been there
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i've actually been there (reading ur letter brought back d pain na pud). almost the same ang atong situation coz it also hapend wen my husband transferd to a call center. at 1st i was actually clueless of y the sudden change of attitude on his part...pero later nasakpan ra gyud nako..he had another one. Like you, i couldn't imagine living my life w/o him..plus we had a kid pa....so i fought for him. But since i am not the "eskandalosa" type, the most that i did was cry my heart out until wala nay motulo nga luha..literally..promise!...we decided to part ways pero everyday cge sya visit to check on our son..but i knew he really missed me too. Then cge lang ko pray...then one day kalit lang balik sya asked for 4giveness.. Ryt now we r very happy na gyud. Basta ako advice nimo is if its really dat hard 4 u to let go..then u should fight for it...his reason myt not be a 3rd party..it could be something else..pero watever it is, u should be willing to work it out. Kapoy, sakit and lisod..but if u really want him bak...dont give up right away. Pray for His guidance pud.
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