ex boyfriend who is still my friend

[tira bens]

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[ManUp]

for me, being friends with your ex is like keeping in touch with your kidnapper after he released you.

[CHICKS DIG ME]

para nako start a new friendship with him. Don't pretend that nothing's changed. usa nas biggest mistakes you can make is to act like nothing's happened after a breakup. Doing so gives off the impression that you never cared. It can really hurt your ex feelings. we don't know mag balik ra diay mo.

[Jhuon1914]

Ika nga First love never dies =) But the thing is you didn't open the door for others and you're contented of what you are now =) Maybe some part of you is afraid nga dili naka makakita ug pareha niya nga ma happy ka magkuyog maglaag2 ug ma enjoy ka. Basin nakasulte raka nga wala nakay feelings niya but deep inside naa pa d.i =) Tambag nku miga try to find another guy daw im sure naay daghan diha nga tarung ba unya enjoy your moments with him. =) Pero dili pud lagi malikayan ang comparison kung asa ka mas happy mokuyog kay lisud lagi kalimtan ning una bah =)

[writers_gon_write]

@tira bens i've been searching but i just can't find the right one. or... i don't know. something always sets me off. like naa juy turn off right away and di pa jud dali mawala sa akong mind.

@ManUp i don't think so. depende. kung bati inyo panagbuwag, maybe ingana. especially kung bitter na kaayo right after.

@CHICKS DIG ME yes, i did care. and yes, we're good friends now. it's just that... siguro ang mga tawo sa palibot, they're not too acquainted with such relationship nga friends sa ex after the break up.

@Jhuon1914 i'll rephrase that... sometimes i'm just scared to go and try to love again. murag kanta pero true. di man nuon nako siya first love since i loved a guy before him pag high school. di nga lang naging kami...

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QUESTION: possible ba nga ingon ani mi tungod kay wa miy proper closure? it just ended. boom. like that... then after that, we became friends again na ganun nalang. hmmm... just a thought.

[Jhuon1914]

@tira bens i've been searching but i just can't find the right one. or... i don't know. something always sets me off. like naa juy turn off right away and di pa jud dali mawala sa akong mind.

@ManUp i don't think so. depende. kung bati inyo panagbuwag, maybe ingana. especially kung bitter na kaayo right after.

@CHICKS DIG ME yes, i did care. and yes, we're good friends now. it's just that... siguro ang mga tawo sa palibot, they're not too acquainted with such relationship nga friends sa ex after the break up.

@Jhuon1914 i'll rephrase that... sometimes i'm just scared to go and try to love again. murag kanta pero true. di man nuon nako siya first love since i loved a guy before him pag high school. di nga lang naging kami...

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QUESTION: possible ba nga ingon ani mi tungod kay wa miy proper closure? it just ended. boom. like that... then after that, we became friends again na ganun nalang. hmmm... just a thought.

Ka relate ko nimo sis =) Actually before 2 years ko una nka recover she's my first GF and the thing is close na ko sa iya family asta siya napa ila2 nasad nku sa akong parents. Usahay mamisita ko sa ila taga toledo man unya kapoy ko gikan work misita ghapon ko if naay time. Adto na gud ko matulog sa ila tungod sa kalayo dili na ko kauli inig gabie the sad part is nadala jud siya sa laeng laki kauban ra niya sa work. Unya karon gipa-angkan siya unya gibiyaan!... Pero kato nga time ga break me hadlok jud ko mahigugma pag usab ato kay maybe dili pajud ko totally nka recovered ky love pa nku siya. But the time nga naka recover nku I see the world much beautiful than before =) As of now I'm not suggesting you to love again as early as now try to focus on work or study. =)

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@tira bens i've been searching but i just can't find the right one. or... i don't know. something always sets me off. like naa juy turn off right away and di pa jud dali mawala sa akong mind.

@ManUp i don't think so. depende. kung bati inyo panagbuwag, maybe ingana. especially kung bitter na kaayo right after.

