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#31
08-14-2008, 01:46 AM
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 hala, i hav to be careful na diay...  im a jealous B**tch pud.. hehe.. grabeh na kaayo ko masuko over small things pud.. tsk tsk tsk..
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#32
08-14-2008, 01:57 AM
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toink... kulang nlng isuwat sa "maalaala mo kaya"
kidding aside sis... may i ask kng naa pka lain pamilya? like siblings? cousins? or mga parinti? usually basta naa tay kontra either strangers or even frens ad2 ta dagan sa atong uyab pero kng uyab na gai ang kontra ofkors asa pman ta mudagan sa family man jd... ana man jd na bsta 1st tym... sakit kuno... ayaw lng pugsa ky magdugo unya... hehe...!!! |
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#33
08-14-2008, 03:05 AM
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wheew.. looy sad oi. hmm..sis ana mn jud ang gawork sa call center,no time kunohay. but for me noh. im also working for a call center if you love the person u will still find time to spend time with him or her. i mean naa jud mi bonding moments bisan gamay lng. quality time together. sa imo case kay murag wa na jud sya care sorrry for being harsh but thats what i can see sa imo post. maybe u need to find time for urself sad kay murag na lock naka sa inyo rel. sometimes im also like that i mean,doesnt want to go out with other people kay sya lng lagi ako gusto kauban. but nowdi na ko ing ana masyado. hehehe...
worsts comes worsts.u need to let go if di marefresh inyo rel.
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#34
08-14-2008, 05:04 AM
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sniff..sniff...
wala ko kabalo unsa ako ireact sis. i have this kind of attitude man sad gud sis.. kanang murag martyr,ba.. but i also know when to stop. there are times man gud sis, na we have to think of ourselves. if what we are still doing is still right and if it really helping ourselves and the other person.. sis, i think you also need to think of yourself. to grow as an individual person. be your own person. create your own character. dili man jud na saun. that's y there is a gradual process.. hinay2 ug iaccept sa imo self that not all the time xa nalang..try to help yourself as well and cope with change.. pray pud sis..hope ma ok namo.. |
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#35
08-14-2008, 05:26 AM
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It IS that simple. You just have to see it from another point of view. When you're involved man gud, you cannot see that the relationship is detrimental to you. Someone posted she deserves to be treated well and respected, but she cannot see that. EVERYONE deserves to be treated well and respected, and she has to let go for the sake of her own happiness.
Better now while their commitment is only bf/gf rather than later na complicated na. Letting go will let her take a step back, assess her relationship, assess HER OWN needs and decide what will really make her happy. IMHO, her relationship is not making her happy but only giving her problems. MHO lang.
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#36
08-14-2008, 07:21 AM
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well, im so sorry to hear about your situation. i see where you're coming from. i don't intend to have a negative notion about your bf but i guess there must be something going on in the background. i mean a third party is possibly existing or starting to exist maybe. just when you mentioned that he's been so short-tempered lately and gets angry at the silliest things,and that he loves going out now however he's not even allowing you to go with him and have fun together... the same things happened when my relationship with my ex-gf was nearly coming to an end. i started to question her if there's something going on that she might wanna tell me so that i wouldn't end up like a fool. she denied it a couple of times, although the truth always has its way to just come out of the open, without any effort, i knew that she had an affair and she just didn't find the perfect timing to break up with me and end the relationship because she was too weak to admit that she had been unfaithful. i did everything, same as you did, even running errands for her all the time to the extent that i question myself if i was a boyfriend or a helper. i call it crazy in love and it should be the case anymore. so in your situation, i should say the symptoms are clear! i suggest you better talk about the issue with him in one sitting rather than being submissive about it. you know there's an issue and both of you have to face it. decide whether you getting hurt now and still have the chance to recover or you getting hurt later and suffer the worst pain you could ever feel. i meant the pain of leaving someone and the pain of being left behind is totally different, and i say the latter is worse! so be careful and good luck...
