Sometimes there is more than just friendship...

[tikboy]

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"IF PLATONIC AIN'T COOL, THEN WHAT IS?"

Matagal mo na siyang kilala.
Lagi mo siyang kasama, magkakabit na nga ang bituka
nyo e.
Pareho ang trip nyo sa buhay kaya hindi kayo
nauubusan ng pag-uusapan o gagawin.
You find the same jokes funny.
Pag turn-off sayo, ganun din sa kanya.
Super concerned siya sayo, as in, she knows when you
are not feeling well and what to do when you're
down.
Alam mo kapag bad trip siya.
Takbuhan nyo ang isa't isa kapag may problema.
Kapag kayong dalawa na ang magkasama, parang may
sarili kayong mundo. Kahit tawa lang kayo ng tawa,
wala kayong pakialam. Basta ang importante, you have
each other's company.
You feel so comfortable with each other that holding
hands and hugging seem natural.
She makes you feel so special and loved that you
suddenly have these urges of kissing her.

Help! Help! Help!
Pare, hindi pwede yan!
Bakit, kayo ba?
Ouch!
Bakit ka namumula?
What can I say, you look so affected! Wala naman
akong ginawa, dba? I just asked the right question.

Well, sorry ka na lang, magaling ako! hehehe!
Don't panic!!!
Relax.
Take a deep breath and say... banana!!!
One more time now... banana!!!
Concentrate.
Focus.
Try to look back.
Ano ang nakikita mo?
Sino ang iniisip mo?
SIYA.
Syet!
You are starting to realize how cool she is.
Syeter!
You are beginning to miss her.
Syetest!
You are actually in love with her.
Banana!!!
What dja gonna do, bullet? Duh?!

Frankly, dude, I have no idea.
Yes, after making you admit to yourself that you're
in a situation that could change your entire life, I
will leave you hanging.
Teka, hindi naman ako ganun kasama.
Okay, let's see what we can do.

First, we have to establish that your feelings for
her go beyond friendship.
Now the question is... does she feel the same way?
How the hell are you going to find out?
Aha! Go to her and ask it right to her face.
Do you labs me?
Grabe, parang pwede.
Do you have the guts to do it?
Do it, boy.
I'm right behind you, theoretically speaking.

Anyway, you still have the option of whether you
would like to know or not.
Think.
Think hard.
Think harder.

Look, ano ba ang nangyayari ngayon?
Don't you feel that, somehow, you are being used for
convenience?
Imagine - no commitment, no strings-attached.
Hindi lang yon.
Super malambing siya sayo pero bigla siyang babanat
na may crush siyang ibang guy.
It hoyts, dba?
And, once in a while, hihirit siya sayo na parang
nagpaparinig na she likes you.
Sabay bawi.

Kainis!
What's worse is that since you feel something deeper
for her, sometimes you tend to misunderstand or
exaggerate yung ipinapakita niyang affection sayo.
Thus, you kinda assume na maybe "meron" din siya.
Then you'll end up frustrated but you can't do
anything about it.
Damn, it sucks!

Kaya, the best thing to do is to set things
straight.
End your miseries and be merry.
It would be better na alamin nyo kung ano ba talaga
para you wouldn't miss this opportunity and be
doomed to live the rest of your life wondering what
if...
Just what if...
Who knows, it might be you and her together forever.

Kay saya!
How ispektakolar!!!

So, if platonic ain't cool, then what is?

[skOOkUMcHUck]

hmmm i can relate to this...


and the best thing is that...

we're now together!
isn't cool

[krystelle]

no exact words to describe...what would the best thing would be....

[zer0_cooL]

maka relate ko gamay pro that was before.. wala na karn

[n0stALg|a]

i sooooooo can relate to this?!?!

i tried tellin him how i really feel... but i told him im not askin him to feel even half of what im feelin for him... but what happened?!?! wala na cya diri sa cebu.... it sucks!! as in!!

[giver_bert]

My insights....

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing
and is your voice caught within your chest??
-It isn't love, it's LIKE.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of her/him,
am I right??
-It isn't love, it's LUST.

Are you proud, and eager to show her off??
-It isn't love, it's LUCK.

Do you want her because you know she's there??
-It isn't love, it's LONELINESS.

Are you with her because it's what everyone wants??
-It isn't love, it'S LOYALTY.

Are you with her because she kissed you, or held your hand?
-It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE.

Do you stay for her confessions of love,
because you don't want to hurt her?
-It isn't love, it's PITY.

Do you belong to her because the sight of her
makes your heart skip a beat??
-It isn't love, it's INFATUATION.

Do you pardon her faults because you care about her?
-It isn't love, it's FRIENDSHIP.

Are you willing to give up all of your favorite things
for her sake?
-It isn't love, it's CHARITY


just a thought guys........

[thisbe.ara]

it's cool--- it practices your emotional exercise..
but as to the tolerance of the exercise.. whether you should go on or stop it, that is another story..

[pnk_shadows]

philia-eros-agape

friendships offer diff. kinds of love..it may be exciting 2 guess and excruciating to wait but if u feel d friendship u have cud go to a diff level then why not...after all, some special feelings for another person go thru (or jz belong) to these 3 stages..if platonic aint cool..then its something else..something else u should really sort out..

[YbriP]

sus!
kung ako ani...piti!!!

lingkod sa kilid nya bahala na siya...

i dont want to create sumthing nga maka guba sa among pagkahigala..
ug mao man gani nga ang panahon maoy magda namo sa pagkatrato,
mao jud nai mahitabo pero ug dili gani,anha ra jud kutob..

better friends than never..

[tikboy]

sus!
kung ako ani...piti!!!

lingkod sa kilid nya bahala na siya...

i dont want to create sumthing nga maka guba sa among pagkahigala..
ug mao man gani nga ang panahon maoy magda namo sa pagkatrato,
mao jud nai mahitabo pero ug dili gani,anha ra jud kutob..

better friends than never..

But how would you k now na nganha ra jed mo kutob? if you really love her would you not take the risk? You know for a person you love.. you really love, you might take some risk greater than this one...
If i will be in this situation.. then ill take the plunge i better be hurt than living a life of what if.. dba?