HELP Akong BF addict sa computer

ilovesushi

my bf of 1 1/2 months is really an addict sa online games. as n to the point na everyday najud mgduwa and sumtyms mu absent nlng ug clase kay mgduwa xa. at first it was ok for me coz mu apil man sad kog duwa but pagka later on ka realyz nko na mao raman jud ni among buhaton everyday (since we're classm8s man so wherever he goes kuyog jud mi). im not bored with him but im bored with the things we do. as n literally wa jud mi lain mabuhat except go to class den aftr kay magduwa. i told him about that na since cge ka complain na wa kay kwarta y man na mka duwa man ka ana imung game d whole day which maabot jud na dako kaau imu ma bayran? d point is nahan ko mka feel na spcl sad ko. na mu make nlng sad xag effort na mu save para pang date namu. mao na amung gisturyaan gahapon and he just sed na hapi daw xa na ing ana mi..pero ako im not hapi coz i want to feel na uyab sad ko nya oi d ra murag barkada (kay barkada man mi ana but d pa au ing ana ka dugay). mao 2 i told him all my feelings na d nko xa bawalan ana iyang game pero at least hatagan sad ko niyag tym and effort ba para sa among "our" tym 2geder.. ni hilum ra xa den ni ana dayun xa na pwede a2 lang na sturyaan ugma.. mao 2 ako gi let go ang topic... so mao na today i thot amu na e try ug work out pero na shock nlng ko na ni tx xa na magduwa gihapon xa... mura rag walay kwenta akong gi ingon nya gahapon.. i dont want to nag him about that so ako nlng xa gpasagdan..

so guyz wat do u thnk? wat shud i do??

cebugdev

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Originally Posted by ilovesushi

my bf of 1 1/2 months is really an addict sa online games. as n to the point na everyday najud mgduwa and sumtyms mu absent nlng ug clase kay mgduwa xa. at first it was ok for me coz mu apil man sad kog duwa but pagka later on ka realyz nko na mao raman jud ni among buhaton everyday (since we're classm8s man so wherever he goes kuyog jud mi). im not bored with him but im bored with the things we do. as n literally wa jud mi lain mabuhat except go to class den aftr kay magduwa. i told him about that na since cge ka complain na wa kay kwarta y man na mka duwa man ka ana imung game d whole day which maabot jud na dako kaau imu ma bayran? d point is nahan ko mka feel na spcl sad ko. na mu make nlng sad xag effort na mu save para pang date namu. mao na amung gisturyaan gahapon and he just sed na hapi daw xa na ing ana mi..pero ako im not hapi coz i want to feel na uyab sad ko nya oi d ra murag barkada (kay barkada man mi ana but d pa au ing ana ka dugay). mao 2 i told him all my feelings na d nko xa bawalan ana iyang game pero at least hatagan sad ko niyag tym and effort ba para sa among "our" tym 2geder.. ni hilum ra xa den ni ana dayun xa na pwede a2 lang na sturyaan ugma.. mao 2 ako gi let go ang topic... so mao na today i thot amu na e try ug work out pero na shock nlng ko na ni tx xa na magduwa gihapon xa... mura rag walay kwenta akong gi ingon nya gahapon.. i dont want to nag him about that so ako nlng xa gpasagdan..

so guyz wat do u thnk? wat shud i do??

Honestly? dli pa na mature imng bf regarding uyab2x, which is obviously mas prioritize pa nya ang pagdula ug computer games rather than your feelings.

advice; show pangita pd ug laing lingaw na cya pd ang masuya instead of waiting for him sa internet cafe, go out with your friends or do something, if he loves you so much then mangita na nmo or mokuyog.
2nd advice, try daw na ikaw ang magdala sa relationship, meaning ikaw ang manghagda ug date or istorya sa mga issues if dli mo work then worst advice; unya namo pag uyab2 kng mature na ang guy.

main point: question his maturity sa relationship maigo jd na iyang ego, mausab na cya

**jntio**

ok rana oi! ang kuyaw f ma adict imo bf ug laki!

akosipiaya

do u thnk he loves u?! i dnt think so,, coz the way he treats.. ur only his last priority..

journeyman

your in love with him and his in love with the pc. faetz.

mediatrix33

mao gud bro......sa ako lang mas maayo lang na kay sa mag drugs pero naa limit sa pag play sa ol games...xD

godwhacker

pasensyahi lang na kay maka realize rana. Duna niingon nga may gani kay sa ma addik ug laki. Well ug di na bayot unya addik ug laki that means delikado kay barkada nga mga laki gyud unahon unya uwahi lang ka.
Pero maayo nalang sad nga wala ma adik sa babaye kay daghan gyud mo. Basin pa ug uwahi nasad ka.

**MisterSuave**

parehas na sa akong classmate sauna. gi ingnan sa iyang GF nga "Hala! pakasli nang Counter Strike" hahahaha

bitaw, kung naa nay PSP, ma guyod ra na nimo bisan asa bahalag sigeg duk2x sa PSP.