Who wants to adopt my baby?

[warsucks]

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ayaw gyud na buhata 'Te uwahi raba ang pagbasol..

[rodsky]

...in the end blessing in disguise diay...

From my vantage point, there is no such thing as a "blessing in disguise"...in the end, your own choices, hard work, effort, determination and will to succeed will be the only thing that will ensure that you won't end up miserable in this life. Bisan nahatagan pa kag "blessing in disguise" yet you don't work hard, you don't exert effort, you have zero determination and you have NO will to succeed, sa kanal ug imburnal ra gihapon ka paingon. Be responsible. Be aggressive about it. Don't waste time. Act now.

-RODION

[DeathFox]

i always hope he would accept what great responsibility he has since its his 2nd kid that i'm carrying..
he thinks its easy to bring a kid into the world when he can't even face his own responsibility as an individual..i'd rather not post his pix or address coz i don't want anymore problems..ako pa lang pasanginlan sa iya mama kung unsay mahitabo nya..di nko ganahan ug problema..

Pitiful...
You can't even get over the fact that your just a *** toy to him...

[sabrinxy]

Pitiful...
You can't even get over the fact that your just a *** toy to him...

Know what, from ur words alone, it makes me feel more disappointed.. You just had to go overboard.. What you are saying really hurts.. I guess you really don't know how it feels to be in my situation DeathFox. How dare you say "I can't get over the fact?!" If you have nothing better to say then PLEASE don't post it! I don't need your remorse and sympathy and what else you are going to say. I have more problems to think about and I don't want another one from you.

[jlodarl]

Ako nahan nako na baby.. Pero ayaw sad ipa adopt oi.... Paningkamot para ninyo duha..

[T0xic]

bag-o rako naka read sa uban posts dire. 2nd baby na diay ni!?

what happened to the first baby!? I mean, did you also feel the same way before as now? When you got pregnant the first time, what was your bf's reaction?

Are you guys living together? Wa jud syay plan para ninyo? Kay if ingun ani sya now and then ma buntis nasad ka again, basin maka huna huna nasad unya ka ug adoption.

"Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else."

[tracernet_v2]

Know what, from ur words alone, it makes me feel more disappointed.. You just had to go overboard.. What you are saying really hurts.. I guess you really don't know how it feels to be in my situation DeathFox. How dare you say "I can't get over the fact?!" If you have nothing better to say then PLEASE don't post it! I don't need your remorse and sympathy and what else you are going to say. I have more problems to think about and I don't want another one from you.

we can understand why you are reacting that way, but also remember that this is a forum, every one is entitled to their own opinions... and some people use harsh words to let us realize some things... i suggest you do not take that too seriously, instead look at it on a better light ... but enough about that...

This is just what I think, I suggest you start moving and working on your own, and dont expect the father of your child to be there to help you... he's shown that already, n igo ra xa mohimo uban nimo, nya d moatubang sa consequences... and then what, palaban sa mga tao n dool nya, ug mogawas dayon n ikaw p ang ng.kulang...

IMHO, just stand up for the baby... children who are brought up to see their (single) parents work hard for them are often the successful people, and la k kabalo mao p diay n xa ang mghatag nimo sa hapiness and fulfillment.... at least man lng with that idea makahuna huna k to just be there for your baby, and wanting to see him grow up to be more responsible...

sak2 b....??