@CHICKS DIG ME yes, i did care. and yes, we're good friends now. it's just that... siguro ang mga tawo sa palibot, they're not too acquainted with such relationship nga friends sa ex after the break up.

@Jhuon1914 i'll rephrase that... sometimes i'm just scared to go and try to love again. murag kanta pero true. di man nuon nako siya first love since i loved a guy before him pag high school. di nga lang naging kami...

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QUESTION: possible ba nga ingon ani mi tungod kay wa miy proper closure? it just ended. boom. like that... then after that, we became friends again na ganun nalang. hmmm... just a thought.

Ka relate ko nimo sis =) Actually before 2 years ko una nka recover she's my first GF and the thing is close na ko sa iya family asta siya napa ila2 nasad nku sa akong parents. Usahay mamisita ko sa ila taga toledo man unya kapoy ko gikan work misita ghapon ko if naay time. Adto na gud ko matulog sa ila tungod sa kalayo dili na ko kauli inig gabie the sad part is nadala jud siya sa laeng laki kauban ra niya sa work. Unya karon gipa-angkan siya unya gibiyaan!... Pero kato nga time ga break me hadlok jud ko mahigugma pag usab ato kay maybe dili pajud ko totally nka recovered ky love pa nku siya. But the time nga naka recover nku I see the world much beautiful than before =) As of now I'm not suggesting you to love again as early as now try to focus on work or study. =)

[santario101]

maybe TS you are still in denial na you're really still into him... why not take the risk of getting back with him and see what happens. why not ? because he has a gf already ? We'll it's better to have loved and lost... and you know the rest.

[writers_gon_write]

True, @Jhuon1914. pero matod pa sa akong mga friends, grabeh na daw akong focus sa career nga nalimtan na ang love life. but as of now, ang naa sa akong huna-huna, to land in my dream industry/job. unya na ang love life. as for my ex. we're okay. although ingani jud mi or siya nga kung naa siyay GF, usahay nalang makahinumdum. hasta iyang bestfriend nakagetz na sa iyang pattern. but if wala sad, mao na nga time that we hang out.

same thing i want to say to @santario101 nga di man sad ko ganahan magmukhang nag samok2 sa ilaha. i let him be. actually, i even told him katong ni-share siya nako about ana iyang gf (katong dili pa sila) i told him and in all honestly i meant it na i hope he won't screw it up this time. lami gani pakapinan og lista sa "things you did wrong in our relationship before". LOL pero i just want him to be happy sad. pero sometimes, mangluod ko kay naay mga stuff nga we share together. like... the upcoming Baguio travel. giplano namo na gud before he had a girlfriend. so karon na papalapit na ang travel date, mura nag gikalimtan niya among giplano nga laag. pero of course, malain ko kung di ko madayon abi'g di siya mukuyog! ) aw ngita nalang dali2 nga mabira para mukuyog nakog laag.

pero sa tinuoray, although di ko ganahan "magsalita ng tapos", if ever we'll be given a second chance - my answer is a straight NO raba. walay. "No... pero... yes..." kind of doubt. straight and outright no. tama na tong first time oi. enough to enjoy the good times... and enough to feel the pain of the bad times... another round of both is just too much.

[mAlD|tO]

pangita lain TS oi...bahala og mediocre sa imong standards piyongi lang sa gud try..try lng bah..morag bored man ka TS

[Verbal]

TS ask lang ko, sukad atong nagbuwag mo wa na gayud ka nakabaton og lain pang relasyon?

take note HAPPINESS = REALITY - EXPECTATIONS

i think taas ra kaayo ang imo expectations ma'am and your ex plays a very large part of it. stay away from people/things/circumstances that hold you back.

side note : ayaw palabi sa mga love story labaw na ng maka-relate jud ta ma "INCEPTION" ta ana, in a bad way. hehehe

by the way, i enjoyed reading your thread. keep us posted!