help, tabang sa akong gf na nakakita na ug lain...

[mr_sadman24]

guys i really need your help, sort of advice lang kung unsa maayu naku buhaton ane ako gf...

ane ang story guys....

4 years na me ane ako gf, then sa kalit lang nawala iya love naku, kalit nabugnaw ang tanan, gibuhat naman unta nku tanan tarung ug kabuang niya...

*una tarung in the sense na wala jud ko mangita ug lain in the span sa 4 years namu pagka-uyab...
during sa ups and downs sa iya family wala ko mawala niya.... financer naman gani ko usahay sa iya sis ug papa para lang jud mahappy ako gf ba, ive done everything man jud.... wala man unta ko magbisyo. i dont smoke, i dont drink hard liq.. pa jud.... hmmmm buotan gamay man gud... ako bisyo lang kay pc game nuan.....pero wala pud siya naku gipulihan ug time sa DOTA sessions nku...

*then kabuang kay duwa man pud me kayo duwa usahay... ambot makabuang man ning kayoha gud...

then mao to bugnaw na kaayu cya nku, wala na txttxt, kalit wala na time makiglaag, worse thing di na mokuyog simba due to some blah blah blah daw... ako pud lagi kay salig na kaayu niya, ok lang.....then i found out naa na diay cya bestfriend (thats according to her"akong gf") na i think mga hapit na 40 ang age... (ako gf kay 25) i found out na pareho sila sa maong laki ug hilig....
(MGA ALA SUPERSTAR KUNG MANUWA UG BASKETBALL BA!!!) mao guro nagkasuod pud sila while wala ako besides her....

one time sige ko wait sa ilaha place nya BTW silingan ra diay sila atong if new bestf, it takes me 5 hours of waiting for her na mouli, i went to church alone that day,then i found out nagkuyog ra diay sila tupad sa basketan (with some good commu) pagkagabii atong adlawa... grabe selos naku ato pero nada raku sa iya mga bulatik... peace na me.. then one time pagpadung namu uli misecreto ko ug sunod niya then mao na pud naabtan na pud naku siya with her bestf na pud... selos na pud ko.. pero nada ra ghapon sa bulatik.... but this time nagkondisyun ko nga dapat balhin na jud cya ug new apartment... (which in that time is plan na jud niya mobalhin tungod sa kamahal sa bills niya ato ila apartment sauna...)

i was then PUNO na sa pagsalig na ok na ang tanan... mao to for one month sa ila new apartment kas a raku nakavisit kay grabe naku kabusy sa new business naku.... til nag open na ako business, establish na gamay ang business kalit lang mitxt iya sister...
asking sorry for me kay dugay daw kayu cya nagpahibaw nku nga kato bestf saku gf is since pagbalhin nila sa new apartment kay sige na daw adto... sometimes adto pa jud daw matulog.. mag inom sila saku gf didto...

surprise kaayu ko,,,, i mean kurat kay ngano...
ok pa ang ako gf naku... cg pa anhi samu pero mao na diay to everytime moanhi cya kay magdalidali na ug uli, mao na diay to nga di na cya mosugot na moadto ko sa ilaha after sa iya work kay mao na diay to... ang ako lang nahibulongan kay why she's keep on pretending na ok pa me... magpaf*** paman gani siya naku... i dont know unsay gusto niya mahitabo... i really dont know unsay buhaton naku guys.....

please help..... ane ra diay gihapon guys no..
ang tanan kaayu mawala ra diay kung mawala na ang love....

please comfort me guys...

mr_sadman24@yahoo.com...
chat chat ta sa ok moadvice diha....

matsalamzzzzzzz..................

[cromagnon]

my only advice is from a book ,, it did help during ur dark times....


Love come and go .. -

u may lost but , the memories will still remain in you , it will brighten ur day and give new tomorrows' .
just think of it anytime...

its ok to cry , btw ....

be man dude , there are still 6billion women out there,.. .

[cromagnon]

jelousy is one of the strongest emotion. . kun sa dota pa , double damage ...

basta ayaw lng jud pakamatay kay, dili na ka respawned ... hehe

[mr_sadman24]

Quote: Originally Posted by cromagnon my only advice is from a book ,, it did help during ur dark times.... Love come and go .. - u may lost but , the memories will still remain in you , it will brighten ur day and give new tomorrows' . just think of it anytime... its ok to cry , btw .... be man dude , there are still 6billion women out there,.. .

lagi bro..
ang ako lang is unsaon pud naku siya pagpalayu... cg paman sad gud anhi sa balay...
kuyawan pud ko basin mabuntis then akoy paangkonun...

Quote: Originally Posted by cromagnon jelousy is one of the strongest emotion. . kun sa dota pa , double damage ... basta ayaw lng jud pakamatay kay, dili na ka respawned ... hehe

lagi bro...
godlike na ang iya bestfriend da wala na gud ko ka-item...
paetzzzz....

