DEBATE: TRUE Love - Hapiness vs. Sadness?

4U · 07-10-2005, 12:11 AM

DEBATE: TRUE Love - Hapiness vs. Sadness?

Introduction:

"85% of separated couples around the world wished for a Happy Marriage".

Why did Jesus Christ sacrificed himself in the cross?...
Because he wanted to show the world how much he Truly Loves us!... TRUE LOVE is Sacrifice...

That means TRUE LOVE is Sorrow... Pain... Agony... Sadness... etc...

That's why married people separate that easily because they don't really understand the message of the Holy Cross and the Reality of Life!...

**neishan731** · 07-10-2005, 07:27 AM

difrent man kaau ang imong gi compare woi... marriage mana ug ang love ni GOD... ang love sa man..conditional raman nah... because you'll love ur husband because you know he loves you too...thats y both seperates because the other doesnt feel love anymore...

ang LOVe ni GOD unconditional man...he loves you no matter what...bisan anti-christ paka...hehe

**maxgate** · 07-10-2005, 12:26 PM

different jd au ba..compare pd sa kanang level jd ba..

4U · 07-11-2005, 07:05 PM

I know what u all mean but why can't man love unconditionally? Especially in marriage were both of the couples vow to the Holy Altar to love in sickness & in health, for richer or for poorer,... Till DEATH DO US PART!... What do you call that? Conditional LOVE?... That's what Unconditional LOVE is...
Dibah?...

Too many conditions as the reason for separation in marriage Will 100% Separate all married couples around the world starting now!...
Why? Because nobody is alike. Even twins have differences...
That's why loving in marriage is a Sacrifice because it's ment to be Unconditional LOVE... Life time committment gud nah!... Dibah?...

What can you say?...

**amael** · 07-11-2005, 08:42 PM

Love is to accept the person, accept the whole of him/her without any condition. Ur willing to sacrifice just to make him/her happy.

**purple_19** · 07-11-2005, 09:26 PM

i think it's both.. i mean true love doesnt mean that you are always happy.. sad moments will make your relationship grow and can spice up your realtionship..

so for me i guess it's not really debatable..

**monrose29** · 07-12-2005, 01:30 AM

love is about sacrificing, understanding, forvigness, honesty, be responsible, acceptance.. if u have that things.... theres no reason why nga dli ka malipay..

**Musette du Coudray** · 07-12-2005, 05:26 AM

Originally Posted by amael

Love is to accept the person, accept the whole of him/her without any condition. Ur willing to sacrifice just to make him/her happy.

Indeed it is.

I know what u all mean but why can't man love unconditionally?

Because we are human. Created and molded with imperfections but some experienced unconditional love but it's rare. One can never ask to be loved unconditionally, even if vows were made during marriage, you can't expect to be loved unconditionally. Many went through this indeed when couples break the said vows but we cannot blame for such. It requires more than a sacrifice to achieve unconditional love.

**mylenz_888** · 07-12-2005, 09:49 AM

yes, i agree with musette...because we are only humans...we are not made 100% without sins, or evrything.....eventhough how much we try to make the love unconditional because of our imperfections,in the end conditons still tags along...so why debate about it...love of God is different...

**nomens** · 07-12-2005, 02:30 PM

I know what u all mean but why can't man love unconditionally?

Because we are human. Created and molded with imperfections but some experienced unconditional love but it's rare. One can never ask to be loved unconditionally, even if vows were made during marriage, you can't expect to be loved unconditionally. Many went through this indeed when couples break the said vows but we cannot blame for such. It requires more than a sacrifice to achieve unconditional love.
[marquee]"It requires more than a sacrifice to achieve unconditional love"[/marquee]
Hapiness and Sadness will always be together.