How to tell if your Girl is cheating?

[treize]

Late nights at the office and switched off cell phones may get your conscience stirring. But how do you know if yourgirlfriend is really cheating on you? This will help you determine if your girlfriend displays some significant signs of cheating.

First it is important to understand the difference between how women and men treat infidelity. Generally, men are known to cheat for sexual pleasure only. While this is a part of why some women cheat, the reasoning is more complex. Women cheat for a variety of reasons, most of them to fill a void that she is not receiving in her current relationship. She may be looking for someone who is a better listener, someone who enjoys the same hobby or someone who doesn’t expect *** every day. The difference in reasoning behind the infidelity means she will show different signs of cheating than a man would.

One of the leading signs that your girlfriend is cheating is a noticeable void in her need for your attention. Since she is now having that particular need met elsewhere, she will not pursue you to fill this need any longer. For example, if your girlfriend is an avid art collector she may encourage you to accompany her to an art show. If this is an important part of who she is as a person, it is also important to her that you respect her interests. If you refuse to attend any of these shows with her, she may find someone who will fill this need. This person could be a friend, but if there is an attraction and this other person is willing to fill this void, she may decide to cheat. This is one example, and one that can be applied to a variety of scenarios. The key is, if there’s something that means a lot to her that she constantly asks you to do and then one day stops asking all together, it may not be because she’s given up. There’s a good chance someone else is fulfilling this need.

Another sign that your girlfriend is cheating is when she begins telling you less about her and turning the focus completely on you. By nature, women enjoy talking about things. Women like to talk about our days and enjoy sharing many details about their lives with you. If women have something to hide, it makes it difficult for them to share details about their day without lying about what has happened. If she has stopped sharing, begin asking about her day. If she seems reluctant to share, or provides a one sentence answer and changes the subject, it could be a sign of infidelity.

Women are generally big on affection. Most enjoy hand holding, kissing and cuddling. However if they are cheating, this is one of the things that will change. Women get very emotional about infidelity. They will ponder over the situation for most of their day, and this can trigger many feelings of guilt. Every time she now has to be intimate with you on any level, it will bring to mind her infidelity and cause her to feel very uncomfortable. If your girlfriend is constantly avoiding your affection, this is a strong sign she’s cheating.

Another sign is her paying more attention to her physical appearance. Of course, if your girlfriend already focuses heavily on appearance, this may not be a sign at all. But if your girlfriend usually leaves the house in sweats and little makeup and now is putting on a nice outfit, makeup and fixing her hair for simple things like going to the grocery store, it may be cause for concern. If she suddenly is focusing on a diet and exercise regimen and makes no mention of what sparked her motivation, this could be a signal of infidelity.

Separately, these signs may be nothing more than a small change in behavior. But if your intuition says she’s cheating and she displays two or more of these signs, there’s a good chance your hunch could be correct. In addition to becoming aware of these signs, make mental notes of strange cell phone calls (whispering or shutting it off when ringing), excessive time on the computer (possibly e-mailing or chatting with someone) and check up casually when she’s out running errands or having a girl’s night to see if she answers the phone.

Of course, the best way to really know if your girlfriend has cheated is to confront her face to face. There is a possibility she will lie or become offended, but if enough evidence has mounted, this should be a risk you are willing to take. Determine beforehand if you want to work out the relationship or if you want to end things so you can set the grounds of honesty. If you decide to work things out, make her promise to end the affair immediately and consider attending couples counseling to build back trust and begin fulfilling each other’s needs rather than looking elsewhere.

[destinee]

Quote: Originally Posted by treize ...Since she is now having that particular need met elsewhere, she will not pursue you to fill this need any longer... There’s a good chance someone else is fulfilling this need.

unsay source ani?
ahaha
di man sad guro na cheating if you find that need in someone else besides your boyfriend..

[aozora]

I think, if the girl has Integrity in her system, dli cya kabuhat ani in the first place.
So you guys out there!, u must look into this trait first before going bom bom...

Find someone who likes you and not the one you like kay ma-true jud ni ang article ni TS.

