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#1
03-04-2009, 11:28 PM
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den naabot ang tym nagkabuwag mi sa akong uyab and xa naa gihapon...nibalik among commu ka2ng naka uyab nasad ko ug lain den xa nasad ang walay uyab (sayup jud sa tyming!).. den ka2ng shaky nami sa akong 2nd uyab nagkakita nasad mi..den naa nasad na happen namong duha... after a2 na incident kay nagpalayu naman sad ko nya kay ambot..i guess na guilty ko sa akong 2nd bf... den naabot sa point na nagbuwag nami sa akong 2nd bf xa na nuon ang nka uyab! (bad tyming nasad...) it's weird baya kay mag cge bya xa txt nko den maklaru jud ba na ganahan xa nko even f naa xa uyab...1 yr nami wala nagkita but still naa gihapon amo commu (pero as friends ha dli uyab2)...sumtyms mubinuang ko nya na pa ila2x ko sa iya mga guy friends, mu ana man xa d daw xa ganahn kay magsakit daw xa (selfish xa sa??haha) den naabot najud after a yr nagkita najud mi... ako heartbrokn man ko sa akong 3rd ex mao gitambagan jud ko nya maau na naa pa daw ko mkakita lain na tarung na laki,... mag cge mana xa ingon nko "nah! kung wa pa lagi ko uyab kaw jud akong gipanguyaban ba..unsaon man permi man jud ta wrong tyming..mka uyab ka, ako single..kung ka uyab ko ikaw napud ang single"... den nagkadugay ang nyt nagkakiss mi! ni ana xa nko na "ari rajud ta kutob ****..naa man koi uyab".. sakit au sa akong part oi pero kebs raman sad nko kay wa man sad jud koi planu namagkakami (i guess confuse lang jud ko bout sa akong feelings nya..) den nagkadugay ang nyt ni angkon naman na xa na dugay na daw xa in love nko! ana jud xa na love jud ko nya! nagrigor akong utok wa jud ko ka tingog... nya lami au pangutan.on na unsa man jud kay naa bya xay uyab... d next day mag cge na na xa tx everyday pero d gani mu ingon musta or kanang para mu taas ang convo...mu kalit rana xag tx na "gud morning *****...take care diha...hav a great day 2day" mga ing,ana gani.. nya ako diri im startng to fall for him..murag akong panan.aw nya murag ganahan gani ko magseryoso na niya...pero ang kapaet kay naa man xay uyab... hhaayyy unsaon mani nko? shud i tell him na n love sad ko nya?or pasagdan nlng ni nko... |
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#2
03-05-2009, 12:15 AM
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Taasa ah.
 I only have one thing to say about your situation sis and this has always worked for me: mind over emotions. 1.) You cheated, period. All throughout your relationship with your current BF, you repeated this act many times. Bottom point: that's just not right. Kalooy ni BF. 2.) He's commited naman pud kaha? Kaw ta dapat mu buyag niya ana. Kalooy ni GF. 3.) Pag sure oi. |
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#3
03-05-2009, 01:08 AM
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tell him straight, that you love him too, there's nothing wrong if mo sulti ka sa imo real feelings!kay kon dili ka mo sulti magmahay raka, at least napagawas nimo imong gibati,who cares!at least na express nimo whats deep inside of you! basin kamo pa diay magka dayun in the end, who knows diba?
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#8
03-05-2009, 03:05 AM
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you posted such a long story but it all sums up to this: YOU BOTH CHEATED.
