HELP!!! I'm falling out of love from my guy...

[laagan_si_organizer]

Originally Posted by acecrystal

sounds good.... yeah,just take things at a gradual pace..... as long as he's willing to make it up to you, then that could be a good reassurance on your part......

@acecrystal: yup. it actually is. things are going well, ryt now. i'm not getting paranoid anymore, since we're no longer attached at each other, though i still long for him, i just need to discipline myself. i also miss our baby spencer.

[grlnxtdor16]

sis, musta naman mo? any progress?

[laagan_si_organizer]

Originally Posted by grlnxtdor16

sis, musta naman mo? any progress?

hi gurl. there has been. we've decided to smooth it down and cool it off. since he can't make time for me yet, he wants me to enjoy and date some other guys. he wants me to be happy, even if i could only be happy when he's around. we agreed that if ever he finds time for me already, he would make it up and try to compromise for his shortcomings. for now, we don't want to communicate with each other so that it would be easier to move on for both of us.

[acecrystal]

Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer

@acecrystal: yup. it actually is. things are going well, ryt now. i'm not getting paranoid anymore, since we're no longer attached at each other, though i still long for him, i just need to discipline myself. i also miss our baby spencer.

you mean you decided to have a cool off? yup,just think things over sis...you're giving each one an ample time for that...who's baby spencer? if you don't mind.... nephew?

[laagan_si_organizer]

Originally Posted by acecrystal

you mean you decided to have a cool off? yup,just think things over sis...you're giving each one an ample time for that...who's baby spencer? if you don't mind.... nephew?

yep. cool off. he wants me to date some other guys for now. spencer? he's our baby. he's a shih tzu, a gift from allen's dad.

[acecrystal]

Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer

yep. cool off. he wants me to date some other guys for now. spencer? he's our baby. he's a shih tzu, a gift from allen's dad.

ahh... cute tingali na si spencer...hehe! noh? date another guy jud? I think it's as good as letting go na for good

[laagan_si_organizer]

yup.. spencer is cute. letting go for good? i'm not sure. we still can't let go, yet he wants me to be happy. he knows i can't date any other guy, so he's very loose at it.

[acecrystal]

Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer

yup.. spencer is cute. letting go for good? i'm not sure. we still can't let go, yet he wants me to be happy. he knows i can't date any other guy, so he's very loose at it.

yeah I find it an indirect way of letting go na jud sis...

[laagan_si_organizer]

Originally Posted by acecrystal

yeah I find it an indirect way of letting go na jud sis...

i think it's better than holding on, being unsure about things that would happen to us. at least, we know we still both each other, but at the same time, we're not really committed anymore.

[acecrystal]

Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer

i think it's better than holding on, being unsure about things that would happen to us. at least, we know we still both each other, but at the same time, we're not really committed anymore.

yeah,that would be the best thing than holding on to something you've lost.... no commitment,so lesser expectations na

[grlnxtdor16]

for me cool off is like a stepping stone sa pag bulag..ugh! sakit oie.. pero i guess just accept the fact nlng guro sis nga for now having a relationship is still out of his priorities and schedule

[acecrystal]

Originally Posted by grlnxtdor16

for me cool off is like a stepping stone sa pag bulag..ugh! sakit oie.. pero i guess just accept the fact nlng guro sis nga for now having a relationship is still out of his priorities and schedule

right! in the long run,it's good as breaking it off finally

[laagan_si_organizer]

Originally Posted by grlnxtdor16

for me cool off is like a stepping stone sa pag bulag..ugh! sakit oie.. pero i guess just accept the fact nlng guro sis nga for now having a relationship is still out of his priorities and schedule

you're right sis. later on, maka-recover ra unya mi. at least, we remained good friends. and nawala na ako worries about him and my cousin na iya barkada. it's painful pero sige lang. in time, if we're really meant to be, then kami jud in the end.

[darkdruid]

tubay nalang sa agianan... para walay bugno.

[laagan_si_organizer]

Originally Posted by darkdruid

tubay nalang sa agianan... para walay bugno.

what do u exactly mean?