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#37
08-14-2008, 07:39 AM
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murag relate ko gamay dah..ako lang i fight jud...like what he did for me years ago...
sis...talk to him..bahalag he is eating or he is lying down to sleep...bahalag his eyes are close..tell him how much you love him ug unsa imu gna-agi-an karon sa iya pagbalewala sa sa imu... nahan pud ko mu hilak dah...murag nabalik ang sakit sa time na invisible pud ko sa ako BF |
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#38
08-14-2008, 09:30 AM
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mao ra jud ni akong masulti...
if d guy loves u truly bsan pa unsa na nahitabo ninyo, he wont dare let go........kung ang lalaki nakagusto ug nainlab pa di jud sya mobiya sa iyang gurl but if ala na.....mao nana =( truth hurts but b strong...... he will then realize unsa ang nawa niya..... |
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#39
08-14-2008, 10:00 AM
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grabe hapit ko kahilak while reading the post..naghuot akong dughan but pugong lang jud ko nga di kahilak...
i feel 4 u sis..i can somehow relate sa situation which is the "jealous" part ba coz i myself is a jealous gf..i keep thinking of negative thoughts but i realize that i'm just hurting myself & i'd end up loser if i won't stop..ako ang alkansi..duh! so from my own point of view i'd say, don't delve too much on negative thoughts..keep urself busy & enjoy..go out w/ close friends..if ur bf enjoys the company of other people more than he enjoys it bein' w/ u, then show him that u can also enjoy w/o him..maybe he is ignoring u because he is so confident that u'd stick w/ him no matter what which is wrong because he is abusing it..show him that ur world doesn't revolve around him..love urself & leave some pride for urself..there are many good things outside that u shouldn't miss..but it's still better if u talk to him so u can figure things out...(hay naku...easier said than done...) |
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#40
08-14-2008, 11:54 AM
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Sus... nganu kaha mu ingon ang mga tao na tanan madala ra ug istorya? kung dli madala sa istorya.net.. dli najud... NAa juy mga tao na dili matarong ug istorya.. miski cge naka singgit dha.. buta bungol ang effect.. faet..
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#41
08-14-2008, 12:10 PM
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Thanks for all the pieces of advice guys.
To be honest, I have tried talking to him, but he just won't budge. I am so scared to let things Cool Off because I personally don't believe in the idea of cool off. I have a feeling he has someone else, but I want to find a way to win him back. I am not one to waste relationships. I want to be happy with him. There was a time in my life when I knew the real him... and that person was exactly why I fell so in love with him. I know he cares for me. I know he will love me more than anyone and anything. but these days, it's impossible to kill all the temptations and distractions. He is confused and I want to lead him home to me. I am willing to let him be... but please, not too far. He might get hurt. I love him dearly. He just doesn't undertand that until now, even after YEARS and YEARS of beein together, I still get lost in his gaze.. and I still run out of breath when he starts to moon me.. I am still so much in love with him, and I don't know how HIGH anything else can make me. |
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#42
08-14-2008, 12:29 PM
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@iwantmyboyfriend
-->>it's all up to you...if you want to stay in love but be miserable, then it's all up to you... one thing i can say: you should LOVE yourself more than him...you're not alone in this world, all you have to do is open your eyes and look around for someone who deserves your love and loyalty. if he can afford to do this to you (like saying mag COOL OFF), then why cant you? you've done your part. if he still dont get it, then might be you have to face the reality that, it's no longer working... advice lang na ha...
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#43
08-14-2008, 12:50 PM
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If you’re getting pushed away
don’t hold on tighter.. letting go when you’re getting pushed away is the only way he will feel what it’s like without you.. even though it’s the hardest thing to do…do it for him... If dat is ur choice den i bet he's really lucky to have you. Such a brave girl. But 1 thing i wud lyk you to do before you decide to get him back.PLEASE GET URSELF BACK FIRST. I might sound selfish here but i really do believe you need to love urself more than you love him. Dont be selfish though. What i mean is set ur own limits.And if u really pursue to get him back,i wish you goodluck.God bless.
Last edited by Baeybe_Bryce; 08-14-2008 at 01:48 PM.
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