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Old 07-28-2008, 02:06 PM
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as anak nga naa work and single i think murag mag.expect gamay ato parents nga mutunol bisan gamay lang... at least bah naa ka share dli nalang mag.wait nga manghuwam pa ang parents kay lisod na baya... its time nasad to give them a life nga medyo hayahay since mana man school...
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Old 07-28-2008, 02:40 PM
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for me, it's very normal sa atong culture to help our parents and yes, ok kaayo na mohatag or mo share sa atong blessing sa atong parents, especially kay Mama

Admire sad ko sa USA na culture, kay ang parents jud mangita paagi na when their children grew up they make sure na they can give all kinds of support to them especially financially then when they see na ilang mga anak is stable to have their own lives they let them be kung unsa ilang mahitabo sa ilang life sa ato kay bali man, naay ang ubang family i don't say all but reality lang jud naa man, nga patuyang panganak para maoy moluwas nila.... waaaah ni simang man ko.. pag chure oi! wala lang nahan lang ko mention anah! hehehe
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even if parents don't ask for support, malipay gyud na sila if you try to give them financial support. sometimes i give money indirectly cause i know dili dawaton ni mama ang money.. I have to think of ways to have her accept my money... hehe.. besides, malipay kaayu ku na makatabang ku niya.. After many long years of being a single mom, dapat aku nasad mukayud para sa aku mama...
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Old 07-29-2008, 04:23 AM
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in my case.. even if naa nko family on my own..i still give money to my parents.. bisan di cla mag ask..esp if birthday or naay special occassions... juz pasasalamat sa ilaha sacrifices for me sa una...it feels great too if you can see their smiles and how touched they are for the thought,,,
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do u think its a must for u to give money to your parents now that u have ur own job?

please share your thoughts...

for me its not a must pero i want to help them man sad sa kalisod sa life sa pinas... and since single pa man ko, ok ra kay wala pa man lain gigastuhan aside from myself... hehehe
uhmm yany ardillio ka?? bigfoot sauna??
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Old 07-30-2008, 12:10 AM
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in me, dli tanan ihatag... i gave 1/3 of it.
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Old 07-30-2008, 01:49 PM
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i don't think it's a must. however naa man gud sa atong culture ang mo.tanaw ug utang na loob sa atong parents. so yeah, from time to time i do give. but dili jud pirmi. kai i am not earning that much man. and besides wa man pud sila nagkalisud. they are also earning.
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its not a must, its a should....
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Old 09-06-2008, 09:21 PM
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i give money to both of my parents every payday! i believe it's the least thing i can do to repay them.. and im happy doin it.. no complains..but mura lng kog inahan nuon, manawag ko balay ask if nabyran naba ang tubig, suga ug uban pa hehehe
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Old 09-06-2008, 10:00 PM
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♥ i never had an experience giving them, they're richer than me heheheh ♥
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Old 09-06-2008, 10:23 PM
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absolutely hatag ko...
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Old 09-07-2008, 03:45 AM
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I think it better. But not necessary give cash, pwede pud help pay some bills of the house
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Old 09-07-2008, 11:55 AM
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♥ I salute to all of you guys who gave money to your parents ♥
gifts ra ako ihatag, not money...
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Old 09-07-2008, 12:20 PM
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dili ko hatag money nila kay they're both working.
and besides, gipadako sad sila na walay responsibility ang anak sa parents but the other way around.
so mao nay ila. gipadako me not conforming to society's culture... respect for them is priceless
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Old 09-07-2008, 12:25 PM
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Nice to give back gamay to your parents but not necessary. I don't give money to them because naa pa cla work. They said Better daw to save money para sa akong self para future.

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