[joshbonz]

all i can say is be responsible and accept the consequences of your actions... if you need to adopt your baby.. then do so, learn from your mistake and not to commit it back again..

once bitten, twice shy.. learn from all of it

[darkraven]

hayhay, d taka ma blame if ing ana imong gusto mahitabo now... base sa laing thread nimo, your 21 years old, still young, possible immature decisions are made...

your reason is financial and relationship problems.... let me give my opinion one by one.
financial: d ka angay mahadlok ana, ask help sa imo family.. they will be always be there for you...
relationship: sa ako pa gisulti sa laing thread, he doesn't deserve you... ika pila naka nya gibakakan, and i think mabuhat pa ghapon na niya kay i think sayon na para nya nga bakakan ka... la pasad btaw mo nag minyo, then base sa imong laing thread, nag plan namo mag minyo... saun nalang, lifetime commitment raba na... then nahan ka nga imong hubby cge pamaka nimo??

let me rephrase DeathFOX point: gigamit lang ka nya, karon na preggy ka, adto sya magpagawas sa lain (you know what i mean). he should have stand by beside you karon nga preggy ka, pero i think wala..

na sayop naman ka, ayaw na pun-i imong sayop... be strong enough to face it...

talk to you family about this... they can help you more than we here in istorya can...

[Kenah]

I'll be giving birth this coming august and i can't afford to take care of him because of financial and relationship problems.. I just need a loving and caring family for him.. I'M DEAD SERIOUS.. pls PM me if you want to take care of my baby..

ayaw ipanghatag imong baby... ako experience day is hapit sad ko ka pa-adopt sa kong baby pero dili tuyo. ang akong sis -in law walay anak, and me is 8 , and this litte angel of mine the 8th baby is gihangyo sa akong sis-in law nga sila lang daw magpadako himoon kati-an aron sila maka-anak...( after nako mag give birth sa ila dayon mopuyo ang bata in short inig gawas sa ospital, tayming kay CS man ko kay preclampsia pa jud so I need a complete rest). sus karon, paghimo sa live birth ila naman name ang ipabutang sa parents name, then wala man sa among sabot na.ingon ato -on.. gi confront nako akong hubby.. kay iya man sis ang babae... nanghunaw kay wala xa kahibalo daw, akong gipasanginlan akong hubby nga giblind d i ko nila...maau gani kay ang OB gyne dili jud mo sign sa live birth kay madaot man daw xa kay gasiga daw ang inahan... so mao to wala mabutang ilang name sa papers, but didto nipuyo na akong baby sa ilaha..
ang ilang hause kay atbang ra sa amoa, so mobisita jud ko sa akong anak, then ang nag bantay pa jud kay ang bana sa akong sis-in law ( kay xa man ang nagwork) mag tan-aw ko sa akong anak ang nag-ilis ug diaper wala jud labot or dugo bisan gamay dili ma describe akong feelings...then ana-on sad ko sa akong mother in law nga mao daw mohilak akong baby kay sigihan nakog duaw mao daw nimata or kun akong kugusun ila daun bawion kay nihilak ang bata kay ako ang nagkugus...
Dili maagwanta ang kasakit... ako gi-ingnang akong hubby kay Nov. 1 man ko nag give birth, nga akong pangayoon nga Christmas gift mauli akong anak nako....
NAULI jud akong anak, pero naguba among relasyon sa akong mga in laws... gikontrahan jud twn ko nila mauu...niabot pa ang time nga nagbuwag pa me sa akong hubby ug 4 mos niuli ko sa amo w/ the 8 kidz wala koy trabaho ato nga time kay naa koy gamay, akong eldest at that time is 2nd year H.S> pa...

pero naka survived ra japon ko wala jud ko nalimot sa GINOO.... karon ok nami sa akong mga in laws naka-amgo na dila sa ilang sayop... ang akong sis-in law nga mao untay mosagop sa kong baby mao jud tawn nangunay ug apas namo nga mobalik name diha sa mandaue...kay hapit magsuicide akong husband...

karon dako na ang baby mag 5 years na xa karong Nov....

at least naa jud xa nako....bahala na ug pobre ko basta akong mga anak naa lang nako... dili sila mapalit bisan asa nga mall..
Dili tanan babaye nahimong asawa ug inahan or kun ikaw nahimong inahan apan dili asawa mas labing maau para nako... bana naay daghan anak, lisod pangitaon.... kay anak ra jud ang siguradong malooy nato ang bana or asawa pwede pa tang biya-an..