At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

[lindsay]

asÂ* a parent myself,Â* lettingÂ* go isÂ* not a matter of age or maturity, it is a matter ofÂ* respect andÂ* trust that you haveÂ* for your kids.Â* Â*ifÂ* you trustÂ* theirÂ* decisions inÂ* such earlyÂ* age, you help them develop aÂ* goodÂ* selfÂ* esteem and self worth.Â* you mayÂ* notÂ* like their tastes and the Â* thingsÂ* that they do butÂ* you canÂ* respectÂ* theÂ* person that they become.Â* but you also haveÂ* to setÂ* limits andÂ* that there are consequencesÂ* when those limitsÂ* areÂ* tested andÂ* that you meantÂ* it.Â* kids don'tÂ* haveÂ* to beÂ* outÂ* of theÂ* house forÂ* parentsÂ* to let them go.Â* andÂ* when timeÂ* comes that they decided to be on their own then they knowÂ* that you have faith in them asÂ* a person ,Â* that they can come to you whateverÂ* happens withoutÂ* you judgingÂ* them.Â* let them liveÂ* their life the way they want it, afterÂ* all it'sÂ* theirÂ* life.Â* just beÂ* there when they need you.

i don'tÂ* believe that you haveÂ* to makeÂ* kids experience financial hardships for them to know howÂ* it is.Â* Â* instead teach them howÂ* to earn it, that they have to work for it not just take it, and that thereÂ* are thingsÂ* they canÂ* do to make money.

i grow up in poverty andÂ* i don'tÂ* want my kidÂ* to experience what i haveÂ* been through asÂ* a kid, neverÂ* ever if i can help it.Â* but that does notÂ* meanÂ* that everythingÂ* isÂ* easy for him.Â*there'sÂ* a lotÂ* of things a parentÂ* can do without making the kid go though it. talk to them aboutÂ* yourÂ* experiences, teach them howÂ* to appreciateÂ* what they have, teach them howÂ* to share. keep educatingÂ* them aboutÂ* it.

it'sÂ* easy for people to say do this orÂ* don'tÂ* do that to your kids when they are notÂ* a parentÂ* themselves.Â* beÂ* a parent first then you knowÂ* what areÂ* theÂ* do's andÂ* don'ts,Â* and it's not the one's Â* that youÂ* thought they are or the one's that you read in books.


as for my son,Â* he's most likely to move outÂ* at 18Â* to go college sinceÂ* weÂ* are in theÂ* states.Â* butÂ* not for good yet sinceÂ* weÂ* probablyÂ* still help him until he'sÂ* done.Â*

[junenine]

kon naa nay trabaho unya maka afford na sila ug rent or pay their mortgage and all the monthly bills, but if they are not yet ready to move out, well I just have to let them stay on the basement or in the attic.

[Streetcar]

My 23 yr. old daughter still lives at home with me very much enjoying her single life as a christian and youth leader. She is already considered an adult in America from 18 up. That is the legal adult age. Anyhow she lives with me rent free, food free and free everything and she is a very responsible kid. She bought her own car out of her own salary and pays for her monthly car payments and insurance. I always tell her to save money now because she will never have it this good with Mom.

[captpoloy]

its all about stability, how stable you really are. lain man gud na kung mananghid nka na mo gawas sa poder sa imo parents, then mo balik ra diay ka kay dili nimo makaya... my dad for instance, he was still 15 yrs old when he went out under his parents care.

[jd_iceblizzard]

basa naa nay enough strength to stand alone...

[enlighten]

I'm almost 30 and still live at home maybe I will live alone if I have my partner in life...I still enjoy living with my family

[edgeknife]

Well, kabataan jud?? hehehe dapat if he/she is responsible enough and matured, then pwede na siya mo biya sa iya parents. Dili dali ang pag biya sa ila parents uy. It needs wise decision before letting yourself let go sa mga parents.

[boknoy8]

DEPENDE IF NAA NA CYA STABLE JOB

[sassy_faith]

It depends, here sa US kadaghanan pag 18 independant na sila, pero diha sa ato, bisan nang gungis na suksok gihapon sa parents.

[marix24_7]

Quote: Originally Posted by sassy_faith It depends, here sa US kadaghanan pag 18 independant na sila, pero diha sa ato, bisan nang gungis na suksok gihapon sa parents.

mao jud... bsan mga lagas na. heheheh...

[kd19orcinus]

Parents know best when they are supposed to set free their children... but the guidance should still be there... and they should always be available everytime their children ask for guidance... in my case, i still need them though i'm already 22. sometimes, when i get confused on making decision, i usually ask their advise

[dade]

if he can stand on his own and be capable of independent living

[mikogerald]

In America 18 years old biya na! but in Philippines mu ingon kag 60 naa gyapon na sa parents. kay grabe au mga filipino kong bout sa family na.

[estebanJOBS]

dili na sa age oy! pag maka uyab na gani bisan unsa pay age - nah let go na lang

[mariox]

18

parents should guide and not rule our lives...