Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 21
Like Tree1Likes

COMPLICATED relationship between a man with two women...


This discussion is about "COMPLICATED relationship between a man with two women..." in the ""Love is..."" forums.
I have boyfriend who used to have a live-in partner for a very long time. They have an 8 year old son. Although we're in ...

  1. #1
    Newbie
    Join Date
    Jan 2018
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    4

    Default COMPLICATED relationship between a man with two women...


    I have boyfriend who used to have a live-in partner for a very long time. They have an 8 year old son. Although we're in a relationship for not quite long, they're still living together at his family's house. Of course I trust him, but trusting is not enough knowing that anything is possible to happen. It's not new to me since we used to be friends before we decided to be in a relationship. We've already talked about this but I always don't get his opinion. I know he's scared coz every parent wants to keep their child, I could understand that. But the thing is, he doesn't have enough courage to talk to his ex personally about our relationship, about me, about him, about everything. His ex knows that he's seeing someone of course. (Maybe she just doesn't want to leave the place). That's where I get my tantrums over him. I begin to stop communicating him without giving him reason WHY, I tend to be moody giving him the sign that I'd mad at him. Maybe men and women do really have different thinking. I tend to be paranoid whenever he's at his home. I can't even talk to my parents everything about what's going on, though they know partly. I respect his opinion as well as his ex's privacy. In my opinion, they're both waiting for the right time to talk about this. I can't blame this ex if she's still living at his place, coz maybe she's also waiting for my bf to make a move.


    LISURA LAGI...
    kung kamo ako...
    unsa inyo buhaton?


    kung kamo ang LAKI..
    unsa inyo buhaton?


    kung kamo ang EX,
    unsa inyo buhaton?

  2. #2
    Senior Member orvillejoy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    780
    ang gulo...

    mao ra jud na ako ma sulti

  3. #3
    C.I.A. Little_Mermaid88's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    2,807
    Blog Entries
    15
    one question, is he worth it? because I'm sure moabot ang panahon when you will put your foot down and demand nga he'll come clean to everybody nga you're together. are you sure ikaw jud ang pili.on? remember that you are the "third party" ani nga sitwasyon.

  4. #4
    Elite Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2015
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    1,962
    he chooses to be conflicted. most people are conflicted even if they know the answer.
    that's not being conflicted. that's greed.

    i'm sure he might want a part of something he must dispose of (which is either ikaw or ang ex)
    even if he knows that he can't have it all.


    it's your call: magpabilin ka and keep up with this setup or you leave that guy for good. take note na mas naay leverage ang ex kumpara nimo, which is ilang anak.

    good luck! lol

  5. #5
    Elite Member kamikaze_007's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    1,625
    Quote Originally Posted by gibra'al View Post
    he chooses to be conflicted. most people are conflicted even if they know the answer.
    that's not being conflicted. that's greed.

    i'm sure he might want a part of something he must dispose of (which is either ikaw or ang ex)
    even if he knows that he can't have it all.


    it's your call: magpabilin ka and keep up with this setup or you leave that guy for good. take note na mas naay leverage ang ex kumpara nimo, which is ilang anak.

    good luck! lol
    resident love guru na ka sa istorya.

  6. #6
    Elite Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2015
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    1,962
    Quote Originally Posted by kamikaze_007 View Post
    resident love guru na ka sa istorya.
    di man pud boss. lol. applicable man sya sa laing aspects sa lyp maong ma-relate sab ani nga sugilanon nya.

  7. #7
    Elite Member hans josefina's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2011
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    1,339
    Makanta nlng ta ug torn between two lovers..

  8. #8
    Senior Member iron_cross's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    821
    why not just leave that complicated relationship and find one that is not complicated.

    get a 'clean guy' because you deserve a better one.

  9. #9
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    133
    Quote Originally Posted by keikoyoon View Post
    I have boyfriend who used to have a live-in partner for a very long time. They have an 8 year old son. Although we're in a relationship for not quite long, they're still living together at his family's house. Of course I trust him, but trusting is not enough knowing that anything is possible to happen. It's not new to me since we used to be friends before we decided to be in a relationship. We've already talked about this but I always don't get his opinion. I know he's scared coz every parent wants to keep their child, I could understand that. But the thing is, he doesn't have enough courage to talk to his ex personally about our relationship, about me, about him, about everything. His ex knows that he's seeing someone of course. (Maybe she just doesn't want to leave the place). That's where I get my tantrums over him. I begin to stop communicating him without giving him reason WHY, I tend to be moody giving him the sign that I'd mad at him. Maybe men and women do really have different thinking. I tend to be paranoid whenever he's at his home. I can't even talk to my parents everything about what's going on, though they know partly. I respect his opinion as well as his ex's privacy. In my opinion, they're both waiting for the right time to talk about this. I can't blame this ex if she's still living at his place, coz maybe she's also waiting for my bf to make a move.


    LISURA LAGI...
    kung kamo ako...
    unsa inyo buhaton?


    kung kamo ang LAKI..
    unsa inyo buhaton?


    kung kamo ang EX,
    unsa inyo buhaton?
    IMHO, do not think too much about it since you are not yet married and don't have kids yet -- meaning, no commitment yet.
    IMHO, just go with the flow and keep yourself busy. Do longer hours at work. Have a business or a sideline. Have time with your family and your young relatives. Make your time be occupied with work for the moment.

    This is my opinion though. You know yourself better. You know what is best. Whatever you decide about that matter, I'm confident it is the best decision you make.

  10. #10
    Senior Member jiax's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2011
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    727
    Blog Entries
    6
    just make the right decision

  11.    Advertisement

Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast

Similar Threads

 
  1. creepy:A man with two faces: Edward Mordrake
    By frend in forum General Discussions
    Replies: 34
    Last Post: 10-05-2011, 05:45 PM
  2. What do I do with the two women in my life?
    By dave_03 in forum Relationships (Old)
    Replies: 108
    Last Post: 08-18-2010, 12:48 AM
  3. For Trade: My 8 Gig Flashdrive with two 256 MB SDRAM
    By knightcarl in forum Computers & Accessories
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 10-08-2008, 11:36 AM
  4. the best big man with a touch from the outside??
    By billabong in forum Sports & Recreation
    Replies: 37
    Last Post: 01-31-2008, 08:35 AM
  5. Actor/Actress with two or more identity in a movie
    By stradnus in forum TV's & Movies
    Replies: 16
    Last Post: 01-29-2007, 02:33 PM

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
about us
We are the first Cebu Online Media.

iSTORYA.NET is Cebu's Biggest, Southern Philippines' Most Active, and the Philippines' Strongest Online Community!
follow us
#top