Your Love Story

[imeanbusiness21]

ka char pud oi hehe

[imeanbusiness21]

nka remember na nuon ko sa akong mga heartaches dah! char!hehe

[Tirong-say]

The triumph and defeat of love, love is always worth fighting for.....

[beyee]

Quote: Originally Posted by godsaint Hope daghan maka relate.. Of course you've heard of joe d mango. He gives advice on love and relationships on Wave 89.1. Have u ever wondered what he does when he has his own love problems? Does he give advice to himself? Does he handle it very well? Here's his story: Three fridays ago, our guru on relationships, joe d mango, read a letter to his wife on his popular radio program Love Notes. For the past 11 years, he had been giving advice to people who would write him letters about their personal problems. To the surprise of his listeners that friday, instead of reading one of his usual letters, he read one that he had written himself to his wife Bing. Joe felt that he had to tell his listeners that even someone like him could go through a marital crisis, but that he survived it. Here's how his letter goes. In our 11 years of marriage it was just the two of us. I never had a close circle of friends and she never had one either. Life for us was just "you and me," day in and day out. We were literally sleeping beside each other for 11 years. It came to point that there was nothing more interesting to talk about. I was aware I was doing that but I never did anything about it. We were so close yet it seemed like we were so distant. Then came her new circle of friends. They recently had an elementary and high school reunion. Remember her persistent suitor since elementary days? He was there. We already had four daughters and the guy had four kids of his own. They exchanged phone numbers. They started to text each other and this bothered me. a big part of it was insecurity and other part was that she once denied that she was texting the guy. I felt bad because she started hiding things from me. Then the guy asked her if they could meet for lunch. It became a source of tension between us. I finally agreed, but before that, I told her that I felt that I was going through the same pain again. I have seen so many stories like this. If you told me the first part of the story I would already know where it would lead to. Bing accused me of being a "know-it-all" person. But deep in my heart I knew where she was heading. Why would a married guy see a married girl unless it was for business or professional reasons? Finally, even if it was against my will, I drove her to the meeting place. While I was waiting at the radio station, I wanted to call her but knew it wasn't proper. So I just waited for her to tell me how their meeting went. When she related to me what happened I felt that she was keeping the other details. I was afraid to ask because I wasn't prepared to accept her answers. I told her that it would be best if that was their last meeting. She got mad and told me that I was starting to control her life. The following day, I saw a small, torn piece of paper that had the words,"lose you" in the trash can at home. I started picking up the pieces of paper and putting them together. She had written: "Felt sad because I felt that this will be our last meeting." "Wanted to hug you..." Before I could figure out what the third one was, Bing was already at my back. She wanted to get the torn pieces of paper back. She said it was private property. We decided to talk. By then, I was able to figure out the third line: "Not sure if afraid to lose you." She had crossed it out and beside it, she had written, "Wanted to cry." That was what hit me. How could you lose something that's not even with you yet? That was a confirmation that she was getting emotionally attached to the guy. We fought because she didn't want to admit it. She said that what she had written was all about friendship and not about love. For the first time in our marriage she asked for freedom from me. For 11 years we were always together, and now this. She had discovered her own little world and wanted to explore it. I didn't want to give it to her but finally I gave in. I told her that she could do anything she wanted and not worry about how I would feel. In fact, I told her that I was planning to leave her and kids for a while so we could give each other the chance to be alone. We decided to give the new arrangement a try. The following day, Thursday, I went to work early and she texted me. I never answered back. When I didn't respond, she called me. She said, "I'm sorry. I love you and I miss you." For the first time in our mariage I said, "I love you and I miss you too" with tears in my eyes. I realized how much I loved her but I also knew how much she wanted her freedom. When I arrived at the station I asked for a leave. My boss advised me to think it over, but he said that he would allow me to on leave. After letting it all out I felt relieved. It was the first time in my life that I asked for advice about our relationship. While I was talking with my boss, a messenger arrived with 12 white roses arranged in a basket. It came from Bing. Then a text message on my cellphone came, "I know that no material things can ease the pain that you're feeling right now, but these flowers signify my pure and sincere intentions. I'm really sorry. Please forgive me." Still, a question continued to bug me: "I'm giving you the freedom. Will you choose to stay or go on?" I read the card, and it had the answer to my question: "Dear Dad, I finally realized that I made a very big mistake in choosing a newfound friendship at the expense of our long-time friendship. Please forgive me. I wil always love you." Bing called the guy and told him that she wanted to end the friendship. He said that they could just text or call each other. Bing said that there was no need. We had dinner and talked up to 1 am. It was like getting married all over again. We lost each other and found our way back. I do not want to go through the same pain again. Friday came and it was the first time in the history of Love Notes that I couldn't do Love Notes. I scheduled a replay. When I was at the station at 9am,I composed a letter to Bing. I was asking myself, should I read this or do a replay? I chose to read the letter. It is not unusual to hear people say "I love you because...," but this story has shown us that the deeper and greater love is having to say "I LOVE YOU IN SPITE OF..." what hurts most? ..when you can't fight for that one thing that would make you happy.. ..I may never be the guy you look forward to seeing every day., but I will always be the guy who will look out for you each and every day.. sadgurl: "don't make me feel that i'm just a selfish jerk just because I made you cry"! sadguy: "then don't make me feel like I did nothing for you when I almost died crying just to see you smile..." Men are haunted by the vastness of eternity. And so we ask ourselves: will our actions echo across the centuries? Will strangers hear our names long after we are gone, and wonder who we were, how bravely we fought, how fiercely we loved? love is when you can't sleep.., it's when you want to keep your eyes open.. love isn't when you keep holding on.., it's when you learn to let go.. love isn't when you kill yourself with jealousy.., it's when you understand.. love isnt' when you fall for someone.., it's when you catch that person when she falls.. love isn't when you see her everywhere.., it's when you close your eyes and she is still there.. love isn't when you tell her what you feel.., it's when you give everything for her sake.. And love isn't when you think you were blind.., it's when you know she was wrong but you didn't mind

