What if you fall in love with the "wrong" person?

[aKoToNoh]

kapait pud aning dual boot oi! sa bagay practical na karon mag-unsa manpud ang love if wala kay lamoy....sa sitwasyon ninyo bro, murag love gyud ninyo ang osag-osa kay nahibalao manka nga dual boot xa la man gydka ningbiya niya.... ako pa nimo bro if sakto namo sa age pagminyo nalang mo kay para makagawas xa sa iyang sitawsyon karon unya tabangi nalang pud ug support ang iyang parents, always pray langpud kay kini mga trials rani sa kinabuhi oi not all the time na ing-ani nalang gyud...survive lang bro..

[rickflag]

Quote: Originally Posted by aKoToNoh kapait pud aning dual boot oi! sa bagay practical na karon mag-unsa manpud ang love if wala kay lamoy....sa sitwasyon ninyo bro, murag love gyud ninyo ang osag-osa kay nahibalao manka nga dual boot xa la man gydka ningbiya niya.... ako pa nimo bro if sakto namo sa age pagminyo nalang mo kay para makagawas xa sa iyang sitawsyon karon unya tabangi nalang pud ug support ang iyang parents, always pray langpud kay kini mga trials rani sa kinabuhi oi not all the time na ing-ani nalang gyud...survive lang bro..

mao na ako plan bro pro dili ma kabuhat ana kung dia ra mi diri sa Cebu. we have to start anew somewhere else kay dili man ko puede maglakaw mi ug Ayala unya naay laki mag binastos sa iyaha. ambot na lang bro. ang nakapait pa ani bro, wala man kahibaw iya parents sa iya work. lain man iya giingon maong morag sayon sayoron ra sad siya pangayo ug kuarta usahay. i am almost tempted of telling them para makamata sila pero basin siya pod nya ma alaot kung i disown siya sa iya parents sa kaulaw. lisud gyud bro.

[aozora]

Quote: Originally Posted by rickflag think she do. i know if a girl likes me coz i did hurt her not just once before. like when i mentioned once of letting her go. kung wala pa deadma ra pod unta ko niya. experienced man sad ko gamay sa mga girls bro, kamao kko mobasa nila. of course i don't want us to be like this forever. dili man sad siya typical nga girl for hire. she's educated. nasulod lang gyud ana nga work tungod sa financial problems.

if she does, she will not continue to be a "girl for hire" no matter what's the cause.
if ingon ana jud iyang feeling towards nimo, she will do what is right. i think, dli pa cya ready for a relationship kay tungod lagi sa financial reasons. do you want to be with someone like her naay financial reasons?

and u hurt her once? do you think she will like you for that?
if you let her go even once, she will have a reason to let you go.
gibyaan nagud nimo, ngano mo balik pmn ka?

just tell her nlng na pangita ug tarong na job. ingna nga dli ka ganahan to be with a woman nga ingon ana ug trabaho or ginabuhat.
kung ingon ana cya ka educated, i think she will not do that job.
unless cguro kung mao pud iyang ganahan.

[rickflag]

Quote: Originally Posted by aozora if she does, she will not continue to be a "girl for hire" no matter what's the cause. if ingon ana jud iyang feeling towards nimo, she will do what is right. i think, dli pa cya ready for a relationship kay tungod lagi sa financial reasons. do you want to be with someone like her naay financial reasons? and u hurt her once? do you think she will like you for that? if you let her go even once, she will have a reason to let you go. gibyaan nagud nimo, ngano mo balik pmn ka? just tell her nlng na pangita ug tarong na job. ingna nga dli ka ganahan to be with a woman nga ingon ana ug trabaho or ginabuhat. kung ingon ana cya ka educated, i think she will not do that job. unless cguro kung mao pud iyang ganahan.

sige na kog tell niya ana bro. pro iya course man gud dili kaau in demand nowadays (dili lang nako i mention ug unsa). maglisud sad siya pangita diri kay basin daw naay nakaila niya sa company nga iya ma work unya. maulaw siya. nasulod siya ana nga work bro kay naay nasakit sa iya family unya siya ang gisaligan. dako sad gyud nuon ug gasto. mao bitaw kung naa moy na meet nga mga people like niya bro ayaw ninyo i judge lang gyud kay ang uban nila naa gyuy valid reasons although the end does not justify the means lagi.

[aozora]

Quote: Originally Posted by rickflag sige na kog tell niya ana bro. pro iya course man gud dili kaau in demand nowadays (dili lang nako i mention ug unsa). maglisud sad siya pangita diri kay basin daw naay nakaila niya sa company nga iya ma work unya. maulaw siya. nasulod siya ana nga work bro kay naay nasakit sa iya family unya siya ang gisaligan. dako sad gyud nuon ug gasto. mao bitaw kung naa moy na meet nga mga people like niya bro ayaw ninyo i judge lang gyud kay ang uban nila naa gyuy valid reasons although the end does not justify the means lagi.

i do can relate to you pud. (sumwat murag hmmm parehas ta ug na exp)
just be logical nlng and being logical in a sense is to just leave her samtang sayo pa.
pero kung ni-abot namo ug more than a year sa inyong steady relationship, you have the reason to fight.
although dli tanan mahitabo kay imong gusto. you have to face it if you stay.

[rickflag]

mao lagi bro. it is easier to leave her kung typical gfh ra siya kanang basta you know na. nakasabot na man siguro ka sa ako gipasabot. gi sayangan man gud ko sa iya potentials. i know she can change pero kinahananglan lang siguro siya naay mo support niya. hadlok pod ko nga if i leave her basin mosamot na nuon siya sa ana nga life and she can no longer get out.

[rickflag]

Quote: Originally Posted by iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn dli mana nku kaya bro wui...back off ko anah...for me lng ha...i wont risk...d jud nku kaya bro...

sis, naa koy gusto i ask nimo pero medjo personal man related sa inyo mga girls gud dili nako gusto ibutang diri sa forum. ok ra nimo i pm tika?

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

Quote: Originally Posted by rickflag sis, naa koy gusto i ask nimo pero medjo personal man related sa inyo mga girls gud dili nako gusto ibutang diri sa forum. ok ra nimo i pm tika?

sure...pm lng bro...

[reygie]

Walay ma hims.....tumbling nalang.....

[BornBad666]

one word... bulagi.

[inna-iks]

I know that you'll hate this but.. "It's all up to you..." We can give you advices and whatnot but in the end, it's you ra gihapon ang mudecide. If I were in your place? I would want to for her to stop sad jud. If you'll ask for her to stop, make sure that you'll be able to help her since she's the breadwinner diba? If ako sad naa sa imong lugar, if makaya nakog kalimot niya, I will. If di gani, aw. Wa. Padayon sa gibati, bahala lain na kau sa buot.

[PerfectPitch]

I have experience this type of scenario. untill now i love this woman but it seems i cannot make it seems right shes engage in other GUY

[groundwork]

Quote: Originally Posted by PerfectPitch I have experience this type of scenario. untill now i love this woman but it seems i cannot make it seems right shes engage in other GUY

apir bai. same ra ta.

[myk101]

hmm, lab ba jud na..think your thoughts out clearly bro..love is not... it is...
As they say...there's a lot of rainbow fishes in a pond...
think of yourself with her 2 or 3 years with her...
Goodluck...

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

Quote: Originally Posted by myk101 hmm, lab ba jud na..think your thoughts out clearly bro..love is not... it is... As they say...there's a lot of rainbow fishes in a pond... think of yourself with her 2 or 3 years with her... Goodluck...

i agree...