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Old 12-07-2005, 08:33 AM
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Default At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

Kanus-a man dapat na mo hatag na ug tamang pagsalig ug kagawasan ang mga parents sa ila mga anak.......

depende tingali pero when man jud. I mean mostly at what age jud bah
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Old 12-07-2005, 08:55 AM
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as for me as long as mature na ang usa ka anak then dapat na e let go sa parents pro naa gihapon ang guidance gikan nila...dili man basis ang edad kung kanus a e let go ang usa ka anak...what if d ay daku na uyg edad pro immature gihapon..
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Old 12-07-2005, 09:08 AM
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agree with you cutieara.... age might tell your physical maturity but not ur psychological or emotional sensibility....

for those who are parents already diri, if you've lived your childhood days nga easy going, no hardwork --> meaning, nindot inyo financial status sa family, i suggest you let your child experience hardships a little 1 example could be financially. its from there maka experience cla how to stand if mo kalit nga ma pobre ang tawo, maka stand pa japon cya.

for those parents nga faet jud kaau ang ilang childhood kay pobre, don't ever say to yourself, "dapat dili ma experience sa akong anak ang akong na agi-an". let them experience a part of what you think that made you survive up until now.....
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Old 12-07-2005, 09:14 AM
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exactly pridi...age or social status is not a basis of one's mature disposition...if il be a parent, il let my kids experience what i have experienced in my younger stage coz anha man gud nimo mahiwban kung unsa na ka mature ang usa ka taw sa iyang mga experiences...
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Old 12-07-2005, 10:23 AM
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pero nganu manang uban na mature naka bantayan lang gihapon ka na murag batang gamay.......
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Default Re: At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

i can tell that this is based on the thread-starter's personal experience.

well, here's my two cents.

well, if you feel like you are ready to start on your own, go ahead. your wanting to be independent might teach you how it is to grow up and mature all by yourself. but be aware that time,that living without your parents isn't that easy at all. it doesnt always mean that when a man is ready to earn a living that it would also mean that he is capable enough to survive... emotionaly.

but experience teaches us well. go for it. anyhow, your parents will always be there when you need them. there's no such thing as age limit.
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Old 12-07-2005, 10:30 AM
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reach out and try to make them feel what you are trying to tell them. talk to them. explain. for sure they will understand. everybody loves everybody in the family ayt?
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Old 12-07-2005, 01:07 PM
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@potterbot: 8s really not dat my own experience jud.....

pero not everyone lives wid der parents divah.... ang uban na a ra sa ila guardian..... yah rayt try to reach out pero wat f dey won't try to understand u jud....

my point lang is dili man sa molahi ka, ako lang kay ang pagsalig man sa imo mga katigbalay sa imoha ba ....
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as for me as long as mature na ang usa ka anak then dapat na e let go sa parents pro naa gihapon ang guidance gikan nila...dili man basis ang edad kung kanus a e let go ang usa ka anak...what if d ay daku na uyg edad pro immature gihapon..

mao jud na cutieara ky bsan ako karun mama lang ghapon bsag work nko..hehehe n sure immature..heheheh
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Default Re: At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

wala man nay problema kon kanus-a e gawas sa ponder sa ginikanan ang iyahang anak basta ang anak makakaya na nga wala ang iyahang mga ginikanan ug ang mga ginikanan sad makakaya na sad nga wala ang iyahang anak....

kon mosunod gyud ta sa ubang nasud.....inig edad nmo ug 18 anyos mao gyud nay saktong higayon nga mo buwag na ta sa atong mga ginikanan....pero tungod sa atong kultura nga "closed family ties" hala bisan pilay edad ug kon kanus-a ka ganahan mo buwag sa imong mga ginikanan(bisan gani minyo naka nya dili ka gusto mobuwag nila) pwede ra!
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Old 12-07-2005, 02:49 PM
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if u want ur parents to trust u then act ur age...be responsible enough of ur actions...
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Old 12-07-2005, 03:13 PM
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oist mura lagi inyo ko gitabangan.... huhuhuhuhuhuhu

ngayo ra gani ko opinion bah... 8s not really my whole experience jud cguro partly lang...

@cutieara: hey makasaligan baya jud kaso ang uban lang jud doubt jud sa ila pinalanggang anak.... not all pero na a jud in ana na case divah
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Old 12-07-2005, 03:22 PM
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Default Re: At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

i think wala ka nila tabangan....there just posting andexpressing...nyahahahah

theres really no exact age i guess...pero kung ako pabut on...dili ko gusto na mo let go akong parents......gusto ko naa sila permi.....
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Old 12-07-2005, 08:43 PM
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Default Re: At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

Dili pod na sakto greystroke. Parents should let go of their kids somehow. Remember dili baya forever naa imo parents. What if wala na sila?

I guess at some point in your life mo assert ka sa imong kaugalingon. Try not to be dependent on your parents. A good example is mo eskwela ka sa layo. No relatives. No parents. Its a test of how will survive. Para sa panahon na nga mga bagyo sa kinabuhi mo kuso kuso nimo kabalo naka unsaon pag survive.
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Old 12-07-2005, 09:25 PM
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Default Re: At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

I was 25 when I decided to move out of my mum's house, 'til then my nanay didn't want me to leave... but I told her that I needed to grow up and to discover the real world by myself. And also to realize the truth of her mga "pangaral". ehhehe...

if ever I'd become a parent, ideal age for my kids to move out from the house would probably be 21..maayo ng bata pa kahibaw na kung unsa ang kinabuhi...

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