Family pickin ur boyfriend or girlfriend

**natividad** · 09-12-2007, 04:38 PM

how do u guys feel about your parents or family members picking your better half?

**shimiyu** · 09-12-2007, 06:15 PM

hmmm coming from a fiercely independent spirit... a brick wall of NO.

**Serene** · 09-12-2007, 08:42 PM

At this state in my life, maybe i would. Im such a coward. When i have life-changing problems and decisions, i would always ask my loved ones their opinions and that's how i decide.

**vladmire** · 09-12-2007, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by Serene

At this state in my life, maybe i would. Im such a coward. When i have life-changing problems and decisions, i would always ask my loved ones their opinions and that\'s how i decide.

well, i guess you\'re a family oriented person. as for me, its ok.

**radiostar** · 09-13-2007, 03:50 AM

bati.a ani oi

**harryperales** · 09-13-2007, 04:55 AM

i think its not fair for them to pick who you would want to be with, kay what if they picked the wrong one for you. they will not be the one to live with the girl for the whole time. Worst if such pickings would not work out it would simply add up to the number of broken families. coming from a broken family, i think that its not such a good idea. I think parents and love ones can just give the advice but still its the last say is always yours because you will be the one who will live with the man/woman you chose

**ronna** · 09-13-2007, 05:55 AM

before, i almost got married to a person i barely know that mom picked for me.
i was so young and innocent back then. my relatives (mom's side) argued with her and that went a long way until it was resolved.
right now, i have a boyfriend of my choice. my mom dislike him sometimes and she says i dunno how to choose daw..

way kwena.. basta lab nako akong bb. way magbuot!

**harryperales** · 09-13-2007, 07:02 AM

yep, you made the right choice. love is really all that matters when we go into relationships.

**shimiyu** · 09-13-2007, 09:31 AM

hmm.. although there are some merits to your family choosing your partner for you.
they provide an objective assessment of that person.

**cuttie_angel** · 09-13-2007, 03:09 PM

it's really hard if your parents would pick the right one for you coz you cannot say NO in it.