HELP I Love him but he doesn't understand me!

[bluebelle]

it all started as ff (fling-fling). i fell inlove with him and things are getting complicated...when i get the chans to ask him what he really feels he just told me that la ko nya gpa-asa and i knew it from the start unsa mi...ouch it hurts!!!i assumed that he has feelings for me becuase he reacted when i told him nakigbalik q with my ex bt then he told me i have so many interpretations and can't take things as they are...what will i do

[bemS]

For your future reference, never assume.

[joshbonz]

mao na ni karon nuon sis.. 'Nahog ka sa Maling Akala'.. I would like to tell girls lang jd not to go with this fling2x relationships kay igka taposan.. kamo ra gihapoy luoy...

when it started as just a fancy relationship.. just stay as the word 'fancy'.. nothing more and nothing less. I think the guy knows nga fling2x ra imong tuyo sa inyong relationship.. mao nga he is not taking your relationship or YOU seriously jud.

Nagsugod sa wala.. mahug sa wala ra pud.. just learn from it and don't press any serious things to the the guy that you have a fling with.. you didnt take him seriously at first, why would you take him seriously now.. - I think this is his sentiment sad... What would you do? nothing.. don't force the issue or yourself to him.. just be it that way, just a lesson learn next time. If you want a person to be serious with you, then you should be serious with him lang sad. Feelings are feelings, don't play around with it... or else it might hit you back at the end.. just like a boomerang.. it will ricochet and hit you deep down at the end...

IMHO...

[vladmire]

@bluebelle sus, ako palang to, dawaton taka.

@bemS mao btaw dili ko ganahan mu-assume. consume lang!

[baby_tata]

hmmm...

it also happened to me sis. but i just took it as a lesson learned na lng..

[bemS]

it happens to all of us..kanang masakitan kay mi assume..
if emotional ka nga tao, NEVER play the game.
don't even think nga you will not fail.
our emotion is sometimes a traitor.

[chad_tukes]

the fact that the guy didn't court you only means two things:

he's either TORPE or he doesn't have intentions of having you as his girlfriend.
straight up bull crap isn't it?

unfortunately, that's how guys think. believe me, i'm a guy.
so bems is right, never assume too much.

[vladmire]

Since, nahuman na ang mga dapat dili mahitabo. move on nalang. it's a lesson for you to learn and for us to be more aware. sakto bako ?

naunsa naman ning gugma, makadani...

[stabwounds]

Quote: Originally Posted by bluebelle it all started as ff (fling-fling). i fell inlove with him and things are getting complicated...when i get the chans to ask him what he really feels he just told me that la ko nya gpa-asa and i knew it from the start unsa mi...ouch it hurts!!!i assumed that he has feelings for me becuase he reacted when i told him nakigbalik q with my ex bt then he told me i have so many interpretations and can't take things as they are...what will i do

go with the flow kung dili ka ka move on... it's quite obvious nga its still F-F for him he needs you but he doesnt love you murag kahibaw man sad ka ani imu ra gi blind kaugalingon nimo.

[vladmire]

Quote: Originally Posted by stabwounds go with the flow kung dili ka ka move on... it's quite obvious nga its still F-F for him he needs you but he doesnt love you murag kahibaw man sad ka ani imu ra gi blind kaugalingon nimo.

if you can live with it. just make sure that you or both of you won't cross the border line. it'll be a different story then.

[bemS]

sakit. for pure pleasure ra ka..
bangon. move on. there's no point in sulking and hoping..
i soud sa imo utok nga wala kay makuha ana.


if you've moved on, baliki. nya ayaw na ka inlove ha? (for sure mi enjoy man sad ka FF ninyu ron ba)

[stabwounds]

Quote: Originally Posted by vladmire if you can live with it. just make sure that you or both of you won't cross the border line. it'll be a different story then.

yup mao na lagi ning F-F thing

[arahdior]

Quote: Originally Posted by bluebelle it all started as ff (fling-fling). i fell inlove with him and things are getting complicated...when i get the chans to ask him what he really feels he just told me that la ko nya gpa-asa and i knew it from the start unsa mi...ouch it hurts!!!i assumed that he has feelings for me becuase he reacted when i told him nakigbalik q with my ex bt then he told me i have so many interpretations and can't take things as they are...what will i do

ses mao ni ang gtwag na "wrong impressions" nakasuway napud ko ani.. ako gbuhat ato just let go ayaw na pag asa kay ni tell nagud siya directly nmu.. so it implies something.. unsa man mowait lang ka forever? let go ses and moved on .. and learn ur lesson.. okey? hehehe

[Sol_Itaire]

you got what you asked for

[bloke_tm]

mao na.. nganu btaw ni enter.. hehehe.