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Old 10-13-2009, 07:19 PM
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Default unsa imong buhaton kunbg imong mama ug papa naay mga kabit

guys mag-unsa mo kung inyong mama naay lain boyfriend ug imong papa naa na pud lain gf. in my case my mother is at her 40s and my father (my step father nga ako nga gitrato as my real father) is at his 50s. they were married for 17 years na. they are not yet divorced nor separated. and still living under the same roof. me and my siblings are all adults. ako wala pa ko kadawat sa sitwasyon mao mangayo ko ug inputs from you guys. nagsakit pa gihapon akong buot. this month pa man gud naku nahibaw-an pagpuyo nako balik sa ilahang house. --- karon nihawa na pud ko sa ilahang house.
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Old 10-13-2009, 09:45 PM
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Me: naa diay moy mga lain na?

Mom/Pop: uu

Me: ah ok. whatever. you're both adults and i don't want to be your parent. good luck.
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Old 10-13-2009, 09:48 PM
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you and your siblings are already adults so this shouldn't be a cause for concern. let your parents do whatever the heck they wanna do. this may sound weird but aren't you supposed to be happy for them?
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Old 10-14-2009, 01:05 PM
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i could be happy pero they should separate legally before having another lover outside marriage.


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Old 10-14-2009, 03:35 PM
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tagae nalang na sila chance kay medyu tagorets naman pud...pero ug tnarong dapat mag separate sila legally wc can be costly sad hinoon. basin ug dala ranas gitawag nga katigowangun...midlife crisis...
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Old 10-15-2009, 08:35 AM
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Here in the Phil mura kapoy ug gasto na man na mag legal separation. It may be d rite ting 2 do but its not practical. Depends on hu u r protecting but since adult na man mo & ndependent na might as well try 2 talk some sense into their heads 1st. Kung d mamati pasagadan na lang.
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Old 10-15-2009, 08:57 AM
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Add'l input bro ... mao na ni resulta kay naa man ta sa Phil gud. Mga pipol gusto jud kasal church bahala gasto. We frown on divorce & couples hu r just living in. But most of us dont understand dat in every marriage once the novelty wears off sumo na tan aw face u wife/husband. & dat *** is a vital part of a person's being. Not every husband has d discipline to control his urges & not every wife has d passion & time to attend to such needs, or vice versa.
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Old 10-15-2009, 12:25 PM
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for me, as a daughter, i get them down for a discussion. i mean, i have the ryt to ask questions and from their i'll give my opinions and inputs as to what i'm feeling bout the situation. mature nga dicussion. i understand their hunt for happiness but emotionally im involve. ipray nalang nako nga kun unsay decision sa usat usa mao untay maka au sa tanan.
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(intro)first mo adto ka sa kabit sa imong mama...(chorus) imong pangayoan money etc.. (2nd verse) mo adto ka sa kabit sa imong papa imong pangayoan money etc... the nxt day.. repeat chorus to 2nd verse..
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Old 12-12-2009, 07:01 PM
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Pasagdahi na lang na sila kay tiguwang na na sila. Wala ta kahibaw ug unsa juy reasons nganong na ingon ana na sila. Dawata na lang gud nga ingon ana then e include na lang sa imong mga prayers nga unta malipayon sila.
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Old 12-13-2009, 05:08 PM
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Since all of you are adult... invite your siblings and parents let's say to a dinner with a privacy and discuss it with your family members. and respect what ever decisions your parents they may have that would make them happy. As long as that decision will not have a negative impact among your siblings.
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Old 12-13-2009, 11:10 PM
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ill be a little jealous, only because im the only child. so mejo ang attention mu divert na. hehe.
but in the long run, ill let them be. 'cause if theyre not happy with each other, then i hope they are happy with their new partners.
but d ko ka relate gamay coz my parents are in their 60's and separated. both dont have respective partners yet. i said yet, coz malay mo dba? hehehe.
but i hope to reconcile them if possible, coz it's kinda hard for me to take care of both of them at the same time and they live so far from each other. sigh! that is, if theyre willing to be reconciled lang ha. i wont force them if they cant stand each other.
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pasagdi sila og i ampo sis.
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kung karn nga age nkO? bahala cla..if suana? ambot nila.. haha
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then what if usa ray naay kabit? looy sa usa.. saunz nalang?
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