As a Guy, Ok ra ba nimu kung ang girl single mom? or Manguyab ba ka sa girl na naa nay anak?

[groundwork]

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ok ra jud na nako single mom. sayang wala niya makita akong kahago

[yvonne6]

most of the single moms like me, kung makig relasyon, seryoso, faithful and most loving jud tungod kay aware mi nga gamay ra ang mga lalaki nga open minded and proud to be in a relationship with a single mom"uban" super proud kaau na anytime they can always get someone better in seconds so walay worry if they play around. kami intawng mga single moms, we are always a subject of ridicule and judgment esp for those who has no freakin idea kung unsa kalisud ang ma single parent

[kikayko]

most of the single moms like me, kung makig relasyon, seryoso, faithful and most loving jud tungod kay aware mi nga gamay ra ang mga lalaki nga open minded and proud to be in a relationship with a single mom"uban" super proud kaau na anytime they can always get someone better in seconds so walay worry if they play around. kami intawng mga single moms, we are always a subject of ridicule and judgment esp for those who has no freakin idea kung unsa kalisud ang ma single parent

It is more hurting; heartbreaking that moment when ur present lover ( nga nanguyab nimo maski lam nya may anak ka) will tell to ur face na, sorry darling...d ko pala kaya yun bigat ng responsibilidad.
Nakaka low ng self-esteem.
Kala mo , he's ready to accept u for who u are.
But ur wrong.

[yvonne6]

^^well, u dont get into a relationship for the man to be responsible for a kid not his own. even if that should be given, lets face it, its really really hard. lisud man gani tag support ato na kaugalingon anak, kadaghan amahan diha gapasagad lang, walay support sa anak, so u cant really expect nga dali na para sa ubang laki. they will try in the name of love, but when reality and challenge sits in, aw, gawas na ang tinuod. as a single mom, you have to find ways to be self sufficient, bisag unsa ka lisud or kagamay sa sueldo, try to have a living on your own so that ang lalaki dili mahadlok nga magpa buhi lang ka ug imong anak. i know its unfair but we have to learn the trades, mao jud ni reality. ang kasagaran jud concern sa maka gusto ug single mom kay ang responsibility. mau ug c kris aquino ta nga ang worry sa laki kay ang pakatabian ra niya but thats another story

[brilumz]

ok ra man nga single mom..i dont care about her past..but what im concerned of is what would be our tomorrow.. if love namo ang usag usa..dili nako igsapayan kung unsa ang isulti sa ubang taw.. akong barugan akong pagbati niya and prove to them nga dili sayop ang akong desisyon.. ana lang ka simple

[blackberryboy]

uhmm respeto ko sa mga replies diri kay lahi2 man ta ug experiences and panan-aw sa life but i have a GF and naa na sya anak. I think if love nmo ang person then willing ka mo accept nga naa na sya anak then go for it. Before wen i was younger number rule jd na nakong "virgin" dapat ako ma uyab para ako seryosohon then time goes by nawala rpd na nako. Then time came na abot ko anang dapat "walay anak" ako ma gf para ako seryosohon then karon ako na gf is naay anak. Tarung jd sya na girl and mas tarung pa sya sa uban nako na ex mga walay anak pero 3rd party amo gi buwagan. Timing lang cguro tarung ang ako gf and naay plano sa life and malas lang cguro sya sa iyang love life before.

[alfaparf]

as a guy.. minus (-) point ba kung ang girl naa nay anak? why?

> nganu lisod dawaton ang single mom
> nagnu lain panan-aw sa single mom (d man na amung sala nganu nga irresponsable ang lalaki)
> ang if you will ask why single mom? -- kay mu prefer ko na ako nlang mag buhi sa akong anak kaysa naa pa irresposable na amahan, dagdag pabigat ra na.. mas lisod sad sa bata na maka kita na cge mi away..
> and if tagan chance mag balik mi? -- DILI na ko!! nganu mu balik pa man siya? the damage has been done. better look for a guy na mas karapat dapat!

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yes. if i truly love her and i feel deep in my heart that shes formal and have learned her mistakes. life is short and i dont want to waste it doing nothing.

[snipes]

being a single mom 4 me s not an issue. i actually had a girlfrnd b4 whos a single mom and she was very sweet very responsible and very isog sad! hehehe and i loved her kaso lang we broke up.

[Doge]

naa koy classmate pag college nga pili-an kaayog babae nya hambugiro pagyud mayrabag hitsuraan hehe, pero karon mga 5 yrs na nilabay kay iya uyab single mom and kada mag hang out mi maka sense gyud ko nga ni mature siya as a person. responsible sad siya sa anak sa iya uyab.

dili ragyud na issue kung mangoyab kag single mom, we should not hold anyone's past against them

[giodude]

Dili. Dili ni nako kaya.