OK ra ba matulog ang girl sa balay sa lalake?

[Siobhan]

Ngayo ko opinion ninyo about ani na sitution;

Ang girl kay didto nakatulog sa balay sa lalake then nagkameet na noon cya sa parents sa lalake in a very odd way i mean nagkita cla because didto nakatulog ang girl sa balay sa laki.. no proper introduction.......nya mo ana pa jud ang mama sa guy 'mga wala daw ulaw' alangan man pud lain man jud ang girl matulog sa balay sa guy pero sa guy its OKAY ra since wala man clay tarong na relationship with his mother. Mo ana ra pud cya na its his own way para magpalagut sa iyang mama which is very unfair sa part sa girl kay mahulog man na basa ang papel sa girl...and kani na guy known na kaau na magdala2 ug bae sa iyang room......Ngau tako unsaon nako pag convince ang guy na bati jud ang magdala ug bae sa iyang room kamahulog jud n na wala cyay respeto sa iyang parents.

Unsaon sad nako pagrestore sa iyang respect sa iyang mother kay mura wala na jud bale wala niya iya mama...

[DeathFox]

Whats the problem with that if natulog ra sya, mas dakog poblema if naa ang girl sa house sa laki then wala sila nangatulag >_>

[akosabni]

@siobhan

unsay relationship nimo sa lalake? 'coz kong clingan ra ka, i suggest you mind your own business

[Siobhan]

uyab tawn........ hilig man ang guy magdala ug uyab sa balay.. then naatlan jud ko naingnan sa iyang mother na mga walay ulaw.....

[joshbonz]

are you the girl, the one whom you talk about sleeping in the guy's house?

Yes, lain jud ang matog sa guy's house especially in your case that you met his parents only after you woke up and face up looking into his mother's face... It's TOTALLY disrepectful jud..

Did you or the girl did some 'acts' when you/girl slept in the guy's room/house? naay nahitabo ba nila? but bisan nag wala pa.. insulto kaau jud sa parents sa guy.. even if the guy is just asking for attention sa iyang parents...

siob bro/sis..you dont have to help the guy restore sa iyang respect sa iyang mom.. it's a family affair naman.. unless your part of their family..

if you intrude in their family affairs, then you have no right to join in. Family as thick as blood will come to pass nga mu balik ra nya na iyang respect sa iyang mom.. when time comes their family will meet some problems..

bear in mind..Lisod ang tao pamat.on.. especially if nagmata na daan..

[oOmUnKyOo]

ok ra na oi...bsta natulog ra...pero ana nga situation murag bad sad nah...hehehe

[Siobhan]

tnx joshbonz pero unsaon nako pag tell ang guy na bati if mao naman na iyang naandan? unsaon nako pag ingon niya na dili nako moadto sa ila?

bahin sa amo gibuhat sa iyang room well,,,wala jud 'sexual intercourse' nahitabo pero ang guy cge ug suggest and im so proud na ako jud na resist...kiss2 noon....

[joshbonz]

siob..

will power raman na.. d kapugos ang guy if d naka ganahan moadto sa ilaha.. (judging though on the way you write basing on this guy.. I have the notion nga you like him as well.. correct sa?)

Akong best advise nimo sis sa.. LIKAYI nalang na cya.. you have tarnish yourself and your reputation na infront sa iyang mama.. There's no arguing that. Learn and move on.. Don't add insults to injury na.

Enough na nga you have learn to distant yourself from him and to his family, it's the best thing you can give to yourself and to her mom nga gi value pud nimo ang imong dungog.

Once ang reputation ma tarnish na raba.. you can't bring and raise it up na jud.. BUT you can learn to slowly build it up again.. and for now.. Start from the bottom.. DISTANT YOURSELF from your 'friend'

It's one step at at time...

CHEERS!!!

[Siobhan]

@joshbonz thanks kaau........

pero do i have to let go the guy at the same time?

[peewee_toot]

^^dnha na mn na makita sis kng love ba jd ka sa guy... f he respects u and ur decision. but naa ra jd na nmo ang tanan. just weigh everything.

[Siobhan]

hinoon sad but mas love jud nako akong reputation..bad au ko noh....pero mura d naman jud nako ma convince ang guy gud......

[mejie]

@joshbonz


bro ask lang ko ha.. ok sad imong suggestion, kung ako ang pangutan on in ana sad jud e sulti nako nga bati jud na... but huna2 lang sad nako ba nga wat if dri na nahitabo nko nga ang grl ni adto sa akong room. dli na jud ko kaingon nga bad na... ug ikaw kha bro ge in ana sa imong gf, maka ingon pa ba ka nga sayop na? i dont think so.... ask ra na bro ha... peace... ^^

[joshbonz]

Quote: Originally Posted by Siobhan @joshbonz thanks kaau........ pero do i have to let go the guy at the same time?

as i said, one step at a time.. I know you love him naman.. murag naka sense na jud ko.. BUT.. remember sis.. you rep has been tainted na.. especially sa iyang mom.. bisag unsaon pa jud nimo.. di na nimo mausab ang humana...

DISTANCE.. its one way you can ponder your actions.. whether sakto imong gbuhat atong tyma or not..
DISTANCE.. To re examine if you deserve something better pa or you want to stick w/ the same ..
DISTANCE.. ways to explore oneself and w/ other people.. Im sure tingali you have other friends other than 'him'. Don't focus your world only to him..I think your still young to mind other people's problem..

most importantly.. ENJOY your life now.. go out meet other people.. have fun and explore new things.. make yourself busy.. it's one way of having and experiencing a good and joyful life..

it's your life and you deserve it!

[captstar]

as long as there's nothing immoral, ok ra kaau...it's a gesture of hospitality...

[DeathFox]

Wait... so naay nahitabi? Jeez, kabutol pud sa girl. If the guy is too cheap na mucheck-in na lang then di jyud niya love ng bayi. Pila ragud ng short-time sa hotel sogo >_>