HELP I caught my husband nga naay ka text

[Puzlia]

Nah ana man jud na, mga laki na pinoy hilig jud ug daghang baye the more the merrier, unya mura raba daghang kwarta, uban sad baye mag pailad sad ug laki.

[ceevzi]

thanks kau for sharing sa inyo mga ideas ug mga advices...it helps me a lot.

[ceevzi]

sakitan jud ko sa una, pasagdae lang ko na ako i-recall ang past ha.. kay 2 months ako tiyan magsige pa ko ato ug suka-suka niya pamiskolan nko ya fon dili makontak kay nagchange ug sim..pero sige nalang...kay sa giingon niya na " i'm almost, wala jud ko totally nadala"

before muna ako na hunahuna-an na makigtxmyt sad ko maski dili ko hilig ako nalng pugson ako kaugalingon for revenge lang ba kaya but later on ako na realize na if tugbangan nako basin mo worst ang situation...louy pud ako baby, diba? i decided na pasaylo-on nko siya but mao lage naa pa jud ako mga fears..but with the help ninyo guys..m a bit ok..

[chaowix]

don't be sad kaayo mam. your carrying a baby baya. mo reflect na sa baby. i know sakit pud gyud. storyae lang na. be open and calm and mostly, Ask the Lord what He wants you to do. ask for guidance always

[necrotic freak]

Quote: Originally Posted by ceevzi sakitan jud ko sa una, pasagdae lang ko na ako i-recall ang past ha.. kay 2 months ako tiyan magsige pa ko ato ug suka-suka niya pamiskolan nko ya fon dili makontak kay nagchange ug sim..pero sige nalang...kay sa giingon niya na " i'm almost, wala jud ko totally nadala" before muna ako na hunahuna-an na makigtxmyt sad ko maski dili ko hilig ako nalng pugson ako kaugalingon for revenge lang ba kaya but later on ako na realize na if tugbangan nako basin mo worst ang situation...louy pud ako baby, diba? i decided na pasaylo-on nko siya but mao lage naa pa jud ako mga fears..but with the help ninyo guys..m a bit ok..

bitaw oi mas maayo gyud pasaylo-on nalang nimo imo bana.. i-ampo nalang na siya nga dili na gyud ma tintal.. kini man sad gud uban babae mao gyud mag una2x ug panintal ug mo usab pa gyud gani hadloka nga basin maka mata ra nya ka nga wala nakay imoha.. hehehe

[over[s]eer]

If you can't trust your husband such that you will ask advise from the forums, I suggest you take your time away from him.

Maski unsa pa ang i-advise sa mga tao diri, kung wala na jud kay trust (which is evident kay naa na ka sa forums), in the end, mubalik gihapon ni na problem - may be different problem, pero mao ra ghapon ang rason - lack of trust.

Seriously, I understand your point, pero in this case man gud, you should talk to your partner. Kung dili ka convinced sa iyang mga isulti, then tell him. I think what you need now is ang assurance from him (not from other people) na ikaw lng jud ang iya.

Just my 2 cents.

[marlboro]

let him realize nga important ka niya..yaw talk niya for a month. I wont suggest nga mag biga2x sad ka kay maka ingon na sya nga pwede na sad sila sa girl.

that will work with me, dunno lang with your husband. Based lang on personal experience

[dhongskee]

nasakpan nimo? stay positive.....as long as girl iya ka text ok lang, it wud be unusual kon guy iya ka text.....by that time siguro anha kana mo declare ug marshall law......

[DyslexicHeart]

Cee, I cannot blame you for your continued distrust with your husband. Trust is difficult to rebuild once it is broken. What seems to be a harmless friendly exchange of text messages could be the beginning of emotional infidelity. I cannot blame you for whatever it is you are feeling right now (anger, sadness, etc.) especially that you are in a pregnant state when emotions are more magnified due to maternal hormonal upheaval.

For the sake of the child you are carrying, take care of yourself, physically, emotionally and psychologically. Do not allow the low ones to totally consume you. It was wise for you though to allow yourself to vent out your feelings by opening a thread and receive empathy and pieces of advice from forum members. Find ways to enjoy and appreciate yourself. Not only will it benefit you but your little blessing as well. Focus more of your attention to the cutie you have inside!

