for me lng, ;isud jud if naa child involved. but before making any decisions, maybe as wives, let's try to look at ourselves sad. maybe la na kai ta pagwapa kai busy sa work. maybe wer no longer paying attn to our husbands, mura pud bya na sila bata na kinahanglan i-pamper. remember, we have duties to both our husband and children. the children should never be the reason to stay in a relationship that's no longer working. try to give it another chance first, rekindle ur love, go on a 2nd honeymoon, if la pa jud den follow what ur heart tells you. if ur kids are big enough, i think they should be involved in the decision-maikng. try asking how they feel about the situation. u can be separated but u still have the choice to be friends for the sake of the kids. i know lisud but dba, la mn daw ghatag si God na dili nato kaya?