[Blackjellybean27]

Hmmm.. grabe naman that girl.. grabe pod ka sa loyalty mo.. Uhmmm my advice, stay away! Sos, klaro kaau bro na she's not worth it. Your girlfriend might still have feelings for you, possibly ikaw jud love niya. The thing is, that bestfriend2x? ahhh sos! I don't believe in that platonic thing at all. It's possible but very unlikely. She doesn't want to lose you, and she doesn't want to lose her "best friend".. She clearly doesn't have any respect for you! Wake up, bro.. hehehe.. She's not worth your love and your time.

[Blackjellybean27]

Quote: Originally Posted by cromagnon my only advice is from a book ,, it did help during ur dark times.... Love come and go .. - u may lost but , the memories will still remain in you , it will brighten ur day and give new tomorrows' . just think of it anytime... its ok to cry , btw .... be man dude , there are still 6billion women out there,.. .

True! kadaghan dira chix oi! She might seem one in a million now.. pero the way she is acting! NOT worth it...

Remember:
"no one can promise they'll never hurt you because at one time or another, it will happen. The real promise is if the time you spend together will be worth the pain in the end."

[KizoneC]

bai just let her go kung asa sya malipayon pasagdi-i sya.. kai in the first place she's not the only girl sa kalibutan and besides naa gyuy gibuhat nga para imo ... mao jud na ang life abi nimo og mao na na pero dili diay to naa pa mas gwapa ana nya bai kung gwapa man gani na imong uyab... psagdii na ang mga tawng walai paki sa imong gugma.

[c0m@t0s3]

Quote: Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27 True! kadaghan dira chix oi! She might seem one in a million now.. pero the way she is acting! NOT worth it... Remember: "no one can promise they'll never hurt you because at one time or another, it will happen. The real promise is if the time you spend together will be worth the pain in the end."

Agree jud ko nimu Jelly. She's not worth it man. Makakita rka'g upgrade ana (someone better than her) who truly deserves the love, respect & loyalty you have given her all this time. Tama pud ka mr sad man...duwa jud xa'g basket pero niduwa xa sa duha ka korte. Everything happens for a reason bro. I believe that this happened to make you wiser. Hopefully you learned something here. Nka observe sad ko nga nkapagawas ka'g money para niya. I'm not saying you shouldn't have helped her or her family out but money is a very hot item these days. Just think about it.

[gikapoy]

ako gi buhat sauna kai
renew ako passport
larga overseas

[joan624]

gigamit raka ana para kabayad cya sa iyang new apartment.. and para naa cya food sa trable.. na by thew ay gipakaon ra na niya sa iyang BESTFRIEND.. whew!

[headblockx888]

everything happens for a reason bai. sooner or later naa ra mo abot mas nindot. its her loss. nag tinarong gud ka. maka realise ra cya ana and by that time its too late to get you back na hehe ayaw lng pag binuang og lain girl kay ma gabaan ra ka and madaot imong dignity hehe sayop pud ka kay grabe ra ka kabuotan and loyal niya kasagaran bya girls karon dli na loyal daghan na ka date2x or textmates hehe no offense sa mga girls dri

[Fern]

usna imung gusto mag pa ka martyr ka.... you love pero ain ni puck sa iya

tabla ra na ug ikaw ang asawa and lain tao imung pa eyutun sa imu asawa.

funny!!!

waht if marrried na mu.... then lain guy mu bira.... dude!!!! pangita ug lain oie... she just married you para mu buhi sa imung anak nga dili nimu anak :P

pangita ug babae...


it would be great if you find a girl with the same aims like yours... kanang naa sad negosyo... para mas mu dako pa gyud ang negosyo

[lovely_chic]

gihimo ra ka ug "milking cow" sa imu gf. she didn't even appreciate what you've done for her and to her family...naa jud mga babae karon nga di khbalo makuntento. she's a piece of SHIT so why stay with her. my advice lang is leave her na lang coz ulahi rba ang pagmahay...

[elvishtattoo]

move on, please. i know this would sound harsh but for Pete's sake, lalaki kaha ka. go out and discover the world. you have been a prisoner for the past 4 years. take back your life and live again. don't wish nga mag mahay sya nga gi biyaan ka. girls nga ingon ana, dili na abtan ug pag mahay. go and get the girls!

[Fern]

Quote: Originally Posted by elvishtattoo move on, please. i know this would sound harsh but for Pete's sake, lalaki kaha ka. go out and discover the world. you have been a prisoner for the past 4 years. take back your life and live again. don't wish nga mag mahay sya nga gi biyaan ka. girls nga ingon ana, dili na abtan ug pag mahay. go and get the girls!

mao gyud!!!!! 4 years of believing anang gugmang giatay

matod pa ni SOul doctor... tabla ra ka ug nag gunit ug "guba nga toy" sayang ka mu labay kay imung allwance imung ki tigumpara maka palit ana