Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[jericocanete]

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pangitag ikapuli..bahalag dili nimo love basta there for you...later on you will realize what matter is someone you can depend on and who loves you unconditionally rather than ikaw magpaka buang sa iya...
in a relationship the ideal thing is you loved each other with same level of intense emotional feeling however, in reality its difficult and even impossible. You have to choose then either someone you loves you more or someone you loved more. for practicality's sake, I prefer the first option. think about it.
good luck to your love life...cheers

[jutai]

Mao jud na ila sulti. Panakip lang gud. But lu-oya pud sa imong gamiton nga panakip butas oi.

[AshmoR]

learn in life that not everything is permanent... you can suffer for days, weeks, months, or years but it will all pass... soon you'll realize that what you're looking for is just in front of you... letting go is hard but you'll soon accept it... Classic Beer with friends will help a little...

[jaguar631983]

Kong gusto jud ka mo Move.on ayaw efocus imong self tungod sa nahitabo...naa kay friends and family mas importante sila...and also ayaw pag.ingon nga "Bahala nalang ni" nagpasabot lang na tungod nya na daot imong life...dah!!! dili ra man sya ang lake sa kalibutan....

Ayaw cge katulog mo samot hinoon na....ngeta og lingaw oi!! saon....


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[skin_101]

nganong nkigbalik ka niya na ang imo reason is mubalos saiyaha?in the first place, ur very much aware that love kaayo nimo cya,so expectedly ma-hurt jdka ana,ikaw ray luoy..if u really want to move on,MOVE ON!u have to be firm with ur decision..di man jud mawala na mingawon jd ka niya kay of course naa pd mo gpagdaanan..but that's life..time will come na kataw-an nlng na nimu,promise..kung sa tanaw nimo di cya mkapaayo saimo,let go..someone better is waiting for u out there girl..go out with ur friends jud,important kaayo na girl..so gudlak on that!

[jaide]

hey gurl, you can't move on if you get yourself stucked at your comfort zones.. dli naka maka find ug comfort anang lugara jud..what you need is to go out with friends or with your family.
mao pod na kasagaran ang makig break up mao jud ang mu kip sa burden in the end..they think it was best to end the relationship pwo at the end cla ra magmahay..

kalit2 ra kau imo decisions wui to think there are some other guys grabeh au maka throw ug words to their gf's pwo na settled ra man..taas lang ngali kag pride.. it maybe one of those heated debates pwo gamay ra au to na rason oi na imu xa ge let go..it was good if you paused the conversation for a little while den get back later.

pwo kadaghanan jud sa girl na ang solution makig break-up bsag gamay ra au ang rason mura gni naay gsaligan.. little did they know dili na dai mubalik ang lalaki nla..it was a lesson for you girl and next time don't decide on things you will regret later on.

[anonimousity]

Wula..kay iv been sick..
sya murag busy na kaayo doing concert,paper works,drinking with friends..
GAHHHH i dont wna talk about it..
ako!?
I dont even go out.! ganahan ko mag mukmuk sa bed all day long.
i wish jud na Night na..
so that i can sleep again..
sleep and sleep and sleep..
It was my fault i broke up with him kapoy man gud,
i was tryng to think na.. cguro im fine without him,.
na tapos na "yey ginhawa". pero.. mamiss nako iyahang pag ka protective..nga tanan lagi pagselosan.. friend,couzin basta lang lalake hahaha..he was the only guy na.. gi love nako ug sobra.. despite na di ko niya love.. i was crazy about him.. long distance relationship mi take note.. but we've met na pud and been together for so long lastlast yr.. nagbalik mi jan05 nag break mi .. hmm karon na week last 2days ago.. i was so reckless.. nahurt man gud ko.. if bf nako sya then why would he ever say this words like "Ur so emo! and its not cool".
di ba!? it would hit me like a dart and TAGOS jud to.. unsaon ba..
nakigbalik ko 'cause.. i wna take my revenge .. -_- but mas naapektuhan man diay ko.. ako ra pud ang napildi.. nganu man ni uy aghh!.. so easy to say MOVE ON!!!.. but.. kalisod himuon!!!
murag walay saysay ako life wala sya.. bahala nalang ni.
matulog nalang ko.. may pa! ugh!
ngayu nalang ko ug advice..unsaon..
if magpaka busy mag unsa man pud ko..

OT:you know what,while nag basa ko ani mura ra sad kog nag basa sa akong own experience.
first,naay banda akong bf(vox cya),then busy kaau xa with everything apil nato imu gi mention..
dili sad ko tig gawas2x,balay ra jud ko as always..
then long-distance nasad me since based in manila naman ilang banda(di lng ko mention sa banda
kay daghan nakaila kay pirme starring sa music thread nya napa jud iyang pics didto)
then he told me pud na DAGHANAG DRAMA NIMU OI,KAPOI NA KAAU KO ANA DAH!
tagos ghapon na oi,pwerteng sakita.
the only difference lang kay wala me magbuwag kay dili man jud cya.

