
Originally Posted by
JjjonJ
thank you guys. I think the problem is with me -- wla kaau ko *** drive
di ko maturn on niya sexually, di ko magbiga - seldom ra kaau.
that could be one of the reasons why he indulges himself to porn nlng.
we even tried "experimenting" di jd kaya oi, sakit kaau. lol
There it is! Knowing/admitting what the problem is is the biggest and hardest step we usually take towards a solution. Now that You're past that, you should focus on the solution/compromise.
Although based on your post, ikaw ang nabother on your lack of s*x when you are the one having a problem. Obviously, watching porn is your partner's way of coping with the situation but di ka nahan sa idea kay for you it is cheating.
So, I'm seeing two solutions here:
1. Despite having lower libido than your partner, add more effort in making love with him so that he won't turn to porn to satisfy his cravings.
2. If you can't give him the sexual satisfaction he needs then you should let him have his porn to compensate for that lack.
For me, better porn than another man, right?
But it is always good that you talk to your man on what he wants and about what you want then you can go from there.