HELP Akong BF addict sa computer

[|nCuBabE]

Quote: Originally Posted by cebugdev Honestly? dli pa na mature imng bf regarding uyab2x, which is obviously mas prioritize pa nya ang pagdula ug computer games rather than your feelings. advice; show pangita pd ug laing lingaw na cya pd ang masuya instead of waiting for him sa internet cafe, go out with your friends or do something, if he loves you so much then mangita na nmo or mokuyog. 2nd advice, try daw na ikaw ang magdala sa relationship, meaning ikaw ang manghagda ug date or istorya sa mga issues if dli mo work then worst advice; unya namo pag uyab2 kng mature na ang guy. main point: question his maturity sa relationship maigo jd na iyang ego, mausab na cya

I agree! The guy is still immature to handle such relationship for he doesn't know who to prioritize.

Sis, my advise to you are as follows:

1. Love and prioritize yourself first. You divert your time & energy to something productive other than waiting for him in the cafe while playing games. You can go out with friends, enjoy shopping or if you have extra money out your allowance pamper yourself in a spa or salon. Make yourself esteem grow even more by looking, feeling good & projecting a vibrant aura not only to your bf but to all those whom you encounter daily.

2. Make him miss you. Don't reach out too much. The more you try to dig in just to get his interest back on you & not to OL games would only stray him away. Let him miss you but not to the point that he already learned to live w/o you. You'll still see each other bec. you said he's your classmate. Just stay a distant yet let him know your plans and whereabouts.

3. Communicate w/open mind. Try to open up issues that concern the most to you. If he listens, then well and good. You both can set action plans to strengthen your relationship. If not, then its for you to decide whether you'd live a martyr life for a 1 & 1/2 month relationship.

[P-Chan]

Quote: Originally Posted by |nCuBabE I agree! The guy is still immature to handle such relationship for he doesn't know who to prioritize. Sis, my advise to you are as follows: 1. Love and prioritize yourself first. You divert your time & energy to something productive other than waiting for him in the cafe while playing games. You can go out with friends, enjoy shopping or if you have extra money out your allowance pamper yourself in a spa or salon. Make yourself esteem grow even more by looking, feeling good & projecting a vibrant aura not only to your bf but to all those whom you encounter daily. 2. Make him miss you. Don't reach out too much. The more you try to dig in just to get his interest back on you & not to OL games would only stray him away. Let him miss you but not to the point that he already learned to live w/o you. You'll still see each other bec. you said he's your classmate. Just stay a distant yet let him know your plans and whereabouts. 3. Communicate w/open mind. Try to open up issues that concern the most to you. If he listens, then well and good. You both can set action plans to strengthen your relationship. If not, then its for you to decide whether you'd live a martyr life for a 1 & 1/2 month relationship.

nice advice.. i think mao ni ang sakto gud..

[lych]

@P-Chan
...pero kung dili gyud madala sa advice ni |nCuBabE...
well...putli nalang ug tudlo para dili na ka toslok sa keyboard ug mouse..hehe

[moz_k2]

Just talk about it.
Sabot mo nga dli pwede mag duwa on a specific time.
Ako gani, inform ko sa ako uyab nga mag offline ko sa ym kay magdula.

[godsaint]

Kung adik na gyud kaayo siya sa computer mas maayo tingali nga ipa rehab mo na lang siya.

[gurlyshuz]

nah i dont think it means nga the guy doesnt love her, maybe he does but hook up lang gyud sha sa computer. i can relate to u sis, my partner since uyab pa mi, addict na gyud there came a point when i had him chose between me and DOTA, i even cursed the makers of it. so then hapit na mi nagbuwag jud cge lalis, until ni agree sha mo quit na..time passed i noticed cge nalang sha kasuya sa iyang friends, and even kantyawan sha under etc,nya murag bored na jud sha. nalooy man ko so ako nlang sha gipablik BUT naa nay conditions,mag play sha and spend time pud sha nako. up until now addict ghapon sha, now that we are married.

point is kalipay man sad na niya ang game gud,(thankful gani ko kay mao ra na iyang addiction and not other else) sabota nlang sha sis na e sched and game ug ikaw. depende ra na sa sabot
and sa magkasinabot then wonderful! mao nay challenge nimo dha sis help him grow up ^_^ like i did

goodluck to you!

[|nCuBabE]

Quote: Originally Posted by P-Chan nice advice.. i think mao ni ang sakto gud..

Thanks bro!

I just wanna add this...

My supervisor is really an avid fan of online and offline games. Before he committed w/his long-term girlfriend, he confessed to the girl that he is really addicted to gaming. He even bought PSP, PS3, PC w/high-end gaming capability, guitar hero and other games that can be downloaded in his cell phone. He is really into it as in to the highest level. He once said to his girl that its better to hook up w/games than to hook up w/other girls. So i can see that his passion for gaming is to relax, enjoy and at the same time away from temptations that might ruin his relationship w/his gal. One good thing about him is he prioritize the relationship. The girl in return supports him all the way.

I hope that this is what will happen to you sis. g'luck

[sagoy]

Whisper in his ear na you want to make love while making believe you're in that online game you both are playing. Pag roleplay2x mo ug inyoha, dala skills bah... Crescent Slash!!! toing!! Piledriver skill!! tugsh!! Whirlwind dance! wengweng!! Mirror stance! CHONG!!

Thousand thrusts of the gods!!! hya hya hya hya hya hya hyaaaaaaaaahhhhhhrrrgghh!!!!

[Genocide]

adik shag computer? paliti ug computer hehe!

[captstar]

maybe you should spend time together sad nga magcomputer mo aron sweet sad bah...sometimes you should share some addictions man pd...i bet malingaw ra pud ka ana...but kng worse jud au iya pagka adik ana, awh u better tell him in a straight but calm way to clear things out..

[acecrystal]

ngek,computer geek diay...bati sad ana oi

[missy21]

mao sad na ako problema before...
karon kay kami na duha addict sa computer..
LOL
well, if you can't beat him, join him...hehehe

[histrionic0311]

ako mai computer adik.. ako gf pnags ra kau mu open sa comupter kai dili kahibalo. permi ko kasab.an ana nya kai sa computer nalang ko mg tutok.. hahaha pro sauna pa to

[godsaint]

Okay lang ma adik sa computer basta naa ika bayad or ika palit.Lisod lang kung sa uyab pa mangayo pang online.

[pruvinxana]

storyahi usab.
kung makaya pa nimo padayon if dili na buwagi.