud nga mo-work. yeah, trust jud ang pinaka-foundation with this type of relationship. as for me, i don't really know if nagbinuang ba akong bf abroad or wala, akong gituhoan iya ra man intawng mga pulong. same niya, wala man sya kabalo jud if nagbinuang ba ko, tuo ra man pud sya nga love nako sya, hehehehe. which is true pud nuon.
@7DMM, yeah you're right jud. magsige kuyog, magsige pud away. labina girls, ganahan jud magpalugit, bisan unsa nalang buhaton sa guy para lang mo-smile ug balik iyang lovey. with long-distance relationship, dali ra kaayo mag-uli if naay lalisan, minutes lang, solve na dayon ang problem, ang2x magsige lalis makahurot sa load man.

wah! valentines na pud! i'm still without a date, well if you count my bestfriends, naa na date. hehhe
having this type of relationship is difficult, but i've never been happier experiencing this kind of difficulty in my entire life. i love the guy, and i know he loves me, and even though the last time we saw each other was last May of 2004, the relationship is still working. we take turns calling each other, sending each other emails, exchanging text messages, and chatting if naay taas nga time.
of course there are times when i really need him near me, labina naa if i have a problem or naay makaaway and wala ko'y ma-istoryahan at the moment, and calling him would be expensive kay taas gud kaayo ang i-istorya. by the time, makaistorya ug taas2x sa chat, solve na ang problem, or ang anger sa isa ka person ni-subside na. meaning, na-bahaw (or na-lamaw) na ang balita.
but we've learned to accept the situation, wala man pud mi mabuhat if magsige kuyog, dili jud katigom. magsige kuyog, sige pud ka-broke. of course, there's this saying "bahalag saging basta loving" but if naay mabuhat sa situation bahala na ug malayo, why not take the chance. anyway, dili man pud forever nga long-distance. if naa nay sakto nga tigom, my bf can always work here or ako bay apas niya when we're married na.
he's coming back this summer, vacation for a month. after that, next summer na pud mi magkakita. it may be lonely, but it's not that lonely jud, we have our work to keep us occupied for the months that we are apart. we're set in making this relationship work out, anha na mi mo-surrender if dili na jud kaya, pero samtang makaya pa, go go go.

saw my bf last may 2004 and will see him again mga april 2006, that's like 2 years, but then so far, ok pa man gihapon mi, email, call & text each other. occassional lalis pud. i know i love him before he went abroad to work, but now i realized i that i love so much pala, i miss him terribly & excited nako to see him next year.

[haiasi]

this thread is 7 years old grabe taasa na...

[sinxnikko]

sometimes Long distance relationship can really test ur faith ot each other and also it can really tell whether if u really meant for each other.. haha.. Ma practice man sd akong english dri.. hahaha..Gudluck sa mga naay long distance relationship..

[kRizzY_aMAtZ]

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[semahj]

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