Im in a "COMPLICATED RELATIONSHIP" need your opinion

[bbycelyn]

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ikaw man wala kasabut TS...KABIT manka.kung ikaw kunu ing anaon sa imu husband...
sorry peru mao sad tingali separated ka sa imu husband tungud sa imu batasan.
maypa mu focus ka sa imung anak.

[chimcham]

sign na na TS sa lalaki na di na pasamok uie, dili na cxa ing.ana ka serious sa in.u relationship, kay kung serious pa cxa, iya na g.fight., nangayo cxag tarong ug freedom sa iyang wife. and TS, if ikaw ang wife, dn naai affair imong bana, unsa man diay imong buhaton? patuyangan silang duha kay lagi di ka love sa imong bana? pagsure TS uie.. may gali TS wa ka gikiha sa asawa! undang na TS uie, gaya2 lang ka. nganu tuyuan man jud na ang problema uie.. makaguba pajud ug lain na pamilya. tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk

[teeAnn]

Actually, at this time and age, uso na kaau ning kabit2x.
Ang kabit pay mangisog dili na mahadlok.

You were in the wife's shoes man kaha before and I'm sure you know how it feels... nganu buhaton mana nimo sa uban?
or lets say what if imo anak any gibuhatan sa ingon? Ganahan bka makakita sa imo anak maghilak

[vahnhelsing]

lisod ni tambagan ingon ini.. kahibaw na daan sayop gipaundayonan pa jud..

[hobie]

Kana mga reasons na "just following my heart", is very stupid in my opinion.
You should follow your brain and not your heart,
Love is a choice more than just a feeling.

Mao nay makaguba ug pamilya.
If imo gu a, ayaw pang damay uguba sa laing pamilya,
They too have their own problems to mind,
And you do not own the problems int he world to yourself alone.

[ivarugcan]

akong gi caps lock para intense

Married man gud ang guy and commited napud xah. Nagpalayu guro xa nimu as a sign to stop inyu relationship or basin na fall out of love na xa nimu kay naa napud xa bag.ong uyab aside sa asawa. Just a thought lang.

[noy]

Hello istoryans! I am separated with kids dugay2 nasad then came along my ex-friend back in highschool and we got together and got comfortable with each other again after 15 years. This guys, ako iyang 1st love and they say 1st love never dies. BUT here is the problem HE IS NOW MARRIED with kids. But marriage was forced unto him when the girl got pregnant. To fast forward as my title say I am in a complicated relationship with him. We are happy together. We know that it is not right but can anyone blame us to follow what our hearts dictate? Nasakpan mi kadaghan na sa iyang wife but still kami ghapon. Lately, murag naay na change nya. Dili na kaayo xa mo txt, dili na kaayo mo call, kutob nlng mi email if mo answer siya. Inlove jud ko ani person. Ni ask ko niya if he wants to continue or relastionship pero d xa mo answer nko. Ang ako lng ba y man dili kasabot iyang asawa? Dili man xa love sa husband kay kung love pana siya dili ta xa mo ari sa ako. Mao rana guys. What do u think?

i think he shouldn't have married his wife if he's not inlove with her in the first place. pwede ra man unta niya sustintohan ang bata ang mangamahan siya..
and for this reason, unfortunately, di na jud mu pwede ani niya unless he files for an annulment.
other than that, kuyaw kaayo mu makiha ug adultery. pwede pa mu mapriso or makabayad ug dako.
unya huna-hunaa ang imung anak ug iyang mga anak.

TS, there are always consequences to our actions.. mao huna-hunaa ug maayo kung ipadayun pa ba na nimu..

diba? in love kaayo ka sa imung uyab sa una? mao nakabuo mu ug anak..
pero karin naka realize ka nga sayop diay to kay wala naman ka na inlove niya karun..
so possible pud nga sayop na imung feelings para ana niya karun maski pa ug insakto kaayo para nimu.
there are things that matter in this life other than personal feelings especially when trying to know what is right or wrong.

[Jusjiw]

Adultery ang ma file against sa guy coz hs legally married .... I guess mao di na sya mucontact nimu kay gi warningan na sya sa iyang wife and hadlok tawn siya ma kasuhan. KAy kung love pa ka niya, ipaglaban man ka ....

[Wynna]

masarap ang bawal

[yvonne6]

not because you are inlove with a committed person mag ingon ani ka. yes, we are all human and sometimes we cant really choose who to love. maski ako, i am inlove with someone who is committed but not married, uyab pa lang pero dili ko kabit aning lakiha kay murag one way man ang feeling. pero i will never ever say nga dapat ang gf/asawa ang dapat mosabot, ako ang dapat mosabot kay nakasabot ko ug asa akong puesto. wala koy puesto. samok2 lang ko ug huna hunaon. dapat mao nay imo sang ibutang sa imong ulo ts. know where you stand para walay daghan saputon sa imong pangutana