How you tell a true o fake friend

[balot_sweet]

kana mga user sis di to sila true friends.....

[esotericlove]

korek jud mo, lahi ra jud ang friend na kunyari nakasabot daw nimo nya diay to ka plastican ra. And d pod lalim masakitan kana bitaw nag pakita gud ka kung unsa ka maldita ba ka or unsa ka wla kay gitago nya dayon gusto usbon jud nimo dayon ila gusto mausab nimo. para man gud nako maski unsa na sya dawaton kung true friend ka. korek jud thru thick and thin, di ra kay kon need nila na naa ka maayo lang sila nya kung dili na mausab na. Kafaet pru mao na ana jud pod siguro ang life naa jud friend na just come and go. Naa lang siguro purpose why nato sila naging friend and maybe tapos na ang purpose. Sakit lang jud usahay kay labe na naanad ko na ang ako mga friends as in long term jud. mag lalis man mag away may part na maka help na mag grow and ma build ang friendship, sad lang na ma end lang.

[lovely_chic]

after an incident that my bestfriend betrayed my trust na trauma na jud ko...since that tym wla na kaayo ko mga friends...what's left is my mom, my sister and my boyfriend who became my constant allies i don't like to keep people anymore who aren't worth it

[esotericlove]

korek ka girl, ako grabeh nakaingon jud ko what a wasted time and what a greatest mistake that I ever made jud. I got a lot of friends jud man and I meet them since they're single til may mga anak and yes we made away but those away made us stronger and understand each other better kasi we show what we really are. I don't like kasi those mag tell na okay ra oi and yon pala feeling nila nag antos na sila nimo. grabeh jud naka ka hurt jud and the fact pa na di jud muangkon kon naa sila mistake as in ako ra saypo permi makit an. ANd to think gi love nako ko friend without if and buts wla ko gusto ma change or whatever and dpat lang unta ma accept ka as you are. lisod jud ngita ug friend na true jud girl..

[yvonne6]

ang fake naa permi kung naa kay kuarta or kung nagkinahanglan sila sa imong tabang, pero kung ikaw nagkinahanglan sa ilang tabang, dili sila makit an or busy sila. ang tinuod nga friend, maski natalikod na nimo ang tibuok kalibutan, siya naa lang gihapon, nagpabilin

[esotericlove]

yeah, i agree jud. sa sila pa need nimo maski unsa time they want to talk to u naaka peru kung kaw na mag need nila samokan na sila nimo. kafaet

[Egoist]

kantas pa sa greyhoundz "anong silbi nang kaibigan kung hindi mo naman gagamitin" hehehe

[esotericlove]

nah, lain pod na friendship na gamitay lang

[CuteyCamille]

It's abit hard to distinguishe pero gradually you'll notice if that person is sincere.
I had a friend too once. we were kinda close but later I found out she was the one who spread all those nasty rumors about me... It hurts when you have to go through that.

[esotericlove]

hala noh, ka bad pod oi. Ako I never betray the there trust specially kana mga secrets.

[BHE_gail]

a true friend.. is someone.. who doesnt need you but choose to have your company because for him/her your part of who he/she is... and even if unsa mo ka layu.a ug kadugaya na buwag ig kita ninyu balik.. walay ilangay and its as if nagkita ramu gahapon... ^_^

[Black kangaroo]

Quote: Originally Posted by yvonne6 ang fake naa permi kung naa kay kuarta or kung nagkinahanglan sila sa imong tabang, pero kung ikaw nagkinahanglan sa ilang tabang, dili sila makit an or busy sila. ang tinuod nga friend, maski natalikod na nimo ang tibuok kalibutan, siya naa lang gihapon, nagpabilin

mao nay gi ingon na pag naa ptay kwarta sikat pa kaau ta. kung kita na gani ang mag kinahanglan mawala sila og mo laos ta hehe

[WEI?]

For me:

A true friend....

> someone who reaches for the hand and touches the heart.
> a person who you can rely when things go wrong. A person you can tell everything
> always going to be true to you
> they will be upfront and honest and they will simply be there when you need them the most
> never get tired of hearing your problems or thoughts.
> would never want to hurt you
>someone who you can trust, someone who you can count on. Someone who can make you laugh and someone who you can be completely crazy with

[esotericlove]

i agree wei, friendship daw kasi is like falling in love but we will just call it falling in like. If you are a true friend you are there even in the middle of the night if a friend needs you. You accept the person and love the person as that person is. yes, you will tell if that person is wrong but it doesn't mean na you will change that person the way that you want it to. Basta same sya sa nag fall in love ka with someone sometimes maski mga kulang nya ma understand mo and kung unsa sya ma love nimo.