HELP!!! I'm falling out of love from my guy...

[taga_ipil]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer if ever naa mahitabo, he would not be the first one hipokrita kung mo-ingon ko na we didn't do it with my ex-bf. it had been a part of our relationship na (with my ex-bf). my current bf told me na it wouldn't matter anymore sa amo relationship karon, because he knows how i am when it comes to things like that. he knows na dili lang ko pataka ug make out with any guys. my problem right now is...i'm starting to get annoyed with his work, and getting bored sa dagan sa amo relationship, even if it's still a week pa. d man sad ko pul-anon nga type, but it seems to me na something is missing between us.

Damn!.. lucky x...
Good luck Laagan... too early.. give time...
pwede man ikaw pud mobisita sa iya sa work kung fit sa schedule,
pero kung di ganahan.. ahhh... ibang usapan na yan..

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by lady_yan ako lang ni opinion sis, kay i had the same experience with my ex before. one week is too short man guro to feel that way. kay kami pud sauna kay once a week ra jud mi magkita kay super busy sya sa work. maybe you need to be busy lang pud para di kaayo ka magthink niya. divert your attention to other things. besides, if you trully love him, you need to sacrifice pud. dili raman pud ikaw guro gimingaw niya, i bet he misses you a lot too. like you said, mutawag jud sya nimo everyday, it means mingawn pud na sya nimo. be patient lang sis,, don't make any decisions that you might regret in the end. think about it a lot of times, weight the pros and cons.. God bless sis!!! i hope you'll have a happy ending..

thanks, gurl. i'm also busy with work man sad, but i always find time na magkakita mi. kaso, he always tells me not to visit him sa computer shop (he owns a computer repair shop man) kay basin daw laayan ra ko kay di ko ma-asikaso niya, though he advices me to go to his house na lang. but layo kaau to oie. i'm from lapulapu and he's in talisay, so i really can't sleep over sa iya house.

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by Baeybe_Bryce OT:tsk-tsk ganda ng ate ko...hahahah... OnT:enjoy mo na lang muna anu meron kau..it's a new relationship so take time...wag masyado padalos dalos...

OT: baby boy, that's a different story. i can handle myself, don't worry. i'm just worrying about falling out of love this early.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer OT: baby boy, that's a different story. i can handle myself, don't worry. i'm just worrying about falling out of love this early.

OT:good! no cry baby hr okies?hahaha...

OnT: just enjoy it na lang,..u have work din dba?savour ur moments together na lang ate...it's not easy to fall out of love if ur deeply and really into him uy,...no easy way for dat...kalma lang!hehehe...

[ronu_24]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer OT: oh, sure. ur the guy who wants to be a priest right? so, it's official?

OT: hahahahaha,murag gpaningot kog bugnaw da......

[Soul Doctor]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer OT: baby boy, that's a different story. i can handle myself, don't worry. i'm just worrying about falling out of love this early.

If you ask me, the problem is not your boyfriend.
The problem is you.
You don't know how to use your time.
Alangan naman sad og magsige lang mog atubang sa imong boyfriend.
There are lots of things to do on any ordinary day.
Walay kahumanan ang trabahoon sa balay.
Tuo lang nako.
Kada adlaw:--
Naay labhanan. (unless magsige na lang kag panty ug bra)
Naay lutoonon kan-on ug sud-an ug naay plato hugasan. (unless magsige kag kaon sa gawas o jollibee)
Naay balay limyohanan (unless naa kay maid, which will cost you at least P5,000 including food and misc..)


Now that you have a boyfriend you should try to make use of time to do household things.

Kung maminyo na mo, ikaw baya ang mobuhat aning tanan.
Luto, laba, plantsa, limpyo, hugas plato.
Believe me you will have your hands full when you get married.
So, you should prepare yourself for that.
Manage your time.

And when you learn to appreciate the value of work and the value of time.
You will start to appreciate what your boyfriend is doing.

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by Baeybe_Bryce OT:good! no cry baby hr okies?hahaha... OnT: just enjoy it na lang,..u have work din dba?savour ur moments together na lang ate...it's not easy to fall out of love if ur deeply and really into him uy,...no easy way for dat...kalma lang!hehehe...

OT: baby boy, i can't say na i can enjoy it when things are bothering my mind dba?