OnT: dont dwell too much on him.kita man gud mga nara sa balay wa tay mahimo but cgeg huna2x nila,to the point nga mag cge nalang tag patagad nila then cge nalag duda,cge ka depress nga wala mu txt,nganu dugay mu reply,nganu man nga instead sa imuha ang iyang time tua naman noon sa iyang mga barkada ug banda..in short-dont compete sa mga butang sa iyang kinabuhi.without you knowing it mura na diay cya ug gito-ok sa imung pag cgeg patagad.nya mu drama dayn ta,patagad ra ghapon na.ok ra mn na d lang pasobraan.anha man gud dha mag sugod ang duda ug tahap nga naa cyay binoang.tungod kay tibouk nmu oras naa ra jud sa pag cge ug huna2x ug huwat niya,nya cya lahi nimu kay dghan kaau cya ug gi bahin-bahinan sa iyang oras mao nga ayaw jug pag kwenta sa oras nga iyang mahatag nimu.sabta siya.then kini pud naa sa banda,kadlawn or buntag nana cla makatulog kay ilang gigs kadlawn nana mahuman.nya while cge cla ug kanta,kita cge sad tag duda.igka human nilag tukar,kita nag hagok nasad.nya ig mata nato,cla natog pa nya malain nasad ta nganung wa mu txt,nganung way tym nato etc etc..dako kau ang time-difference sa mga "homebuddies" ug ang naas banda..lisud kaau mag meet halfway kay ang time nga nag mata ta,kana tingka tulog pa na nila.nya ang atong tingka tulog,ting mata sad na nila.
for 7 years cge lng kog adjust ani,12yrs old pako uyab na gud me n still lisud pa jud ghapn i adjust,kamu pa kaha nga d pa kaau mu dugay?instead ayuhi nalang na cya,ingna cya nga gimingaw ka niya in a nice way,dili anang away2x mug-ot2x aron paraygan ka,kay kini byang tawo nga busy wa nay oras aron mutukob anang mga inana nga style.kahibaw jud ko unsa imu na feel sis kay mao jud na akong na feel for 4 years.why 4 years? kay kato 3 years pa me,dili pa man sikat ilang banda ato..on the fourth year dha naman cla nailhan jud.samot na ron kay nisamot cla ka ilhado.
wa mn gani me magkakuyog pag sinulog kay nanukar cla sa sonic boom ni alex.hahay..
basta mao rana sis nya pm me kung napa kay dghang problema pareha ani.

[hunt99]

Wula..kay iv been sick..
sya murag busy na kaayo doing concert,paper works,drinking with friends..
GAHHHH i dont wna talk about it..
ako!?
I dont even go out.! ganahan ko mag mukmuk sa bed all day long.
i wish jud na Night na..
so that i can sleep again..
sleep and sleep and sleep..
It was my fault i broke up with him kapoy man gud,
i was tryng to think na.. cguro im fine without him,.
na tapos na "yey ginhawa". pero.. mamiss nako iyahang pag ka protective..nga tanan lagi pagselosan.. friend,couzin basta lang lalake hahaha..he was the only guy na.. gi love nako ug sobra.. despite na di ko niya love.. i was crazy about him.. long distance relationship mi take note.. but we've met na pud and been together for so long lastlast yr.. nagbalik mi jan05 nag break mi .. hmm karon na week last 2days ago.. i was so reckless.. nahurt man gud ko.. if bf nako sya then why would he ever say this words like "Ur so emo! and its not cool".
di ba!? it would hit me like a dart and TAGOS jud to.. unsaon ba..
nakigbalik ko 'cause.. i wna take my revenge .. -_- but mas naapektuhan man diay ko.. ako ra pud ang napildi.. nganu man ni uy aghh!.. so easy to say MOVE ON!!!.. but.. kalisod himuon!!!
murag walay saysay ako life wala sya.. bahala nalang ni.
matulog nalang ko.. may pa! ugh!
ngayu nalang ko ug advice..unsaon..
if magpaka busy mag unsa man pud ko..

sad noon sis sa solti nimo imoha man sad ang ga labi sa sala gud pero sa ako lang ni ha lain man sad ng "emo" gud pero ang naka nindot atong lakiha protective siya pero ang naka bati niya di kaayo siya ka trust pa nimo ky hasta imong cousins or friend selos na pero ikaw ky love man gyud nimo kaha siya pero kung di paka sure na di ka love niya try to ask niya na nano na ing-ato siya onya mo solti ka na love gyud nimo siya pero kung ang answer negative andam ka maka dawat if positive then go on pero di nimo ma kaya ganahan ka mo move on then ayaw ka problema don't think na di ka kita og lain ky babae gud ka ako gani sa una akong uyab nag binoang nako reverse kaayo ky kasagaran manta mag binoang ang laki man gyud pero bali akoa pero kana sa imoha sis kung move on lang imoha pangita ky wala pa sad ny klarong lakiha pangitag lingaw na malingaw ka aron di ka cgeg ka huna huna niya pero kanang lingaw na dili anomaliya ha or pede sad sa imohang hobby and ayaw gyud pag think na di ka kitag lain kita raka babae gud ka

[AshmoR]

Love is Just Temporary... the Constant thing in life is Change... What's meant for you is just temporary... that means you need to learn more before settling down in another relationship... the reason for breakups are differences... settle that up with yourself first before hiring a new one and settle your differences with each other... the more you think of how hard moving on is, the more you'll be trapped into your psychological world. think out of it... work your way out step-by-step without thinking of moving on. the less you think of moving on, the higher it takes to forget it...

[joshbonz]

its hard to move when you're mind is really not willing to..

confucius one said, one mile begins with one simple step..

unless you are willing to take that one step to move on.. then nobody can actually help you but you and you alone..