What if you fall in love with the "wrong" person?

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bros and sis, i need your thoughts on this one. i am seeing a girl now, who is really nice, pretty and kind but there's a catch. she's got a double life, meaning she works as part time escort (i don't want to use the mean term, so kana na lang). problem now is i really fell for this girl but the thought of imagining her go out with other guys who can afford her is really driving me crazy. i can't make her stop her other life too since she's the breadwinner (sigh) of her family. i see the person not the the way she earns her living, that's why inspite of it all i still fell for her. btw she's a college degree holder too but can't find a job that's why she choose to sideline like that. i love her but i hate her other life, that's why now i am so confused since i am a very possesive lover. kung ako gusto ko ako ra gyud 100%.

call me crazy, but that's what i feel.

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

faeta sad ani wui...im speechless...naa ra jud na nmo bro...

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thanks sis. musta na diay ka. mao lagi. she's the real life pretty woman.

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

im ok bro...hope ull be ok too...think a million times lng sa for now bro...

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Quote: Originally Posted by iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn im ok bro...hope ull be ok too...think a million times lng sa for now bro...

mao gyud na ako gi think sis. saun man ning gugma oi dili ka kapili. pero wa man sad ko ka blame niya kay kahibaw na ko nga ana siya but i still fell for her. my fault na siguro.

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

bro as the saying goes, if u love the person, ull have to accept her for who and wat she is...dba?pro i know lisod jud imo situation...and personally, i wud suggest ayaw lng na xa or pangita lng lain but ikaw man gud ang na inlove bro...it ur call...

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ironic thing pa. siya ang mag sigeg selos nako bisan wala koy gi date date nga lain.

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Quote: Originally Posted by iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn bro as the saying goes, if u love the person, ull have to accept her for who and wat she is...dba?pro i know lisod jud imo situation...and personally, i wud suggest ayaw lng na xa or pangita lng lain but ikaw man gud ang na inlove bro...it ur call...

btw sis. my call. just don't have enough strength to make a decision right now. it's really hard to let go of something beautiful. i mean she is beautiful, inside and out. victim lang sad siya sa hardship in life. as in kapit sa patalim.

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

Quote: Originally Posted by rickflag ironic thing pa. siya ang mag sigeg selos nako bisan wala koy gi date date nga lain.

xempre naa jud xay insecurities bro...she wud think maybe ur just playing around with her or ur not serious with her bcoz of her sideline, dba?sabta nlng...

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

Quote: Originally Posted by rickflag btw sis. my call. just don't have enough strength to make a decision right now. it's really hard to let go of something beautiful. i mean she is beautiful, inside and out. victim lang sad siya sa hardship in life. as in kapit sa patalim.

yeah...we can never judge pipol jud bro...we have our own ways in dealing with life...

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sabagay sis. ako na lang self dili ma control kung mo go out on a "date" na siya. torture gyud kaau ambot dili ma describe ako feelings kung ingon ana na. ka imagine ka imo bf ba ron mo go out with matrons and gays and says that it's just a job, it's not really me? ingon ana ako na feel.

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

Quote: Originally Posted by rickflag sabagay sis. ako na lang self dili ma control kung mo go out on a "date" na siya. torture gyud kaau ambot dili ma describe ako feelings kung ingon ana na. ka imagine ka imo bf ba ron mo go out with matrons and gays and says that it's just a job, it's not really me? ingon ana ako na feel.

dli mana nku kaya bro wui...back off ko anah...for me lng ha...i wont risk...d jud nku kaya bro...

[aozora]

question to clear our thoughts:

Does she like you or is she interested in you?

if she's not, then move on guy! you would not want to be like that forever, would you?

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Quote: Originally Posted by aozora question to clear our thoughts: Does she like you or is she interested in you? if she's not, then move on guy! you would not want to be like that forever, would you?

think she do. i know if a girl likes me coz i did hurt her not just once before. like when i mentioned once of letting her go. kung wala pa deadma ra pod unta ko niya. experienced man sad ko gamay sa mga girls bro, kamao kko mobasa nila. of course i don't want us to be like this forever. dili man sad siya typical nga girl for hire. she's educated. nasulod lang gyud ana nga work tungod sa financial problems.

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plus bro. she's not depending on me financially. wa gyud siya mangayo ug money nako. so wala koy laing reasons nga ma think nga ni stick siya nako.