my friend's lover cheated on her...

**lady_blackrose** · 02-06-2009, 03:06 PM

this is how it goes...my friend now is married to an american guy and she is now with him in usa but though she is married she is having an affair with an local model there in r.p. in other words...she is cheating her husband but thats not the problem... she trusted that bf all her properties back in r.p...now she just found out from a common friend that her bf is cheating on her with another woman and he just sold her big bike which is sold for 400k php.she was so upset but it didnt end there...all her properties are now for sale and she cant do anything for these reasons:

1. the original documents are now in her bf. (i told her that her bf cant sell any of her properties unless she signs it otherwise she could sue him for forgery unless if those documents are being titled to her bf's name too but she said its sole proprietorship.)

i told her by the way that she should chase her bf coz there is still 12m php left.she has a pension house,apartment and car.

2. she is scared that once she sues her bf her husband might found out and will kick her out from their house in usa and she might not be able to get a green card which is all she is after. (i told her that she has no choice but to tell him the truth that way she can still save her remaining properties but she refused she said that she will ask someone to cripple her bf so he would learn how deeply hurt she is and so he is gonna return it but i told her that once the cops caught the one who did the deed and he might spill out who ordered him to do the deed she is gonna be dead.she'll be deported and worst she is gonna end up in prison so goodbye to her american dream.

but the problem is this...she didnt listen to me...were not that close as we used to anymore coz i couldnt stand her attitude towards dealing consequences.she is so dumb and stupid but yet she is trying to be smart ass but look at her now?

i just pity her coz i know how hard she have worked for those properties...though she scammed it from her previous bfs.

now guys my question is this...

what should i do so she will do the right thing?should i tell her hubby the truth?or should i just let her do the deed which is to cripple her bf to get even?but never will i get involved to that matter.

**the Messenger** · 02-06-2009, 03:34 PM

Just pray for her because it's obvious she refuses to be helped or counseled by you. Do not think of telling the hubby either, unless you want to invite yourself into the hubby-wifey war zone. Besides, she gets what she deserves. What goes around indeed comes around.

**sugar_pop** · 02-06-2009, 03:41 PM

you are really in a difficult situation, sis..but if you are really concerned with your friend try to enlighten her mind..there will always be consequences for her actions..in the first place, she should know what's gonna happen with if her hubby will know about these things..the truth will always prevail at the end..
im just wondering why of all the things she could give to her bf here..why those assets of her..one more thing..why did she leave her wealth to her bf..doesn't she have a relative here?
a friendly advice sis...just be a good friend to her now..inspite if she won't listen to you for as long as you did everything to make her realize her actions...and pray to the Lord to guide your friend throughout this whole situation..

**Sol_Itaire** · 02-06-2009, 04:15 PM

oh no you don't meddle in her affairs. i think that's what she needs exactly--karma and learning her lessons the hard way.

**nortz** · 02-06-2009, 04:22 PM

hikog nalang ang solution ana hehehehe...enter2x bitaw....

**thinKingMan** · 02-06-2009, 04:27 PM

moo nay giingnon nga di magsaba ang gaba...
as what you said, the money is from his ex-bf so di gyud to iya

she worked hard to scam her previous lover and even her husband now?
di gyud na iyang kwarta, na isahan lagi

**ketz** · 02-06-2009, 04:28 PM

don't do anything... ur friend put herself in that situation then she should face the consequences of her actions.

**john_yo** · 02-06-2009, 04:43 PM

leave it as is. she is old enough to engage to a problem and solve it too. ayaw nalang pang hilabot kay basin ma apil paka og ka cripple. hehehe

**Kishin888** · 02-06-2009, 05:45 PM

g-a-b-a-a-n ....

**lady_blackrose** · 02-08-2009, 07:48 AM

Originally Posted by sugar_pop

you are really in a difficult situation, sis..but if you are really concerned with your friend try to enlighten her mind..there will always be consequences for her actions..in the first place, she should know what's gonna happen with if her hubby will know about these things..the truth will always prevail at the end..
im just wondering why of all the things she could give to her bf here..why those assets of her..one more thing..why did she leave her wealth to her bf..doesn't she have a relative here?
a friendly advice sis...just be a good friend to her now..inspite if she won't listen to you for as long as you did everything to make her realize her actions...and pray to the Lord to guide your friend throughout this whole situation..

she has relatives there in r.p sis.i told her why not just intrust it to her family instead of her bf?but this is what she told me..once she get a green card she will move back to r.p and she will live like a king.she will save money in u.s and send it all to her bf coz he knows what their dreams are and she'll be the one who'll put up the capital and he will be the one to manage it but it turns to be a nightmare for her now coz her bf owns everything now.believe me ive tried hard to enlighten her mind but she is so stubborn.were not as close as we used to before coz i hate her attitude. everytime u advice her and things go wrong at the end and ull say "u told her so"she will just say this..."just please stop preaching me...i need help not a preacher."

though she is like this..i still want to help her out coz were used to be friends...for past sake.