dapat bang masuya kay naminyo na ang uban?

[pissed off]

before, i didnt want to get married gyud kay i dont want to experience what we xperienced ba nga gubot ang family, palahubog ang amahan. but now nga 31 na ko, i feel pud nga nice siguro nga naa ko partner in life, so masuya ko sa uban. pero i think i'd rather be a single mother rather than have an abusive husband. I want a baby na gyud. kuyawan lang pid ko nga ako ra usa, unya most likely my family won't approve

[pissed off]

but nicer gyud nga married with a loving and responsible husband, kung di na moabot, aw di but i want a baby. im not advertising myself ha! heheheh, just expressing what i feel, emo time!

[maddox_pitt]

why do girls think of that noh?? baby without a hubby....
sa una i thought mas okay na kay wa'y libog...murag, it's all up to you...
pero, maybe sad much better ang with a husband..para complete family.. lucky for those who have found their partners in life

[pissed off]

as I said, nice nga married with a loving and responsible husband! if dili moabot, i'd rather have a baby.

my parents are married, we have a nice house, my dad was a seaman, there was money (kung mangayo ko), but my dad was alcoholic. do you think we're happy? nope! a month or two after he's home, the tension was unbearable! we had to call the police a few times in the middle of the night. my uncle and aunt had to come to our house at 1 in the morning to help us! it was a painful lesson about human nature.

@maddoxu ~ u ask why i think about just having a baby without a hubby? d answer is, pure fear! that history repeats itself.

im sure you'll say, everything is a risk. that everyone is not like that. well, i know that, but fear is irrational, as im sure you know. so until i find that person who will make me feel secure (and i don't mean financially) and loved, i'd choose a baby over a man

[Blackjellybean27]

Better not be married kng di ready! Like me, married at 19... Although I was well provided for financially but I had to work k ma shy man ko sa parents ko and sa parents ng ex hubby ko if I leave the finances up to them lang. Yup, take note EX hubby.. hehehe! I was not ready to get married, pero k my ex proposed to me and a young girl at 19 being proposed to? soooossss! na excited ko.. bad move for me!

[baye`]

bali cguro.. dapat masuya ang mga minyo sa mga single. hehe

[miyay]

Quote: Originally Posted by pissed off before, i didnt want to get married gyud kay i dont want to experience what we xperienced ba nga gubot ang family, palahubog ang amahan. but now nga 31 na ko, i feel pud nga nice siguro nga naa ko partner in life, so masuya ko sa uban. pero i think i'd rather be a single mother rather than have an abusive husband. I want a baby na gyud. kuyawan lang pid ko nga ako ra usa, unya most likely my family won't approve

hala, pareha ta. alcoholic sad si papa pero dili abusive/violent. sabaan lang..hehehe
but i guess, this is one of the reasons why turn off kaayo ko og mga relationships. i have a fatalistic view of history repeating itself. di nako feel na mahimo og sugar mama sa ako husband or have an alcoholic husband. i enjoy being single, i'm 29 now. but i would like to have babies, 3 or 5 will do. they don't have to be mine, i'll still love them as my own

[poisontree]

do not like to get married for many reasons .
bt if i do, i know it'll not be because of suya or pressure reasons

[Fern]

lolz.. happpy ko kay akong salary is my own....

but someday.... i will have a wife and kids... and see my children have a family of their own .

[crazy_lazy]

DILI ka dapat masuya if married na ang uban....married life is not as easy as you think it is.. dapat strong na dyud daan inyo foundation sa relationship with your partner kay wen nanay kids, nay times nga dili mo mgkasinabot samot na kay same mo ng adjust sa inyong new life...and dapt you both practice communication para ayos dayon mga problema...bsta marriage is not the thing to be envied sa imong mga kaila..your time will come and dapt ready napud mo sa imong partner emotionally and financially..=)

[pollybusngiw]

njoy sa sa imo pgka single....dli btaw lumba ang marriage...hehehehe....

[rubadub89]

some are destined to be single........pero i hope na dli na mahitabo nimo.....

[princes_star]

ako wala gyud.. im even thankful na wala intawn ko nagpa ilad.. hahah

[chill_angel25]

ngano gud tawn masuya ka?, may mana ug contest.

[destinee]

haha! noooooooo..
di ko masuya kay napa kos akong early 20's..
dali ra au sulti sa vows, ug minyo2 pro nah di jud lalim once minyo na jud..
it's TOO SCARY and RISKY..