What's considered as cheating?

[katy_aryan]

cheating...simple ra man na para naku...kung naa ka gibuhat na bati ug gituyo jud ug gitago...dili mn na cheating kung dili intentional...aksidente ra...like in my case...minyo diay sya unya iya gitago...ug gituyo jud na itago kay ako pa may nakasakop =) hehehe charged to experience...

[Fern]

@black jelly ..... let me ask you

why do we use the word "cheat" ?

the meaning itself answers your question.... gusto man gud nimu i specific ang act of cheating

[jom22488]

haha saktu.. bitaw kung ang binuhatan nga gitago against sa partner.. grabeha pd anang s** kae dili cheating oi.. grabeg malice ana.. hahaha

[HerStory]

i do agree with hiding something and doing things to offend your partner... that's cheating. if you are going out with others without your partner knowing it then i think that's cheating too. i think.

and i won't want my partner going out with other girls without me knowing it. that's why i also tell my partner if am seeing friends he already meet and have not meet yet. just to let him know where am i and who am with. lisud na if naa makakita na uban pips. we don't know what they are going to think. lisud muabot sa partner na you are somewhere with someone. in the eyes of other people, that's bad man. even if clear imo conscience.

[foxyloxy]

Quote: Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27 Hello guys and gals Just wanna know your opinion on what you would consider as cheating na.... Do you think texting a girl/guy other than your gf/bf is cheating? - it would depend on the content of what you guys are texting.. are you getting emotionally involved/attracted to the other person? casual conversation isnt... flirting is goin down the road of cheating if u guys allow it to develop Does it have to involve s3x to be considered cheating? - nope.. kissing, emotional involvement, dating..cheating Does going out with another girl/guy, like dinner or lunch or just being with them (no *** involved) considered cheating na? - dpends... if its just the 2 of you and neither of you is gay and you aren't telling your significant others, it probably is. if you ask permission from the guy/girl for you to go out with a friend, okay lang cgro. just as long as your partner knows and there is no monkey business when ur goin out with another guy/girl (purely platonic lang) Post your opinions. I wanna know if we have the same thoughts on the subject of cheating.

likay nlng sa temptation... sometimes when ur relationship isn't going so well, you become vulnerable to doing things with other ppl that might end up to be cheating.

[julz23]

cheating is an art- hehehe

[jay_sn0w]

When your not honest / truthful...^_^

[mr_sadman24]

kanang girl nga nakig close ug laing guy nya wala nay time sa iya bf....
worse thing tungod sa kabusy sa bf ang soud niya nga guy kay nagsige na adto sa ilaha... ang bf kay di na paadtoon.....

careful mo anang mga girl nga hilig makigsoud ug laing guy... friendship lang daw...
pero nadugay wala na...
just read may post para makahibaw mo what i mean... thanks

http://www.istorya.net/forums/relati...a-ug-lain.html (help, tabang sa akong gf na nakakita na ug lain...)

[Blackjellybean27]

Quote: Originally Posted by foxyloxy likay nlng sa temptation... sometimes when ur relationship isn't going so well, you become vulnerable to doing things with other ppl that might end up to be cheating.

I agree with you...
My relationship is fine actually, doing good. It's just that my guy and I have different views on cheating. For him, cheating involves *** na jud. For me, flirting on text and chat and going out with a "friend" is... Take note of the quotation marks on friend ha..
For me, okay lang mag text2x sya, kibir.. as long as it's friendly, no flirting..
It's not okay to chat on IRC at all! you know some girls dira are just out to hunt baya.

It's not that I am too possessive or jealous... I don't want him to feel like I'm choking him. I'm just hoping that he will avoid circumstances that will draw him into cheating... That's all...

[Blackjellybean27]

Quote: Originally Posted by katy_aryan cheating...simple ra man na para naku...kung naa ka gibuhat na bati ug gituyo jud ug gitago...dili mn na cheating kung dili intentional...aksidente ra...like in my case...minyo diay sya unya iya gitago...ug gituyo jud na itago kay ako pa may nakasakop =) hehehe charged to experience...

Naa jud daghan who's like that sis... Unya if for example nakita mo sa mall or something kuyog usa ka girl.. and then you text him about that, he'll tell you oi that was my sister or cousin or something.. close man gud mi... WTF?!!
My friend was involved with a man. She didn't know he was married. Then sa office ng guy k naa mga papers with the wife's name and all, but not indicating that she was the wife. She asked kng kinsa na, he told her, sister ko.. she's asking help from me, assist her with some papers. chaka kaau!
And it's not just guys who do that huh.. Naa pod girls who are like that, especially if ang hubby k out of the country.. tsk, tsk!

[bimmy]

denial jud

[lola_basyang]

Quote: Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27 I agree with you... My relationship is fine actually, doing good. It's just that my guy and I have different views on cheating. For him, cheating involves *** na jud. For me, flirting on text and chat and going out with a "friend" is... Take note of the quotation marks on friend ha.. For me, okay lang mag text2x sya, kibir.. as long as it's friendly, no flirting.. It's not okay to chat on IRC at all! you know some girls dira are just out to hunt baya. It's not that I am too possessive or jealous... I don't want him to feel like I'm choking him. I'm just hoping that he will avoid circumstances that will draw him into cheating... That's all...

the thing is, pare pareha jud mo sa akong uyab... kaso mas paranoid lang siya... pero dili man pd siya bad thing at all times, sobra lang pd jd usahay gud... ing.ana pd siya lahi gali amo level sa cheating so ang amo gi sabotan kay storya ko tanan kinsa na or unsa or asa ana nalang gali.. unhan nalang storya tanan kay para d mag duda or unsa man gali... lisod bya jd i buhat sa na andan nako. pero at least disiplina nalang pd na sa ako part. nahan man pd ko kay ma tame gali ko.

[foxyloxy]

basta ha, if a guy loves you, u don't need to be the one to set limits on him..he would know what to avoid and dili cya mangita og lusot para mka "cheat" or whatever..

with my ex before my ex, he was the one who told me that since uyab nami, he will not be close or interact much with other girls so that malikay temptation and i won't have any reason to get jealous.

[PerfectPitch]

Well kini sad akong ma sulti ninyo ha.. Ngano kay ang kawatan ba mananghid mo kawat sa inyong butang? kahibaw ba mo what time siya mangawat? same ra gihapon sa relationship about cheating dili gyud mo makasakop but not unless naa moy private spy gi hire or some coincidence ma actuall gyud nimo pag sakop.. but in the first place maka cheat na siya nimo before ma realize he/she cheating on you.

[Soul Doctor]

Quote: Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27 My thoughts on cheating are, as long as you hide ANYTHING from your boyfriend or girlfriend, that is considered cheating. That's why ako, bahala na masuko ang bf ko. if ever naa guy na mu text nako I will tell him jud, 'cause I know I'm not guilty about that. I text beside him, I take my calls when he is around and not take it somewhere else 'cause I don't want him to feel na there is someone else.

Why do you need to text someone else?
or talk to someone else on the phone?
or go out on date with someone else?

There is something going on with you.
are you shopping for another man?

Because no matter how honest you are,
men hates it when women talk to other men
when they have no business with each other.

Men are men.
They know how men are with women.
so don't fool yourself thinking that its all peachy
when your man knows you are talking to other men.

It does not work that way.

How would you feel if he is on the phone talking to other girls?
Or if he's going out with other girl on dinner
which has nothing to do with work or business.

I guess its okay with you as long as he ask your permission.
But that is just asking for trouble.