... I'm touched by joe's story... that's the wonder of love, no matter how much you swear off infidelties in ur relationship, ud still break ur rules and accept the person who has wronged u out of love for that person...

[[PROTOTYPE]]

hay naku... gugma...

wa may kwarta dinha intawn oi...

huhuhu agi2x nalang tawn ko...

[idolpunk]

Mmm...ako nasad share ha para d unfair sa uban ba...

hehee...here's my story....


When I was in my 4th yr dayz(mga march-april 200*)...laagan au ko...after sa klas uli nya ad2 daun internet cafe...(laagan kay graduating naman ^__^)...and everyday sa akong pag-ad2 sa internet cafe naa gyud koy maagi-an na tindahan and kani na tindahan is tindahan sa Insik...heheh....and that time hilig au ko ug insik..Sa akong pag-agi2x naa koy makit-an na mga insik na babay...heheh....Kani laging bata pata..ni wish lang pd ko na maka-uyab ug insik...heeheh...

Usa ka init na adlaw, naay ni txt nko unknown ang no. and sun pa gyud...(Uso paman ang wrong-send2x sa sun ato..hehe)So...ako siya gi replyan na “Kinsa ka?” nya reply daun siya na “Ikaw? Kinsa Ka?”...So...mao to ngkatxt2x mi..until naabot nalang ko ug leyte for medical Mission 5 days..(sa panahon pani sa Leyte tragedy) cgi gyapon mi txt..and until such time ngkastorya mi about love2x...heheh.and after pila ka days na cgi ug storya2x she confessed that naa siyay uyab but d cya nahan sa iyang uyab...I told her na “ngano mustay man ka sa usa ka guy nga d ka happy?”...So...asa paman d.i padung ang storya uyab daun!!...hehehe....after that iyang gibuwagan iyang uyab tungod nko...hahahh!!! asa ka ana??...hehehe....So ngka-uyab mi and to make my short story long, ngka-uyab mi until sa pag-1st yr college nmo...We have the same course, the same school but different schedules...In our first month while ngstudy ok pa kaayo...as in wala gyuy problem but as the time pass by mkafeel nko na there is something fishy but wala lang gyud ko ngpadala kay kani laging salig ta..hehe...so wla lang pd ko...Usa ka madag-om na gabie ngtxt2x mi...and she told me na d lang daw siya pahatud inig uli kay basi makit-an mi sa iyang parents(take note! Sekwet among relationship ato) so at that time nkasense nko na murag naa gyuy sumthing wrong niya..pagka-ugma ana she texted me na padung na siya uli...so ako nag-alibay ko na naa ko sa rooftop but naa ko sa gawas sa campus..Naa ko sa gawas sa campus nya ngtago2x ko while nag-atang nila..hehe...sa akong pag-atang nkabantay ko ug lalaki na choy2x kaayo ug dating..(hmmm!!! sakpan! Murag mao na gyud ni..) nya nakit-an daun nko akong uyab na naglakaw padung sa skywalk...so ako ngtan-aw rako while nitago..Sus!! ni sunod man ang choy2x nga laki nya ni hunong daun sila sa tunga2x sa skywalk then sa ilang paghunong klaro pa gyud kaayo sa akong panan-aw na ngholding handz sila....(lami-a lagi mgdala ug sniper nya pusilon ba...double kill gyud ba! *__*)...heheh....so ako silang gidoul nya ako daun gi-ingnan akong uyab “Bantog ra d ka pahatud kay naay lain muhatod nmo!” nya after ana nanakay sila ug jeep padung uli nya kani laging ganahan ta mo baws....ako silang gisundan padung uli then ako gi confront akong uyab kong kinsa to...Ang pong sa akong uyab kay migo ra daw sila...asa ka ana?! Nangilad pa ang okoy...hehe...so grabe au kay away to the max oiz...hehe...and after pila ka days nakigbalik siya but then wala gyud siya ni angkon...so ako dawat lang pd ko..hatag lang pd ko ug 2nd chance..and after 1 week nakigbuwag ang kigwa!! pagkaugma ana naa daun siyay uyab and and the worst thing was iya pa gyung classmate iyang uyab...Just like wat she did in her BF before mi ngka-uyab, mao pd iyang gibuhat nko...gibuwagan ko..hahahayz!!!

