HELP!!! I'm falling out of love from my guy...

[laagan_si_organizer]

I recently got a boyfriend, and we turned 1 week last Sunday. He was so sweet. Actually, he's my type of guy - or I should say my ideal guy. Physically, he's chubby, tall, chinito, and (I should say) good-looking. I have no complaints when it comes to his characteristics. He's sweet, mabait, thoughtful, and loving. I thought everything would go well. We have constant communication, but for the a week-run of our relationship, we only got to see each other once...and this is when I started to feel insecure. He constantly calls me at night after he arrives from work, but it wasn't enough. I always have this longing of seeing him. I told him about it, and he always have the same response - to be patient with it. I know he also has to prioritize his work. He's responsible about it, and that's what's killing me. He's too workaholic. I only want to spend quality time with him, but he could only assure that when the right time comes, we would get that quality time I need. It's starting to bore me out. I know I shouldn't feel that way, but I can't help. I'm confused right now. I'm scared to break it up to him, because he's been very good to me. He has been very patient. He has been pursuing me for almost a year. He told me it was worth the wait. Also, one of the reasons I'm afraid to break with him is because he's a close barkada of my cousin. I wouldn't want to destroy their friendship and closeness just because I'm confused with what I'm feeling for him. Is it really normal? or I'm just overreacting.

[akosabni]

workaholic! just tell him you need to be worked out also ...

btaw, hang in there, its only a week yet ... maybe he needs to do all those month ending reports

[rishee]

na.. na amao nah..

mao na ni ron.. ayaw2x lagi anang uyab2x.... hahhahahaha

[taga_ipil]

1 week?

did something happen? you know the 'S' thing?

or maybe naa sya existing nga uyab before na-kamo.

huhuhuhu... wawa...

[rishee]

mitch, kuan daw... i suggest na u wait for a lil while longer...

[taga_ipil]

ayaw lang pakita na nagool ka or na worry ka.
kay na advantage jud na sa lalaki...

pasagdi... di bitaw na imo loss iya bitaw na. (assuming walay nahitabo ninyo)

[rl]

ur overreacting.. or u dont like the guy that much, the way ur describing , its like wala ra nmo.. if 1 year ang guy nag pursue nmo. so u mean to say na develop lng ka.. the way i see it lng, u dont love the guy that much

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by taga_ipil 1 week? did something happen? you know the 'S' thing? or maybe naa sya existing nga uyab before na-kamo. huhuhuhu... wawa...

nothing hapened yet, but i would love to. i think love nako xa, but wala lang jud xa time nako.

Quote: Originally Posted by rl ur overreacting.. or u dont like the guy that much, the way ur describing , its like wala ra nmo.. if 1 year ang guy nag pursue nmo. so u mean to say na develop lng ka.. the way i see it lng, u dont love the guy that much

wala nako xa gi-pansin before because i was trying to get over a heartbreak. nagsugod xa panguyab nako after i broke up with my then-bf for 9 mos. wala nako xa gisugot because i don't want him to be on the rebound. and besides, dili man jud basta-basta moabot ang love dba? it takes time to develop. he has been good and understanding to me. kaso lang, nung nagkauyab na mi. it seems he's working too much na wala na siya time nako.

Quote: Originally Posted by rishee mitch, kuan daw... i suggest na u wait for a lil while longer...

i would have to take this one here.

[rishee]

the greatest agony in the world is waiting..

it could kill

[taga_ipil]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer nothing hapened yet, but i would love to. i think love nako xa, but wala lang jud xa time nako.

too early.. too early... mada mada...

ikaw ra ang luoy if thats the case.
since 1 week pamo, its good that the guys is showing sa iya attitude.
about sa inyo relationships, kung mao na iya batasab sa una pa
nga workaholic sya then you should accept it.


compared anang BF na sa first stage sa ila relationships
murag iro cge ug sunod/call/text sa babaye pero kung makuha na
wala nay pakialam.

give it a time, ayaw sa isuko ang bandana ng pilipinas in-ana ka sayo...

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by taga_ipil too early.. too early... mada mada... ikaw ra ang luoy if thats the case. since 1 week pamo, its good that the guys is showing sa iya attitude. about sa inyo relationships, kung mao na iya batasab sa una pa nga workaholic sya then you should accept it. compared anang BF na sa first stage sa ila relationships murag iro cge ug sunod/call/text sa babaye pero kung makuha na wala nay pakialam. give it a time, ayaw sa isuko ang bandana ng pilipinas in-ana ka sayo...

if ever naa mahitabo, he would not be the first one hipokrita kung mo-ingon ko na we didn't do it with my ex-bf. it had been a part of our relationship na (with my ex-bf). my current bf told me na it wouldn't matter anymore sa amo relationship karon, because he knows how i am when it comes to things like that. he knows na dili lang ko pataka ug make out with any guys. my problem right now is...i'm starting to get annoyed with his work, and getting bored sa dagan sa amo relationship, even if it's still a week pa. d man sad ko pul-anon nga type, but it seems to me na something is missing between us.

[lady_yan]

ako lang ni opinion sis, kay i had the same experience with my ex before. one week is too short man guro to feel that way. kay kami pud sauna kay once a week ra jud mi magkita kay super busy sya sa work. maybe you need to be busy lang pud para di kaayo ka magthink niya. divert your attention to other things.
besides, if you trully love him, you need to sacrifice pud. dili raman pud ikaw guro gimingaw niya, i bet he misses you a lot too. like you said, mutawag jud sya nimo everyday, it means mingawn pud na sya nimo. be patient lang sis,, don't make any decisions that you might regret in the end. think about it a lot of times, weight the pros and cons.. God bless sis!!! i hope you'll have a happy ending..

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer if ever naa mahitabo, he would not be the first one hipokrita kung mo-ingon ko na we didn't do it with my ex-bf. it had been a part of our relationship na (with my ex-bf). my current bf told me na it wouldn't matter anymore sa amo relationship karon, because he knows how i am when it comes to things like that. he knows na dili lang ko pataka ug make out with any guys. my problem right now is...i'm starting to get annoyed with his work, and getting bored sa dagan sa amo relationship, even if it's still a week pa. d man sad ko pul-anon nga type, but it seems to me na something is missing between us.

OT:tsk-tsk ganda ng ate ko...hahahah...

OnT:enjoy mo na lang muna anu meron kau..it's a new relationship so take time...wag masyado padalos dalos...

[ronu_24]

well im a guy andif i really like the girl i will make time that's a fact...im not rying to imply anything w/ regards to your bf,k....for what it's worth u can have me as proxy.......hehehehe........

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by ronu_24 well im a guy andif i really like the girl i will make time that's a fact...im not rying to imply anything w/ regards to your bf,k....for what it's worth u can have me as proxy.......hehehehe........

OT: oh, sure. ur the guy who wants to be a priest right? so, it's official?