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What is a meantime girl?

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by , 02-17-2012 at 02:44 PM (2931 Views)
She's the one you call when you're bored because she makes you laugh. She's the one you talk to when you're feeling down because she's willing to lend an ear and be a friend. She's not the one you call when you need a date to your company's Christmas party, or to go dancing with on a Saturday night. She's the one you spend time with between girlfriends, before you find "The One". You know, the one who you keep around in the meantime. She's not one of the guys, not a tomboy, but you don't look at her as a "real" woman, either. She's not bitchy enough, moody enough, or sexy enough to be seen in that light. She's too laid-back, too easily amused by the same things your male buddies are amused by. She's too understanding, too comfortable - she doesn't make you feel nervous or excited the way a "real" woman does. But she's cool, and nice, and funny, and attractive enough that when you're lonely or horny and need intimate female companionship, she'll do just fine. You don't have to wine and dine her because she knows the real you already, and you don't have any facades to keep up, no pretenses to preserve. You're not trying to get anything of substance out of her. She's not easy, but you know that she cares about you and is attracted to you, and that she'll give you the intimacy you need. And you know you don't have to explain yourself or the situation, that she'll be able to cope with the fact that this isn't the beginning of a relationship or that there's any possibility that you have any real romantic feelings for her. It won't bother her that you'll get up in the morning, put on your pants, say goodbye, and go on a date with the woman you've been mooning over for weeks who finally agreed to go out with you. She'll settle for a goodbye hug and a promise to call her and tell her how the date went. She's just so cool . . . why can't all women be like that?! But deep down, if you really think about it (which you probably don't because to you, the situation between the two of you isn't important enough to merit any real thought), you know that it's really not fair. You know that although she would never say it, it hurts her to know that despite all her good points and all the fun you two have, you don't think she's good enough to spend any real time with. Sure, it's mostly her fault, because she doesn't have to give in to your needs - she could play the hard-to-get bitch like the rest of them do, if she really wanted to. But you and she both know that she probably couldn't pull it off. Maybe she's too short, or a little overweight, or has a big birthmark on her forehead, or works at Jollibee. Whatever the reason, somehow life has given her a lot of really great qualities but has left out the ones that men want (or think they want) in a woman. So she remains forever the funny friend, the steadfast companion, the secret lover, and you go on searching for your goddess who will somehow be everything you ever wanted in a woman. You'll joke to her that she should be the best man at your wedding, and she'll laugh and make a joke about a smelly rental barong. She doesn't captivate you with her beauty, or open doors with her smile. Mainly she blends in with the crowd. She's safe. She doesn't want to be the center of attention and turn the heads of everyone in the room. But she wants to turn someone's head. She wants to be special to someone, too. We all do. She has feelings. She has a heart. In fact, she probably has a bigger and better heart than any woman you've ever known because she's had a front-row seat to The Mess That Is Your Life, and she likes you anyway. She obviously sees something worthwhile and redeeming in you because although you've given her nothing, absolutely there's no reason for her to be with you but she still is. Think about you have a meantime girl? likes this.


  1. bitchybutsweet's Avatar
    i am the meantime girl...
    promil_kid likes this.
  2. unthoknee376's Avatar
    a sad reality
  3. henrinator's Avatar
    More like friendzoned

    but intimate stuffs? FU-BU? thats too much. Girls please, don't let these jerks play you.

    I admit I have a sort-of meantime girl, feelings are mutual really, it's just that she's not the "GF type" and I can't imagine myself having those kilig moments with her. She's beautiful, sexy, funny, loves the outdoors, could cook etc. (everything a guy could want in a girl), just that she ain't the "I-want-to-hug-and-snuggle-up, have-a-romantic-dinner, text-me-whenever-you're-done-with-work" type. We've talked about it though, but she just comes out as a meantime girl type, all the time.
  4. siopao1984's Avatar
    bayota nimo RR oi. mag blog2x pod diay ka? hahaha
  5. R_sQuArEd's Avatar
    mas bayot pa ka nako mike! :grin:
  6. nausicaa's Avatar
    it's hard to know that they're out there waiting.waiting.waiting...............
    meantime girl it is...............
    very sad reality indeed..............
  7. Cisco1302013's Avatar
    I find this sad. Got me thinking real hard. Made me wonder what it would feel like being that girl. Won't do. Won't happen. Coz I won't ever have allowed it. I can't stand being a wallflower. No siree. But hey, just thinking out loud. Nice blog.
  8. Cisco1302013's Avatar
    By the way, I read this over again and this time from the perspective of a guy. I thought a girl posted this the first time. The context changed dramatically when I read it the second time around. But the fact remains that it's a sad reality. Can't change that.
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