take note: The gurl na akng na uyab ani na story was the owner of the tindahan na akong permi labyan padung ko mg-Internet...hahah..wat a wish! But now magkatawa nalang ko kay makit-an nko sila sa iyang uyab ng-luto2x ug hot cake sa ilang tindahan..(NO offense ha..sa ako ranang nakit-an...hehehe....^__^)...

[jennilexshop]

pde ako nlng nah siya?

[chinchan004]

ako sad mo share... ako lang mub-on..

so many times ... kadaghan nako na crush.. but never thought i found the one.. she's my first ever girlfriend... and luckily im her 1st bf too.. swerte nako oi

well.. at first she's not that easy.. though i took thing so easy.. but until i realize niabot ako katapat... imbis ako ang gahi.. xa na nuon ang gahi. haha so funny..

we met at a special ambience.. because of God i met her.. but at 1st it was difficult because we started as enemies but not friends... and it was all my fault.. ako xa gi away.. funny but lisod ato nga time.. and na konsinxa ko mao to ako ang ni approach ug ni say sorry niya.. hahaha pero grbe kaau ug condition.. haha gipaapil ko nya ug cheerdance..wahhhh saonz sayaw pa gyud.. kay tungud lagi na consenxa ko ni apil rasad ko ^^ hahah mao to that was 3 years ago..

so i courted.. i let her feel that im different from other guys whom she thinks that all of us are same...mao to ako gipakita niya..but di gyud malikyan nga masakitan ka.. though super ka gwapa niya... and di gyud malikyan daghan mas gwapo ug choy choy.. kinsa ra gud tawn ko.. usa rako ka tambok nga dili itsuraan pero buotan hahahaha..

mao to.. there are times nga mag away mi.. but luckily we started as friends.. and kuan pud.. silingan ra diay mi na shock gani ko..

mao to time comes... i realze nga time after time.. im falling even more inlove with her.. hoping she'll catch me..mao to dugay kaau..
hhaha gikapoy ko mao mo undang ko nya mobalik.. but i always left her these words, "I never stopped loving you.. i just stopped showing it" char!! mao to sa ka swerte noh.. haizz..


karon gisugut ko nya.. and i was so happy... mas ni grow ako feelings mas ni strong.. she's my inspiration.. lingaw sad... was so happy nga naka uyab nako and i was so lucky to be loved by that kind of girl hehehe..

mao to.. karon wer super okay.. and hopefully we'll last long..

basta let's just put God in the center of our relationship.. and xa na ang bahala ^^

[JeLi_An]

My love story now is so confusing therefore its a very long story. I feel a lot of pain and almost all emotions.

[iplayurgame24]

hahahaha! nagkatawa mang ko sa imong story oi! nalingaw jud ko infairness... ehehehe!

[iplayurgame24]

@monrose: no offense ha but nagkatawa jud ko sa imong lovelife oi! sa mga words na imong gigamit bah..