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My 5yrs relationship GF left me for good


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if you have a decent job and saved a lot, I can't see which part of you is doomed to be a failure. I mean ...

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    if you have a decent job and saved a lot, I can't see which part of you is doomed to be a failure. I mean let's be real. lots of people have lost their job this year and have hungry mouths to feed yet here you are feeling like a mess. I'm not blaming you or something but be a man enough and stand up. the first part of your post mentioned that that 5 years was an achievement so you better mean it. there are still more better days ahead of you. be thankful enough and appreciate the things you still have and once had then move on. you'll achieve more sooner.

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    move on nalng TS...

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    I think it's time to move on. Personally, I was helped with my breakup by a girl from https://godatenow.com with whom we started to communicate well and eventually it developed into a relationship. So it's not just time that heals.

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    Default feel u

    I know how hard it is...but women come and go man!!! I learned this the hard way. The first gf I ever had God I loved her so much, I promised myself she'd be the one I marry hahahahahh in reality she was rlly toxic. I was so blind I couldn't see it. My friends would try to open my eyes but instead I left them for her biggest mistake. I didn't even know what I want in a relationship, I've lost myself completely...My sister was so fed up with all that was happening and one day she said to me Jacob take a look at this article and reflect on yourself. Needless to say breakupangels.com had great information at the perfect time...After reading some articles I decided to see a therapist. Of course after a while I left her and I figured out who I was and who I can be. All you have is yourself mate, trust me

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    don't give up on love, the Lord will give you the right one. Just be patient

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    Quote Originally Posted by jacobb1 View Post
    I know how hard it is...but women come and go man!!! I learned this the hard way. The first gf I ever had God I loved her so much, I promised myself she'd be the one I marry hahahahahh in reality she was rlly toxic. I was so blind I couldn't see it. My friends would try to open my eyes but instead I left them for her biggest mistake. I didn't even know what I want in a relationship, I've lost myself completely...My sister was so fed up with all that was happening and one day she said to me Jacob take a look at this article and reflect on yourself. Needless to say breakupangels.com had great information at the perfect time...After reading some articles I decided to see a therapist. Of course after a while I left her and I figured out who I was and who I can be. All you have is yourself mate, trust me
    I had an almost similar situation but it had ended not as well as yours

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    Quote Originally Posted by zzexniwp312 View Post
    Iíve been an istorya member for a decade now and been a fan on this thread (seeking advice).

    This is my second post for another love story chapter in my life and Iíve been into long term relationships and this 5yrs is an achievement.

    Iíve been thinking love is really not for me. I tried enough but end up where a woman always decides to left me. And this time the reason is that I am not enough for her and got me thinking which part? But she couldnít answer. Iíve got a decent job and saved a lot for i was about to propose. She called me one night and told me more of her reasons why she wanted a freedom. She wanted to be free And she wants to work abroad. (Its her dream to work abroad which I didnít liked about her).

    Iíve given her the freedom she wants and even asked her if there is still a chance that we can be again in the future (how stupid of me) and she answered: No, but you can approach me if you need someone to talk to and not about us.

    Its been so hard for me thinking why it ended up that way and why now? Which part am I missing to be a part of her dream. Guess I will never love again I can never understand girls. Maybe Iím doomed to be a failure.

    What can you say about this istoryans? Your opinion could help.
    Maybe she was not really that into you for the past 5 years or ni deplete hangtod nawala na. I can tell u are a good man kay she said "you can approach me if you need someone to talk to and not about us". Your break up is clean which seldom happens. You are fine. Don't give up on love, maabot ra na. Happy New Year!

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