His mom sleeps in our room

[Vulmaran]

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The family isues are abit tricky, but you should not allow the kids to know what is going on in the house, this can only be done when you make him a seperate room for sleeping. We should be varey carefull with our families, thats why it is better to decide well before you enter into a relationship. This is to prepare for responsibilities effectively.

[Avocado]

This is definitely not normal.
You are adults, you are a couple and you should have a separate room. Children should have their own room, and here the couple does not have their own space.
Does that suit your husband? I think he should resolve this issue if his relationship with you is important to him. Talk to him, explain that you are uncomfortable and that this is an abnormal situation. If you are important to him, he will do his best. I think that this problem can be easily solved, all he needs is a wish.

[sarang]

dili na sinelfish imo miga, that is the right thing to do, and sa part sa imong in law she should know kay ni agi pud siya ug kaminyoon , na hatagan mo niya ug privacy sa iyang anak