Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 19

tough love vs. spanking


This discussion is about "tough love vs. spanking" in the "General Discussions" forums.
Tough Love vs. Spanking Good Argument Most of the American populace thinks it improper to spank children, so I have tried other methods to control ...

  1. #1
    Senior Member thamora's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    757

    Default tough love vs. spanking


    Tough Love vs. Spanking

    Good Argument

    Most of the American populace thinks it improper to spank children, so I have tried other methods to control my kids when they have one of 'those moments.'
    One that I found effective is for me to just take the child for a car ride and talk.
    Some say it's the vibration from the car, others say it's the time away from any distractions such as TV, Video Games, Computer, IPod, etc.



    Either way, my kids usually calm down and stop misbehaving after our car ride together. Eye to eye contact helps a lot too.

    I've included a photo below of one of my sessions with my son, in case you would like to use the technique.





  2. #2
    C.I.A. cptn_star's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    6,981
    naa na diay ka son mam? looking at ur pic, u dont seem to look like a mom...heheh

  3. #3
    Elite Member tatakalz's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    1,038
    Blog Entries
    3
    bitaw kung tarungun lng tingali ug sulti ang imong mga siblings nga dili na maayo ilang gibuhat cguro makasabot rana cla, kaysa imong bulanan or dapatan ba run...

    hinuon wala pman koy anak, na enlighten ko ani....thnks....

  4. #4
    C.I.A. babypaupau's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    2,331
    Blog Entries
    3
    ako di ko mamunal sa akong 5 yr old kid. i just stare at him and mupuyo na daun na siya.

    if imo man gud bunalan, ma immune na sila so di na sila mutuo everytime badlungon nimo.
    and if situations get out of hand, ako na sya papilion sa punishment na iyang gusto, face sa wall o bunal. then after ako sya sturyahon. that way, makasabot sya unsa iya gbuhat. works for me so you should try it.

  5. #5
    Senior Member thamora's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    757
    Quote Originally Posted by cptn_star View Post
    naa na diay ka son mam? looking at ur pic, u dont seem to look like a mom...heheh
    yup ....thanks..hehhe

  6. #6
    C.I.A. jLuspoc's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2004
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    2,099
    Hahahaha KEWL!!! kalma ra jud kaau bah pro lantawa ug d ba mo tagam ang anak.

    kung na anad man gud daw ang bata sa bunal, ma pating hangtud mo abot ang tym nga d na jud na cla maminaw sa imo maskin pag ma bun-og nlang na cla nmo...

  7. #7
    Elite Member Engineering's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    1,567
    Blog Entries
    1
    actually makasabot man jud nah ang bata ngano bunalan sila.... if tarungon lang nimo sila ug storya.. based on experience katung bata pku... thats a filipino way how to raise there children nga matinumanon sa parents.. they correct me when im still young kay badlongon bya ko sauna ehhe..

  8. #8
    C.I.A. coolguyiam20's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    4,039
    ahm...pra sakoa dapat imo jud na pitulon pra d masipat or mgpabadlong
    kana ganing mura mahadlok xa mbuhat og dautan ,,
    pro wa pa noon ko kasuway og anak..alangan wa mai anakan..eheheh..
    pro kasuway nko cge bantay bata kay ako mn kinamaguwangan..eheheh..
    hadlok mn nko akong manghud..au sigaan lng og mata..waaaahhh

  9. #9
    C.I.A. xxSTARLIGHT's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    3,206
    imoha gyud ni son??

  10. #10
    Senior Member thamora's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    757
    Quote Originally Posted by xxSTARLIGHT View Post
    imoha gyud ni son??
    heheh, dili oi, wla nako ge edit akong email,largo nko post diri

    pure maning bataa tan awn..ang akoa kay half jud...hehehe

  11.    Advertisement

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

 
  1. Somebody you LOVE vs Somebody you LIKE
    By ChaosOrb in forum "Love is..."
    Replies: 36
    Last Post: 08-21-2016, 06:28 AM
  2. Love VS. Parents and the like
    By Uzumaki Naruto in forum Relationships (Old)
    Replies: 411
    Last Post: 09-29-2010, 01:33 PM
  3. LOVE vs/and RELIGION
    By NudeFreak in forum Family Matters
    Replies: 299
    Last Post: 03-20-2010, 06:21 PM
  4. A Very Special Love VS For the First Time
    By stevemenk30 in forum TV's & Movies
    Replies: 87
    Last Post: 08-28-2009, 03:56 PM
  5. Love vs. love vs. marriage
    By rockrhyan1982 in forum Humor
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 07-29-2008, 03:35 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
about us
We are the first Cebu Online Media.

iSTORYA.NET is Cebu's Biggest, Southern Philippines' Most Active, and the Philippines' Strongest Online Community!
follow us
#top