Tagalog lang sa... Hinaot inyo paminawon ako subilanon...

[keen]

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paki-off mo na yung "tanga mode" switch mo, sis ts. tsaka abandon ship na kasi ikaw na lang mag-isa jan eh.

[bula1980]

The lies and the alibis.. madami sila nya.. hindi yan mauubos..

Hinabol mo, nagpahuli naman. Tumakbo ulit, hinabol mo pa din.. ano to? Laro? Ikaw lagi ang taya? Youre just running in circles.

Time to stop na ts.. mapagod ka naman. Magpahinga ka naman. For your own good.

(Nalingaw kos bugal2 nga tagalog-bisaya replies )

[MaidenLove]

so cute ... u tried to talk in bisaya hehehe ... it's SUGILANON, not Subilanon ..

1. Yung past na yun ba dapat ako ma apektuhan? --

i'm sorry but there is no PAST with that guy, coz his PAST is his PRESENT. u understand what i'm tring to say here ??

2. Dapat ko na bang pagdudahan itong mga "lowbat", "walang data" at "hindi na nagchacharge ng maayos ang CP" na pangyayaring ito?

this is what i meant on my answer to number 1. that guy is a liar. Those are classic alibis, lame alibis to be exact.

3. Sa mga details na binigay ko, may panghuhugutan ba ako na seryoso sya sa akin?

can you still trust him after you found out that he has been lying to you all along ??

4. Kapag ba nag dadate sa panahon ngayon, papano ba ang gastos? Hati-an? or ang guy?

for me, i always shoulder the expenses, but if the girl insist or invite me to a date saying MY TREAT, then i respect that. I'm guessing here that you're the one who pays in every date you had

5. Ano na? Abandon ship na ba?

hhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ..... as Nora Aunor said WALANG HIMALA !!! Don't be a martyr. Just look at what you're doing, the guy is blatantly lying on your face and yet here you are " HABOL NANG HABOL ". Stop being stupid and wake up from that fallacy of a relationship. He is just using you, pardon for the term, but he is just facking you to satisfy his fleshy-needs and at the same time feeding his ego when he sees you doing HABOL NANG HABOL...

Ga HABOL man sad ko kay naa man pud ko mga tingin ko mali sab... Let me count the ways:

1. Manggidudahon ko. I have Anxiety disorder and grabe kaayo siya lisod i-control. Ako dayon siya i-accuse ug pagdudahan.

2. Feeling nako naa siya mga subliminal messages para sa ako-a. Paranoid ko. Ako siya masukmatan pero hinay hinayon nuon nako.

3. Kada adlaw mi halos mag away sa akong duda.

Question: Enough ba ni para mubuwag ka sa usa ka babae?

[MaidenLove]

Salamat sa lahat ng nag reply. Sige na po, aalis na po ako sa ship na ito. Ako din napapagod na...

Wala pa nako siya masukmati na nakahibalo ko sa kibuhat niya sa girl. Or nakahibalo ko nga naa siya uyab samtang lagi nya akong kausap. Should I tell him?

[MaidenLove]

The lies and the alibis.. madami sila nya.. hindi yan mauubos..

Hinabol mo, nagpahuli naman. Tumakbo ulit, hinabol mo pa din.. ano to? Laro? Ikaw lagi ang taya? Youre just running in circles.

Time to stop na ts.. mapagod ka naman. Magpahinga ka naman. For your own good.

(Nalingaw kos bugal2 nga tagalog-bisaya replies )

Bitaw lingaw kaayo sila

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paki-off mo na yung "tanga mode" switch mo, sis ts. tsaka abandon ship na kasi ikaw na lang mag-isa jan eh.

Don't worry. Abandon ship na. Now na!

[MaidenLove]

so cute ... u tried to talk in bisaya hehehe ... it's SUGILANON, not Subilanon ..

1. Yung past na yun ba dapat ako ma apektuhan? --

i'm sorry but there is no PAST with that guy, coz his PAST is his PRESENT. u understand what i'm tring to say here ??

2. Dapat ko na bang pagdudahan itong mga "lowbat", "walang data" at "hindi na nagchacharge ng maayos ang CP" na pangyayaring ito?

this is what i meant on my answer to number 1. that guy is a liar. Those are classic alibis, lame alibis to be exact.

