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Have you missed the part where i was stuck at the hospital instead mangumusta sila sa akong kondisyon, ga sige nuon text nangayo ug kwarta.

Truth is, i have not once (seriously) been asked by any...

I totally agree. Its very painful for me to do this but if i dont, things will just get even worse. I tried to show them attention, everytime i come home for a holiday i always invite them to go out...

Yes, after my dad died i continued to support them to have the same lifestyle because i thought it was the right thing to do rather than seeing them in the streets but it seems like, i was wrong but...

I wouldnt say i gAve them the lifestyle.if you read my first post, we all grew up with nannies amd helpers.

Ill tell you why im becoming very cold sir,

I was stuck in the hospital for horrific pelvic pain for a week and ive been diagnosed for having a ruptured cysts and cervical hemmorhage, while i was...

i made a promise to my father's grave that i will look after the family he has left and will make sure ill keep them together but yes i admit, ive gone overboard with everything and i made them lazy...

they'll have no choice soon but to get a job otherwise they will surely starve. i've already made up my mind and i dont think it'll ever change after all the lies they've made,I'm become so cold...

im getting in that stage where im gonna have to get rid of them because im not far off loosing my sanity if i don't. be harsh all you like, its okay. theres nothing anyone can say anymore that can...

i had the same thought but me and my older sister look alike. we're 11 months apart and some people even mistaken us as twins.

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walay lami e-maalaala sir kay its not a...

UPDATE: Sorry guys, it took me awhile to update this thread. i was rushed in the hospital a week ago due to ruptured ovarian cyst (horrific pain,i passed out!) and i would like to thank everyone who...

My mum has always been a big spender not to herself but she spoils her children ALOT and anyone thats close to her thats oneof the reason why after my dad's demise, we lost the company because she...

I agree sir :-). very well said. I have no problems adapting in this country actually wherever I go, I can always look after myself. cleaning the house, washing my family's clothes is not a big deal...

Yes it good to be back sir. I miss istorya alot! Ari rata makapagawas sa atong kahiubos LOL. :-).

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Ill check it out :-). Thank you :-)

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I told her already that she cant pull up those childish stunts anymore because if she does, itll be her fault not mine. kapoy oi. as in kapoy kayo, from work then looking after your famiy then tagaan...

I thought I was doing the right thing by supporting them financially but then ive come to realized that all this time, all I did is just making them lazy and being too independent and im the one to...

thanks istoryans for all the kind words, its not over yet but im seeing some improvements with my family hopefully itll get even better. :-)

UPDATE: im back talking to my mum but this time im setting the limits. I told her what I want done and what I expect. told her I cannot send anymore money than I used to, that they have to start...

Bottomline is, i just want them to change their attitudes. To learn to appreciate of what they have and what theyve been given.
For my older sister to take responsibility for her actions because im...

I agree sir. Ive been getting good advices. Ive already made up my mind to stand my ground and not give in their demands anymore.

I left them some rental properties which is very easy to get...

We run a crane truck company that supplies heavy machineries to the aussie government, to fix the railways and we have a pallet factory but both are mainly a man's job. No room for a woman except for...

That is exactly my point to my mum sir. I want my siblings to see the real world and be able to survive in the real world. I want my older sister to for once to take some responsibility. She can work...

She then put herself in a hunger strike after 4 days or i think 5 that i still didnt send money. Im in so much fear of checking my phone everyday because the messages ive been egtting from her are...

But sir i did that, left 40k before i left for food ang grocerries, a week after she was ringing me already asking for more and i told her no. Then she turned to an angry gorrilla on the phone just...

If i send less, she will still not be happy and we will just be arguing and fighting on the phone. Im not far from being disowned and i feel like i couldnt care less.

Id rather be left alone than...

Help? Their ears to listen because thats all that i need. I dont want my friends to know about it because i know they will just feel sorry for me and that i do not accept. I just dont like anyone to...

I wish im not though. Even my own psychologist find it hard to remedy my problems. She even thinks that no matter what i do, someone will get hurt in the process of trying to fix things to make it...

We used to have a helper here in sydney but i had to sack them because i feel like a pabigat with my husband after i have to send monthly financial support then magkatabang pa ko diri so i made a...

Kind of.

I tried to discpline my siblings. One saturday morning i told all the helpers that theyre not doing the laundry. My siblings will wash their own clothes afferall theyre not doing...

How can I discipline my siblings if my mum let them bend my rules?

When I was there, I told both my younger brother and sister to come home straight after school. Everyday I've been telling them....

Because at least I know I'm talking to strangers rather Facebook where all my friends get to see my post.
More than worried of posting it in Facebook and my fiends will loose respect of me. No doubt...