As for your "way bu-ot nga anab", how dare he do this to you when you are at such a very delicate state! Some men (especially the egocentric ones and the egotrippers who want to have the best of both worlds) would say it is just a casual thing but I say it is phooey to the nth degree. If he is indeed remorseful, he should find means to win the trust back. And if he is intelligent enough, he should realize that every now and then, your recollection of his misdeed is part of the repercussions of his displeasing act. However, Cee, try to keep this resurfacing at a minimum for the benefit of your child and your emotion well-being.

Perhaps, your "anab" may be repenting. Difficult as it may be, give him a chance to prove he is worthy of your love and trust again...

[inyourface]

maygani walay "luvu2" sa mga txt! delikado..

yaw kaau pa-apekto kay ang baby

[Abby_mcwayne]

Quote: Originally Posted by ceevzi sakitan jud ko sa una, pasagdae lang ko na ako i-recall ang past ha.. kay 2 months ako tiyan magsige pa ko ato ug suka-suka niya pamiskolan nko ya fon dili makontak kay nagchange ug sim..pero sige nalang...kay sa giingon niya na " i'm almost, wala jud ko totally nadala" before muna ako na hunahuna-an na makigtxmyt sad ko maski dili ko hilig ako nalng pugson ako kaugalingon for revenge lang ba kaya but later on ako na realize na if tugbangan nako basin mo worst ang situation...louy pud ako baby, diba? i decided na pasaylo-on nko siya but mao lage naa pa jud ako mga fears..but with the help ninyo guys..m a bit ok..

you have my sympathy sis.. i understand mao ni ang time na mas vulnerable ka karon labi na preggy ka..
what i can say is, pasaylua na lang jud (since first offense man) but keep your eyes open.. never disregard your instinct kay tinuod jud ang woman's intuition.. and always pray to God..

i wish you all the best sis..

[tapsikret]

i feel for you sis.. unsaon ang lalaki by nature is uwagan gyud.. and for sure dili maka huwat ug 9 months+3 months nga healing.. hehehe.. storyahi lang gyud ni ninyo problema.. the guy should realize that he is slowly throwing away the years that trust that he build within years for a new relationship that if full of uncertainty.. for me cheap move.. i would throw away the years nga amo gi build just for a night of fun..

[snussy]

oh the last time my husband did some stupid things sa frenster ug sa text..walai dugay2x ug walai daghan storya i kicked him out of the house. i told him if u cant behave urself and be faithful then get out of our lives (referring to me and my kids)..mao toh para dili cya maka yawyaw ako gihatod iyang things sa ila balay. mao toh after ato,wala na nag ki-at cya.

always let them see nga wala ta mag depend nila kay wen u start to show that u are weak without them, mu gara man gud na sila dayon.

[DyslexicHeart]

Quote: Originally Posted by snussy oh the last time my husband did some stupid things sa frenster ug sa text..walai dugay2x ug walai daghan storya i kicked him out of the house. i told him if u cant behave urself and be faithful then get out of our lives (referring to me and my kids)..mao toh para dili cya maka yawyaw ako gihatod iyang things sa ila balay. mao toh after ato,wala na nag ki-at cya. always let them see nga wala ta mag depend nila kay wen u start to show that u are weak without them, mu gara man gud na sila dayon.

Agree ko ani sisterette... Super agree gyud...
Kanang makakita na sila na mura clingy kaayo ta nila, nga ato kalibutan mura sa ila lang ga-revolve, asus, magsalig ug mugara-gara.

Kani man gud mga anabs, mangita ug thrill, kanang makapukaw sa ila dugo, etc.
Maayo raba kaayo mudala ug iring-iring sa uban pero sa misis, taken for granted nila or complacent kay assured man nga forever di sila biyaan.

Ako sad mao ni ako linya sa ako anab kung mu andar ang pagka-amew... "Mabuhi mi sa imong mga anak nga wala ka... I know where to get my resources..."

[baguiohar]

You know dli sad baya na sala sa laki. Sometimes sala sad bya na sa babae. Why?

Naa tendecy ang mga babae na dli na mag dress up. Dli na mag pa sexy, ang laki raba kay visual na tao.

So kong lood na kaayo mo tanawon, wala nay dress up2x nya naay lain na mag pa gwapa gyud. of course madala gyud.

nya pangutana? Kinsa manang sala b?

although sala na sa laki. Partly pud ang babae.

Remember a happy and satisfied man is less likely to get seduced.