3. Sa mga details na binigay ko, may panghuhugutan ba ako na seryoso sya sa akin?

can you still trust him after you found out that he has been lying to you all along ??

4. Kapag ba nag dadate sa panahon ngayon, papano ba ang gastos? Hati-an? or ang guy?

for me, i always shoulder the expenses, but if the girl insist or invite me to a date saying MY TREAT, then i respect that. I'm guessing here that you're the one who pays in every date you had

5. Ano na? Abandon ship na ba?

hhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ..... as Nora Aunor said WALANG HIMALA !!! Don't be a martyr. Just look at what you're doing, the guy is blatantly lying on your face and yet here you are " HABOL NANG HABOL ". Stop being stupid and wake up from that fallacy of a relationship. He is just using you, pardon for the term, but he is just facking you to satisfy his fleshy-needs and at the same time feeding his ego when he sees you doing HABOL NANG HABOL...

Mao jud. Basi si Darna, naa pa. Pero Himala, wala...

[arahdior]

TS ano ung zodiac sign ng current mo? anyways TS i think you already know the answer to your questions you just need someone na mo ingon for you, just follow your heart if its not worth it anymore leave it will be hard pero you will be okay!

[MaidenLove]

miss .. kanang dili man gud na DUDA ...

ani na lang oh ... gikan na sa imong first narration ha ...


first naa kay doubt .. and then matud pa nimo Dahil mabutingting ako, nalaman ko .... u've eventually learned the truth ... so ... kana imong mga DUDA is dili na DUDA ... doubt became FACT .... meaning, wala ka mag duda. ... imo ra nasakpan ang mga bakak sa imong uyab ....


ug sa kana imong question ...

1. normal ra na sa girl na mag anxiety/paranoid permi ..

2. kanang away about selos or duda, ok ra sad na ..

so akong tubag ana ... dili nako bulagan ang girl, not unless every day eminem na gyud

Yun po reklamo nya sa akin. Kasi everyday po...

[dozen]

TS, I admire your courage sharing your side here. Sa pagbasa ko sa post mo, intindi ko frustrations mo from the expectations sa relationship nyo. before i answer uour questions, may mga questions din sana ako na gusto ko itanong. 1) Masaya ka pa ba, i mean truly happy? 2) Worth it ba na hinabol mo pa at nakipagbalikan ka sa kanya? 3) Kaya mo ba na wala cya?

1. Yung past na yun ba dapat ako ma apektuhan?

>hindi ka dapat maapektohan sa past, past is past ika nga, pero.... may pero.... pero it would serve as a lesson for the both of you to learn on how to deal with specific situations. note on some indicators or hints or symptoms of the past from recurring

2. Dapat ko na bang pagdudahan itong mga "lowbat", "walang data" at "hindi na nagchacharge ng maayos ang CP" na pangyayaring ito?

>let go of the doubts, if he says or gives you that reason then let it be, let him screw himself up defending himself in the near future. just let it be and give him the benefit of the doubt, coz in time, when you find out he's lying, you'd be at an advantage to break off the relationship should you feel the need to. Let him earn your trust and not force it from you.


3. Sa mga details na binigay ko, may panghuhugutan ba ako na seryoso sya sa akin?

> In my opinion there is a hint, but not that definite yet, if you are confident that you both know what you want or need from each other to make the relationship work. I dont want to give you false hopes or anything, best to assume na hindi seryoso until proven and tested.

4. Kapag ba nag dadate sa panahon ngayon, papano ba ang gastos? Hati-an? or ang guy?

>depende, but the guy should be able to cover any and all expenses sa date, unless the girl offers some contribution or hati sa gastos.
5. Ano na? Abandon ship na ba?

> Yes. you should let him sort out his issues and you have more time to reflect on yours.



Pm me if you have further clarifications

Ps. Kung may tanong, tanong lang po.[/QUOTE]

[RayGunz]

That is a very good question indeed...pls allow me to repeat..

"Are you happy??" and "is the guy happy??"

I believe you know the answer very well... telling everybody can be an outlet, but YOU need to gather all your strength and wits to get rid of this az-hole.

There are days in our lives that we need to bite the bullet... and trust me you are not the only one having to deal such..