What's considered as cheating?

[Blackjellybean27]

Hello guys and gals

Just wanna know your opinion on what you would consider as cheating na....
Do you think texting a girl/guy other than your gf/bf is cheating?
Does it have to involve s3x to be considered cheating?
Does going out with another girl/guy, like dinner or lunch or just being with them (no *** involved) considered cheating na?

Post your opinions. I wanna know if we have the same thoughts on the subject of cheating.

[RainDrizzle07]

@_@

1.common sense nalang....


and


2.if what you think you do is not cheating (even if its already cheating in the eyes of the other person) then it is not cheating,coz what is important man here is your view on things not there (unless you are too dependent to what others say, well its another story)

Example: ug sa imong patan aw ang pakig jerjer sa uban samtang naa kay pares is not cheating, then it is not cheating sa imoha, pero sa uban it is.

3. Going out on friendly dates or anything is okey as long as you are not thinking other things (if you know what I mean)

Mao lang na akong view..

The very reason wlay ni answer coz common sense ra jud intawn ang paganahon aning situationa. @_@

[PerfectPitch]

This is one of the SIMPLEST act of cheating dai.....


DENIAL ........ simple pero dako impact

[yvonne6]

kung gitago ang usa ka binuhatan maski wala pay s.e.x. involve, para nako, somehow that is already cheating...if there is nothing fishy, then why is there a need to hide something...labaw na kung naay s.e.x. involve, no doubt that is definitely cheating!!

[robstaman]

para nko nicheat ang akong partner if at least 1 of the 3 is broken:
trust
being faithful to your partner
loyalty

[RainDrizzle07]

Quote: Originally Posted by yvonne6 kung gitago ang usa ka binuhatan maski wala pay s.e.x. involve, para nako, somehow that is already cheating...if there is nothing fishy, then why is there a need to hide something...labaw na kung naay s.e.x. involve, no doubt that is definitely cheating!!

agree jud okz.. labaw ug kanang binuhatana naay malisya..
pero i think as a person kbaw sad cguro ka dba.. ug
ang imo gbuhat is nag cheat na ka or wla..
unless nlng ug lahi imong view on things ^_^

[jakeass]

doing sumting dat u know will offend ur partner

[Kishin888]

bisan going out lang cheating na samot na kung naay S*X involved

[etzina]

Quote: Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27 Hello guys and gals Just wanna know your opinion on what you would consider as cheating na.... Do you think texting a girl/guy other than your gf/bf is cheating? Does it have to involve s3x to be considered cheating? Does going out with another girl/guy, like dinner or lunch or just being with them (no *** involved) considered cheating na? Post your opinions. I wanna know if we have the same thoughts on the subject of cheating.

here's what i think...

-texting the opposite s3x is not cheating as long as you are just friends, ie, talk about casual stuff.... and of course, you don't hide it from your bf/gf that you're texting someone else...
-cheating doesn't have to involve s3x.... feeling love or falling for someone else, IMHO, is cheating already...
-hanging out with someone else is not cheating, unless you hide the fact that you are (from your bf/gf)...

in short... kung gitaguan na gani, that's already cheating...

[opawlicious]

Quote: Originally Posted by PerfectPitch This is one of the SIMPLEST act of cheating dai..... DENIAL ........ simple pero dako impact

+1

[roybrian69]

DOUBT . . . .nya kanang maka feel ug biga sa lain- dili makita pero mentally nag cheat...lol

[Blackjellybean27]

My thoughts on cheating are, as long as you hide ANYTHING from your boyfriend or girlfriend, that is considered cheating. That's why ako, bahala na masuko ang bf ko. if ever naa guy na mu text nako I will tell him jud, 'cause I know I'm not guilty about that. I text beside him, I take my calls when he is around and not take it somewhere else 'cause I don't want him to feel na there is someone else.

[Blackjellybean27]

Quote: Originally Posted by RainDrizzle07 @_@ 1.common sense nalang.... and 2.if what you think you do is not cheating (even if its already cheating in the eyes of the other person) then it is not cheating,coz what is important man here is your view on things not there (unless you are too dependent to what others say, well its another story) Example: ug sa imong patan aw ang pakig jerjer sa uban samtang naa kay pares is not cheating, then it is not cheating sa imoha, pero sa uban it is. 3. Going out on friendly dates or anything is okey as long as you are not thinking other things (if you know what I mean) Mao lang na akong view.. The very reason wlay ni answer coz common sense ra jud intawn ang paganahon aning situationa. @_@

Thank you for your MHO, but the reason I posted this is I want to know if I have the same thoughts on cheating as with you guys.. I know what you mean by common sense na lang, but then again I know what i consider as cheating.. I just needed some other thoughts. Peace!

[lola_basyang]

thank you pd ani na post kay mao raba ni permi namo awayan sa ako uyab... atots... kana para nako wala rajud koy gi buhat ba... and the thing is i don't see something as an issue mao pd dili nako ma ingon sa ako uyab... then mao na iya panan.aw kay nag cheat ko kay wala man ko ni ingon pero friendly lang man pd like nag chat lang ko ug someone... bisan casual lang jd... thanks ani na post.

[Blackjellybean27]

Quote: Originally Posted by lola_basyang thank you pd ani na post kay mao raba ni permi namo awayan sa ako uyab... atots... kana para nako wala rajud koy gi buhat ba... and the thing is i don't see something as an issue mao pd dili nako ma ingon sa ako uyab... then mao na iya panan.aw kay nag cheat ko kay wala man ko ni ingon pero friendly lang man pd like nag chat lang ko ug someone... bisan casual lang jd... thanks ani na post.

You're welcome, and thanks too for the peeps who posted...
In every relationship communication is the best defense against all odds..
'cause every person is different... like for example your gf considers that cheating, you have to let her know as well.. wla raba na.. or if she's not really comfortable with the idea then compromise dba? if d jud madala, since naa naman ka uyab, then don't chat nlang... just to assure her. pero kng cge pa jud ug accuse nimo about that even though you're not even doing anything, maybe you should think twice bout your girlfriend.. hehehe.. joke lang..
but seriously, ana lang.. for me communication is the thing lang that will help any relationship go on its smooth way...