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Originally Posted by blakrabit
maybe the question should be "how would he react if he sees me at the mall looking hot and fab while ...
Typical stereotyping. When two boys hold hands you automatically think of them in a sexual way - who's the one on top or and who's the bottom. So much more with groups of gay lads meeting up, you automatically think of an orgy right?
Go ahead and read our previous posts and see if you could still think of our meetings as something with sexual intent. If you're too lazy to read then I'll tell you straight away, we're not that kind of group.
anyone here who's in a relationship?
Question lng,
* How often do you have s*x with you partner?
* what if you partner fantasizes on someone (pornstar on *****), is that already considered cheating?
btw, we've been together for almost 4 yrs but we seldom have s*x cz neither of us wants to get fvcked/penetrated. honestly, Mdyo naboringan n me duha whn it comes to s*x..saon ni?
sorry sa mdyo censored post, just need your thoughts on this.
PM lng sa advise ky bcin ma-ban ta. tia!
@JjjonJ
Based on previous experience lang, since I have full-time work and my ex then lives far from the city, we can only spend our quality time (making love included) for 2 or 3 times a week. Not much I suppose. But sabtanay og adjustment lang usahay, kay naa man pud mi work and all.
I don't know if your partner is thinking of someone else when your both doing the drill, but for me, morag wth moment man kaayo uy. Makaway gana man. On the other hand, role-playing is a different matter. Although I haven't tried it, it would probably add excitement and variety on your moment together. Just my 2cents.
@JjjonJ Watching porn is like cheating. At firat it's just purely watching but later on it somehow makes you feel na ok ra makig s*x maski kinsa. Me and my partner watch porn together. It's fun pero make sure the fun ends there kay the moment you bring those porn stars to your bed (fantasize about them while doing it with your partner), you're already cheating.
Me and my partner only spend weekends together. Wala pa mi ga puyo kay gabayad pa man mi sa amo balay. Yes we have s*x on our days together pero we don't make it the reason ngano magkuyog mi. We enjoy each other's company and we do things we love like watching movies and eating out.
Ako advise ninyo kay try to do things na dili ninyo pirmi gina buhat. Biyahe mo maski overnight lang. Or you two take up a sport. Daghan man mahimo ba.
Ang challenge man gud ug mag dugay mu kay mao na basin ma bored mo. Gamay na change of pace and change of surroundings ra na bai and balik na mo ana sa dati.
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thanks guys.. Actually, were living in together for quite sometime now, we share the same interests (we travel, go to the gym etc.) we both love each other - no doubt but wla lng jd spark amoa s*xlife.
Shock lng ko ky when I checked his Twitter account, naliki ko s iyang mga gipangfollow ky halos tanan porn stars! I even caught him once nagMB then looking at those nude pics![]()
@JjjonJ I think ang kuwang ninyo is excitement. Try something different. Matod pa ni @MenSana role playing daw. Try anything to bring the spark back to your bed. Imagina ha, karon pornstars pa na. Maghuwat pa ka na mapul-an siya sa mga pornstars unya mangita siyag lain, kana naa jud physically? Think about it kay ako niabot ko ana na point na di nako masatisfy sa porn.
You should try something new. Maybe getting f*cked in the ass is all you need. LOL! Bitaw, 4 years na mo and wala pa jud nigive in? Or maybe di lang jud ninyo preferred ang penetration?
If you just do the usual kissing, sucking and jacking off, why not spend more time exploring your partner's body with your tongue. That's sensory overload!
Learn sensual massage and treat your partner with one until it leads to the *** part.
Or learn linggam(sp?) massage and surprise your partner how good you are.
Or maybe you just need a change of scenery? Tired of always having *** in your bedroom? Go out of town. Go somewhere romantic. That would make everything you do (especially ***) more special.
Also, maybe there's a medical condition underlying your current problem. Low testosterone level, low libido, ED, PE?
Talk it out with your partner.
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