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    Default My 5yrs relationship GF left me for good


    Iíve been an istorya member for a decade now and been a fan on this thread (seeking advice).

    This is my second post for another love story chapter in my life and Iíve been into long term relationships and this 5yrs is an achievement.

    Iíve been thinking love is really not for me. I tried enough but end up where a woman always decides to left me. And this time the reason is that I am not enough for her and got me thinking which part? But she couldnít answer. Iíve got a decent job and saved a lot for i was about to propose. She called me one night and told me more of her reasons why she wanted a freedom. She wanted to be free And she wants to work abroad. (Its her dream to work abroad which I didnít liked about her).

    Iíve given her the freedom she wants and even asked her if there is still a chance that we can be again in the future (how stupid of me) and she answered: No, but you can approach me if you need someone to talk to and not about us.

    Its been so hard for me thinking why it ended up that way and why now? Which part am I missing to be a part of her dream. Guess I will never love again I can never understand girls. Maybe Iím doomed to be a failure.

    What can you say about this istoryans? Your opinion could help.

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    I think u have to optimistic i mean u have to be positive..probably God has just saved u from the wrong one which u should be thankful for and have i read a book of bo sanchez titled "how to find your one true love"
    It says there that u have to open all ur doors and even windows coz she might be just there...waiting for u to say those words...coz u know hearts are often broken by words left unspoken...talk to girls...expand ur horizon and dont raise ur standards too much in a girl.and lastly find a job twill be ur magnet to her...

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    And lastly dont give up easily and pray coz Love moves in mysterious ways...and God makes all things beautiful in His Time! Just wait

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    she can't see herself with you in the long haul. dli ka nya priority. and likely she made up her mind ana human sa pipila ninyo ka tuig nga panag.uban.

    i think naa nay pattern bai nganong recurring na cya nga circumstance. try dw to look into sa imong self ug ma-acknoweldge ba nimo asa ang apan. pangitaa ang kina-ugatan ana. mao nay challenge. else, mg.balik2 ana ug ma stuck ka ana nga cycle.

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    thank you for sharing your story here and i have been helping people here in this thread for quite some time. though the last time i was active was 2012 but i come back now.

    it is ver sad to know that even if you been doing all your best to be an ideal partner still it seems that its not enough. i know it is frustrating on your part specially it is not the first time to happen. it is totally acceptable if you put the blame on your self and start to feel hopeless.

    what i can tell you is that your love life doesn't end there. i can't say that it is not about you because i don't know you personally and i don't know your story but one thing is for sure and that is every thing is normal. relationships are built by two different individuals and that makes it very unstable that it needs constant work and attention. everything now depends on how you see your self after this and where would you want your life to be. nothing is too late. if you choose to dwell on your failed relationship and put the blame on your self, it is your right. but if you think on the better side, you ve manage to put your self in a better status and continue life as it is, your relationship did not work out but it will not be your loss. never rush to be in a relationship, a serious relationship because anything could happen.

    i wish to know more about your story so i may have a better perspective about your concern and i might be able to help you accordingly.

    hope to hear from you

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    You are experiencing the normal cycle of relationship but unfortunately the wheel was caught up along the way. You could be in agony at the moment but if you take that positively, you'll even thank her for doing that to you earlier on.

    Money isn't above everything, try to look at the world, not all successful an wealthy people are successful with love and family. If she has a dream to work abroad then let her be. You don't want to be the burden to her dreams.

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