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Quote: Originally Posted by Soul Doctor If you ask me, the problem is not your boyfriend. The problem is you. You don't know how to use your time. Alangan naman sad og magsige lang mog atubang sa imong boyfriend. There are lots of things to do on any ordinary day. Walay kahumanan ang trabahoon sa balay. Tuo lang nako. Kada adlaw:-- Naay labhanan. (unless magsige na lang kag panty ug bra) Naay lutoonon kan-on ug sud-an ug naay plato hugasan. (unless magsige kag kaon sa gawas o jollibee) Naay balay limyohanan (unless naa kay maid, which will cost you at least P5,000 including food and misc..) Now that you have a boyfriend you should try to make use of time to do household things. Kung maminyo na mo, ikaw baya ang mobuhat aning tanan. Luto, laba, plantsa, limpyo, hugas plato. Believe me you will have your hands full when you get married. So, you should prepare yourself for that. Manage your time. And when you learn to appreciate the value of work and the value of time. You will start to appreciate what your boyfriend is doing.

OT:hala ate...hahaha...hmm...y not nga ba??

OnT: been there..done that...ate focus urself to other things muna...u know my sitaution naman dba...there's more to life!hehehe...ate sa room ko madami laundry...hehehe...samahan kita mgwash turuan mo ako...

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer OT: baby boy, i can't say na i can enjoy it when things are bothering my mind dba?

uy...don't let it make things uneasy for both of you...let's put it this way...don't let others hold your emotion..hold it in your hands so that it will be always on reach..make use of ur tym sa ibang bagay...if it's bothering u den reject it...it's all in d mind...hehehe....

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by Soul Doctor If you ask me, the problem is not your boyfriend. The problem is you. You don't know how to use your time. Alangan naman sad og magsige lang mog atubang sa imong boyfriend. There are lots of things to do on any ordinary day. Walay kahumanan ang trabahoon sa balay. Tuo lang nako. Kada adlaw:-- Naay labhanan. (unless magsige na lang kag panty ug bra) Naay lutoonon kan-on ug sud-an ug naay plato hugasan. (unless magsige kag kaon sa gawas o jollibee) Naay balay limyohanan (unless naa kay maid, which will cost you at least P5,000 including food and misc..) Now that you have a boyfriend you should try to make use of time to do household things. Kung maminyo na mo, ikaw baya ang mobuhat aning tanan. Luto, laba, plantsa, limpyo, hugas plato. Believe me you will have your hands full when you get married. So, you should prepare yourself for that. Manage your time. And when you learn to appreciate the value of work and the value of time. You will start to appreciate what your boyfriend is doing.

okay dear, setting things straight. first of all, marriage is the last thing i could think of this time. ONE WEEK pa lang mi. think about it, wala xa time nako nga uyab mi, i don't want to be the sole person in the house when i get married...also, when i get married, i don't want a house alone...i want a home, composed of a happy and united family. how can u call it happy and united if one doesn't have the time with his own family? next thing, i'm not worrying about household chores, mind you. i can do those stuff and will be proud to tell the world that I CAN DO THOSE STUFF IN A DAY and even do MULTITASKING. it's not about being together everyday, sitting down, and doing nothing. it's about being together, spending quality time at least a few days a week. he calls me, and it's actually sweet, but i can't live with that alone. and if he's looking for someone who could JUST do those things u've described, he might as well look for a helper, not a wife.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer okay dear, setting things straight. first of all, marriage is the last thing i could think of this time. ONE WEEK pa lang mi. think about it, wala xa time nako nga uyab mi, i don't want to be the sole person in the house when i got married...also, when i get married, i don't want a house alone...i want a home, composed of a happy and united family. how can u call it happy and united if one doesn't have the time with his own family? next thing, i'm not worrying about household chores, mind you. i can do those stuff and will be proud to tell the world that I CAN DO THOSE STUFF IN A DAY and even do MULTITASKING. it's not about being together everyday, sit down, and do nothing. it's about being together, spending quality at least a few days a week. he calls me, and it's actually sweet. and if he's looking for someone who could JUST do those things u've described, he might as well look for a helper, not a wife.

OT:whahaha...antaray ni ate...hahaha...sure...wag masyado mainit..ung heart mo...relax...

[laagan_si_organizer]

Quote: Originally Posted by Baeybe_Bryce OT:hala ate...hahaha...hmm...y not nga ba?? OnT: been there..done that...ate focus urself to other things muna...u know my sitaution naman dba...there's more to life!hehehe...ate sa room ko madami laundry...hehehe...samahan kita mgwash turuan mo ako...

OT: uy, baby boy, matuto kang maglaba!

OnT: i tried to divert my attention, but someitmes, i can't help thinking bout it. what if.......

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Quote: Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer OT: uy, baby boy, matuto kang maglaba! OnT: i tried to divert my attention, but someitmes, i can't help thinking bout it. what if.......

OT:ayoko nga...turuan mo nga ako eh...hahaha...

OnT: divert and revert...good!

[john_yo]

get bisy sometimes pud nya balibad pud niya sometimes og makig kita cya nimo, tanawa og unsa iya reaction hehehe

maldito jud ko noh? hehehe mo balos jud. toink....