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#76
08-15-2008, 10:40 AM
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#78
08-27-2008, 12:11 PM
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Just talk to your husband openly about it. No, don't nag. Talk in a very calm and nonconfronting voice. Be honest, tell him what you found out and how you feel about it... without imposing yourself to him altogether. You see, there is a reason why your husband has "another"... there's always a reason, trust me. Just ask him what he thinks is lacking in you that makes him feel that he needs somebody else. Be strong. You will get through it.
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#84
08-27-2008, 04:56 PM
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my God. grabeha ana nga tawhana wui. unsa nman mong mga laki wui? di jud mko makontento sa isa ka bangag? lami-a ninyo pang panitan tapos ilabay sa dagat wui...anyway, i felt so sorry bout what happen. grabeha. pero sa text sa bae wa man cla message nga something is going fishy.. pero basing to what your husband is acting, ngano gna tago man niya ang pag text2x nga text ra man na, ngano gtago sad niya ang pagpalit sa sim? mau gani na kay palit sad ka sun tapos mag col2x nlng sad mong duha... i cant say something is really fishy, i cant say they have a relationship that is being more than friends...pero, i dont really get it ngano i-hide pa nya sa imo ang pag txt2x sa girl. anyway, miskan cguro ako i cant trust him anymore... you remind me of what my adviser in HS told us...if ever daw iya bana mangabit, iya daw papili-on, and if he choose the other, she'll let him go.And if he wont come back in her arms, ok ra sad daw, its his lost...but if he did come back in her arms again, she's sure daw na he will be foreverly hers na. why? mao na atong gtawag na TAGAM or REALIZATION... hahaha.. and if that will happen to me, i think ill do the same to what my adviser said.ill do that if i cant hang on anymore...and please dont reason out the baby for both of you to stick it. coz luoy man ghapon ang bata, its not easy seing your parents fighting.she even told us this quote:"when you learn to love, you then have to learn to let go"...i think you should give that man of yours another chance, everybody deserve a second chance as what they say... pero kung ikaw di na nmo* kaya ang situation...its your decision...good luck sis!!! and have a healthy baby....and wonderful life..
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#85
08-27-2008, 08:41 PM
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mam, as far as I can read, there is nothing in their messages that, in any way, indicate an intimate relationship. Either that, or they must be good at pretending to be nothing more than friends.
but first thing's first. don't let malice get the better of you. It's this negative thinking that really messes up a good relationship. Remember, you said they were friends before you even came into his life permanently, so it would be bad if you destroyed a friendship for reasons of jealousy. Learn to let a little of him go. Besides, what better way to prove if you're right or wrong by letting him go along with his deed, which I am still not convinced to be anything more but friends talking. your hubby is just being a gentleman. let it go. it would be much more disturbing if you see him send messages treating someone as if it were his b*tch. you get me? by the looks of it, it shows that your hubby is a sweet guy - even to his female friends - but he doesn't appear to be following through on it. in other words, wala gi seryoso. we guys are good with idle talk. sakay2x lang gud. wala man mawala nimo if mag text lang siya diha. nothing shows you a person's character better than the way he is with other people - especially towards women. isn't that probably one of the things you love about him? coz i swear to you, sis, if your guy was a pig to other women, chances are, he would be the same to you. so be thankful that your husband is that decent. how did he court you? what was he like when you were still friends? if he treats that girl as special than you, then you may have reason to be doubtful but if his treatment to her is something you see all too familiar then why worry? he's just being him. if you take that away from him then, chances are, you may as well have taken away what he is to you. that's why think first what you want to change coz it may affect you too. if you don't get what I mean about think of this analogy: A certain flower requires a bee to bloom and bear fruit. Just because gisamokan ka sa buyog doesn't mean you can get rid of it without a consequence. How then will it be able to feed you if it cannot pollinate? (pardon me, i can't find a better analogy than this.) |
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#86
08-27-2008, 10:03 PM
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