well, im so sorry to hear about your situation. i see where you're coming from. i don't intend to have a negative notion about your bf but i guess there must be something going on in the background. i mean a third party is possibly existing or starting to exist maybe. just when you mentioned that he's been so short-tempered lately and gets angry at the silliest things,and that he loves going out now however he's not even allowing you to go with him and have fun together... the same things happened when my relationship with my ex-gf was nearly coming to an end. i started to question her if there's something going on that she might wanna tell me so that i wouldn't end up like a fool. she denied it a couple of times, although the truth always has its way to just come out of the open, without any effort, i knew that she had an affair and she just didn't find the perfect timing to break up with me and end the relationship because she was too weak to admit that she had been unfaithful. i did everything, same as you did, even running errands for her all the time to the extent that i question myself if i was a boyfriend or a helper. i call it crazy in love and it should be the case anymore. so in your situation, i should say the symptoms are clear! i suggest you better talk about the issue with him in one sitting rather than being submissive about it. you know there's an issue and both of you have to face it. decide whether you getting hurt now and still have the chance to recover or you getting hurt later and suffer the worst pain you could ever feel. i meant the pain of leaving someone and the pain of being left behind is totally different, and i say the latter is worse! so be careful and good luck...
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