i agree with the 2nd poster: Mind over emotions. this is the kind of situation where you have to use your brain over your heart. wrong timing? yeah no kidding. if this guy was indeed serious about you, then he could have courted you LONG BEFORE you got into this "wrong timing" kinda game. what's up with him texting you even if he is into a relationship? that's not right. you are playing with each other's emotions, at the same time fooling your partners into thinking that each of you are into a committed relationship. all i can say is if you truly love this guy, then back off and stop thinking about him. you make it sound like he's the only guy in the frickin world. get a hold of yourself. the guy has a girlfriend and you wouldn't wanna steal someone else's man coz you can't imagine other people doing that to you, can you? |
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#9
03-05-2009, 03:49 AM
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in your situation ky permi bad timing just tell him the truth pero ang naka-bati lang na mo solti ka na na in love naka niya na-a man goy possibility na makig buwag siya sa iyang uyab tongod nimo it's your desisyon kung unsay sakto gyud perog maka-agwanta ka wait lang kyk ung magka-buwag siya sa iyang uyab onya ara na time mas nindot na mosolti naka sa pagkakaron ayaw sa pag sod og lain na relationship kung maka-agwanta ka wait lang basta kamo na gani kailangan serious mong duha og tinarong na inyo to each other ky naka cheat na bayam ong duha perog kamo na ayaw na serious na gyud og tinarong nana inyo |
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#10
03-05-2009, 04:17 AM
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your problem is just akin to saying.. 'too close yet so far'.. maybe you just have to accept the facts that this guy, i mean 'your friend' is just what the word all about.. 'friend' lang mo jud. I believe in fate and in destiny. In your case, there are too many instances anymore nga magkakamo lang ta jud.. but as fate would have it.. dili gihapon jud.
So what does this mean is that, be it that way nalang.. don't force the issue and just accept the status quo of your friendship with him. If kamo pa jud ang meant to be, dugay na ta ang inyong world nag collide... someway or the other,if kamo pa jud ang lovebirds meant to be.. but contrary to the fact.. dili man jud... so bottomline you just have to face the truth and the music,that bisag unsaon pa ninyo pagka kamo.. there will always be some supernatural and heavenly intervention nga dili jud na mahitabo. You just have to just shove it off and get the notion out of your mind nga possible jud.. kay chance and fate would always tore both of you apart jud.. just be it that way and rest your case nalang..
Last edited by joshbonz; 03-05-2009 at 04:21 AM.
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#11
03-05-2009, 11:39 AM
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For me sis, maybe you just like each other...not really in love..
you both are trapped in the world of "what ifs?" and "if only".... if either of you are really in love, you would always find a way...either one of you waits if naay bf/gf ang usa, and the other one (if willing and able jud) ends the current relationship rather than cheat. it's a matter of compromising...which is, wala jud ninyo duha 'coz neither of you can wait. |
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#13
03-05-2009, 12:23 PM
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btw, i know wrong man jud na ni cheat ming duha... but nahitabo naman jud... kbaw mi sayop but wat can we do ryt?? ayaw lang mi e judge na ing.ana mi pagkatao kay tao ra baya sad jud mi...we're not perfect.. ya f he really likes me ni wait nlng ta xa dba? pero d prob s wa man sad koi klaru na gipakita nko na interested jud ko na magka uyab mi... usually kung magkuyog mi kay permi rako heartbroken kay n love ko sa akong uyab at dat tym..and xa d jud xa ka thnk na naa xa hope nko kay wa man sad jud ko ka ingon nya na naa koi feelings nya...mura ra gani xag comfort zone nko.. and ka2ng 1 yr wala xay uyab ako nagpalayu man sad ko nya (as n stop ang commu) den mao na..naa unta 2 chance pero naa man koi uyab a2.. mao btw after sa last namu kuyog murag ara nko ka mata, ara nko ka realyz na ganahan ko magkakami...and m xur clueless jud xa sa akong na feel!hahaha he knows me man gud na unsa ko ka pilian sa mga laki and d xa ka imajin na mu fall ko nya... sori f taas au ni pero dugay naman sad gud ni na story gud...3 yrs ago pami nagsugod ani!haha |
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#14
03-05-2009, 01:38 PM
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hoist! wala man kay klaro girl puro ra mo mga cheaters. Naa koy kaila ingon ana sad gibuhat. |
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#15
03-05-2009, 01:40 PM
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Yeah, agree kaayo ko nimo anang "mind over emotions/heart. Mawala ra na unya imo feelings. |
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