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Originally Posted by yvonne6
guys, i need your opinion on this particular situation. i have a bf for almost 5 years now. we have a 3 year old baby boy. i was previously married and have kids from that failed marriage. my bf knew about this and so his family. he is yonger than i am. when we started, my finances was okay. we were okay. problems started when i got pregnant by accident. he tried to back off from his obligation. i didnt insist at that point. i was financially responsible for the kid alone. he ignored me and the baby inside my womb. he was embarrassed to be with me. when i just gave birth, i learned he cheated on me with a bitch who was sleeping with a lot of guys. i forgave him because our baby was newly born and i wanted him to grow up with a dad. he is very immature and irresponsible. i am always there for him through thick and thin, loving him giving him all the best i can helping him to be his best. he dropped from school because of his addiction for online games. his parents lost their trust in him and i was the only one left believing he can do better. i supported him until we ended up working in the same company. everything went well and we were happy. one day, he suddenly stopped working without prior notice, didnt even resign from work. i didnt know why. then he started hanging out with people i dont know and no longer going home. most of the time, he will come home when its day time already. i cant confront him because he would yell and throw insults on me. i know this is not a manifestation of someone who still respects me. love is no longer a question, i think he has lost it. he would like us to share the kid but he cant treat me nicely. i dont want to rob the kid the chance to grow up knowing his dad but i am scared what values this man would teach my son. is it fair not to let that guy see our baby again? its been five long years, i dont think i have not given him enough chances to change. do you think he is seeing another woman? guys, tanaw ninyo, asshole ra kaau siya? id like to understand what happened along the way. is it really hard to be nice to someone who has given you so much love, infact is the mother of your child?? please give your opinion. thanks
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am in your problem sis actually age doesn't mater already but im thinking his not yet ready in having a family but there is also another possiblity na basin naa siyay mga secreto na wala paka kabalo ako pa nimo sis storya-i siya be seryos but be calm and observe his moves style and attitude if wala siya ka usaban then its your desisyon if mag buwag nal ang mo you know sis am bisan laki ko ha kasagaran baya mag binoang sa babae laki baya gyud pero di tanan laki ing-ana ky ako gani past reverse ako moy nasakitan kaayo but mo forgive man gyud ko and past is past most important is the present even single na lang ta forever basta malipay ta labi pa ika duha nani nakong kinabuhi ky dapat dead naman ko onya kasagaran sad sa babae pili-an gyud ang appearance man gud tan-awon og una mas maayo gyud inner beauty tan-awon og una pero sad noon di man tanan babae ing-ana cause actually getting into a seryos relationship both must love, care , comfort, help, trust, respect, honest and both has good attitudes, moves and style og dili na pang lingaw seryos na gyud na tinarong magkasinabot mong duha og malipayon mo onya ayaw gyud mog buhat anang *** onya nalang og minyo na mo