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Old 03-21-2009, 03:31 PM
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just want to share my "paetz" story..

at first, kabarkada ra ni nako xa sa samar, married na xa and naay 7 year old daughter, and 3 years na xa separated...
then nilarga ko ug manila for work, after 2 weeks nitxt xa sa ako nga on the way xa manila and gusto nya na magkita
me kay wla xa laing frnd ddto. then nagkta me and ddto ko gipastay sa hauz iang tita na naa na abroad, stay ko ug
more than 3 weeks and tapad pa mi tulog(walang malisya) wala man gud laing tawo ilang hauz.
then we found out nga closer and closer na jd me and it happened 1 night nga share me ug love stories and
end up kissing and making love... hahahay....
then mao to mura mi ug husband/wife. then after 1 month kapin, niuli na xa and ako padayon ko ug work didto.
then, after pila kadays nitxt xa nga preggy knu xa, and asking me kng unsay himoon nya kay legally married gud xa sa una,
then i decided na paadtoon nlang xa sa manila 2gether w/ her daughter para ddto nlang stay sa ako. anyway ok man ako work,
makabuhi man hehehe...
then, nagipon mi ddto hangtud nanganak na xa, BABY boy!!!! hehehe..
after 5 mnths niuli sila balik sa samar then ako cebu na kay diri man ko naasyn na sa work.

here comes conflict! paetz!
frst 3 months nako diri bale 3 months na pud mi wla kita, text/tawag lang. OK pa mi ato, then after nakanotice
ko ug pagusab niya the way xa magtext.. then 1 day nikalit lang xa sulti nga makigbulag na kno xa. daghan au ia reason,..
then, wla ko nisugot kay tanan bya ako sakripsyo para lang jud sa ilaha..
pero wla jud ko mahimo kay layo man gud xa.
then after several months daghan kaau ang mga issue nga magsamok gud tanan including ako parents and mga igsoon,
kay naissue man gud nga naa xa laing laki ang ddto usahay matulog sa ilaha...

before pa nigawas ang issue, iya man ko gistoryahn about ana and naa man xa reason nganu ia gihimo to.

wala man maputol amo commncation pero kutob lang sa spprt sa baby. almost every hour mgtexanay man mi. the word "stay-put lang ka" iyang prmi sultiun sa ako.


karun, medyo ok na mi and buwag na man sila sa laki, ang willing pud xa muari diri cebu kay ngita ug work bilin sa ang baby sa iyang mama. xmpre sa ako ghapon xa dool kay wa jud na xa kahibaw diri.

ang problem karun is wla pa jud kwarta pamiliti nya padung diri. pero intrsado na jud kaau xa.


sakit lagi kaayo ang mga nahitabo. but i really love her and ako gud pinaglaban amo family kay looy jud ako baby kung magbuwag jud mi.

karun medyo ok na mi pero cant feel nga love pa ko nia. hahahay....

last resort na nako ni, kung di pa madayon mga planu. i thnk d jud mi meant for each other.


PLEASE HELP ME unsay himuon nako..
hangtud karun love jud kau nako xa. unsaun ni nako mabalik ang amo love and mabugos balik amo family?
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Old 03-21-2009, 03:48 PM
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kung kamo sa ako sitwasyon, unsay himoun ninyo?
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It's your call to decide what you wanted to do..Kung asa nimu feel happy ka den go on.. Its really hard man gud na mo decide ka for things then after all, you found out nga Youve made the wrong decisions dibah?? though it hurts jud at first coz mag suffer ka nga imu gi pili ang imu gusto but time will come, maka realize raka nga after all sa tanan sacrifices that uv made, "here I am standing still and happy kaayo"..naa paman jud na sacrifices at first before ka ma totally happy.
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Just be strong bro.. Evrything's gonna be alright soon..
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Just be strong bro.. Evrything's gonna be alright soon..

hopefully, sakit ra jud kaau karun kay wala jud ko laing outlet like barkadas, even close friends diri wla jud.. as in balay-opisina ra jud ko..

taga minuto magpaabot ra ko sa iyang text...
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kung tarong pa ang girl dha nimo, malipayon na unta mo ron.
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focus on your kid...that's most important...kung love lang...don't pine and hope for someone nga way klaro...love has to be give and take...kung love jud ka niya she will do her best to make your family whole...as what you call it. i think she has some issues that she needs to fix..stay happy and get your inspiration from your son...goodluck!
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honestly man gud, wla jud ko planu ngita ug lain. kay sa ako man gud, naa na ako baby and happy family ako gusto ia madakuan.

based sa ako exp sa ako parents.. mao mahadlok ko maexp niya.
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focus on your kid...that's most important...kung love lang...don't pine and hope for someone nga way klaro...love has to be give and take...kung love jud ka niya she will do her best to make your family whole...as what you call it. i think she has some issues that she needs to fix..stay happy and get your inspiration from your son...goodluck!
willing man sya nga matarong na tanan karun. mao nga nakigbulag na xa sa iyang guy, dugay2 na. ang sakit ra jud karun napabilin and unsaun ni nako nga mabalik ang love and respect...
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hanz sure ka imoha ng bata? *curious mind here*
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ISTORYANS, PLEASE HELP ME.. hangtud karun love jud kau nako xa. unsaun ni nako mabalik ang amo love and mabugos balik amo family?
pagshorts brod oi.. unsa imo gusto papreso ka namo

"KUNG MABASA KAS ULAN, MALIGO NALANG DIAY KAS UWAN??" that's d stupidest thing to do, and asking your fellow istoryan for help is worse...

solve it yourself...
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pagshorts brod oi.. unsa imo gusto papreso ka namo

"KUNG MABASA KAS ULAN, MALIGO NALANG DIAY KAS UWAN??" that's d stupidest thing to do, and asking your fellow istoryan for help is worse...

solve it yourself...

just asking help unsay buhaton nako.. wla mn jud ko laing outlet...
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hanz sure ka imoha ng bata? *curious mind here*

100% sure man pd ko ana. we lived together for 3 months until na preggy xa. then nag-ipon for almost 2 years. mao ra jud ang problem karun kay lau ko niya.
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paeta sa imo life bro..murag lisud lisud jud...
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what's wrong with your woman? ngano sige man pangolekta og laki
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