I think pud, if she has comitted this mistake there is a big possibility that she will do it again and again.
Remember, "promises are made to be broken".
And give urself a peace of mind kay it is not all the time mag cge mo ug kuyog.

the only thing that will work out when she cheats is to break-up, if married its divorce.

reality hurts right?

[WEI?]

I think boys ra man kasagaran mu-cheat less ra ang mga girls.

[destinee]

Quote: Originally Posted by WEI? I think boys ra man kasagaran mu-cheat less ra ang mga girls.

sakto jud.. ahaha!

[gARN]

Quote: Originally Posted by WEI? I think boys ra man kasagaran mu-cheat less ra ang mga girls.

^^Percentage wise, men have more tendency to cheat compared to women.. But let us not discount the fact that a few percentage of women also cheats.. Hence, tips on predicting if a girl is cheating on you is of utmost importance..ú

[vanix09]

depende raman jud ghapon na.. XD

[dazor]

dili n sya tigtext nimo ug call..busy prmi.. lahi na sya, like when you're together cold n au..

[facuztha]

once nausab na ang tinagdan sa girl ngadto sa guy..it means....nawala napud ang spark...hehe

[RainDrizzle07]

honestly what you have posted may be true in some scenarios
and situation pero naa sad baya uban doesnt really care
if the bf is interested in what she is doing or what she is about to say
coz other female would still like to have an identity on their own
kana btawng...I am doing this stuff before we meet so whether you like
it or not I will still keep doing this ( I am talking bout hobbies and stuff)
& others just doesnt want you to meddle on their personal stuff, like cellphone
email/FB/FS accounts.

and most importantly you can never really tell if your girl
is cheating or not.. unless she is very very very obvious about it
and you are over observant...then there is a chance
females tend to be more discreet if mo cheat
kay of course our culture dictates that if the female
do this then she is already branded..tsk.tsk.

same ra sad sa lalake...ang naka lahi lang kay ang babae
mas strong ug instinct sa lalaki.. akoa ra sad ng opinion.

pero same as the post, females cheat coz "they need to fill some void"
which the males not able to fill, for short, c dodong ang reason
ngano nangita ug laing dodong c inday @_@

and vice versa.. am I right?

[PerfectPitch]

Quote: Originally Posted by RainDrizzle07 pero same as the post, females cheat coz "they need to fill some void" which the males not able to fill, for short, c dodong ang reason ngano nangita ug laing dodong c inday @_@

Mao ni ang connection sa akong topic.... if you know what i mean

[RainDrizzle07]

Quote: Originally Posted by PerfectPitch Mao ni ang connection sa akong topic.... if you know what i mean

hmmmmm.. lol.. dli man lang sad
sa "void" bout sa "deed' ang
concern dnhi..hahaha.. there are lots of void jud
1st jud ng attention/time/effort
ug pa feel nmo sa imong gf na princess siya!! hahaha

[PerfectPitch]

Quote: Originally Posted by RainDrizzle07 hmmmmm.. lol.. dli man lang sad sa "void" bout sa "deed' ang concern dnhi..hahaha.. there are lots of void jud 1st jud ng attention/time/effort ug pa feel nmo sa imong gf na princess siya!! hahaha

ngiga term oi hahahha nice nice now your opening up void

[RainDrizzle07]

Quote: Originally Posted by PerfectPitch ngiga term oi hahahha nice nice now your opening up void

ahahaha may ng ma olark..lolz..puro ta OT aneh..lolz
nya pitch kta nalay mag tinubagay dnhi? hahahaha
.../gg

pero bitaw ikaw, do you think you can really tell if your gf is cheating? hahahaha

[PerfectPitch]

Quote: Originally Posted by RainDrizzle07 pero bitaw ikaw, do you think you can really tell if your gf is cheating? hahahaha

There is a saying sa bisaya pa " Walay Kawatan mo Tug-an " honestly speaking dili ko ka tell, not unless naa me conflict sa mga buntang butang... ( dili na lng nko i specify maayo hap )